If you discuss against a religious belief that you do not hold/follow your self, how can you be sure you are correct and the actual believers and followers of the belief in discussion is wrong?
Maybe listening is better than claiming to know
I am reminded of the first century A.D.
A man by the name of Jesus, said... "Most truly
I say to you, what we know we speak, and what we have seen we bear witness to, but you do not receive the witness we give. " (John 3:11)
Persons objected to that, but jesus said... "I have the witness greater than that of John, for
the very works that my Father assigned me to accomplish, these works that I am doing, bear witness that the Father sent me. And the Father who sent me has himself borne witness about me. (John 5:36, 37)
Now who told him say that.
“You bear witness about yourself; your witness is not true.” Some screamed.
Jesus said to them: “
Even if I do bear witness about myself, my witness is true, because I know where I came from and where I am going." (John 8:13, 14)
Jesus never said, I do not know. Why? He knew. he knew the truth. It did not matter what men thought. They did not know.
Some time after Jesus left the earthly scene, a man going by the name of John wrote... "
We know that we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one. But we know that the Son of God has come, and he has given us insight so that we may gain the knowledge of the one who is true. And we are in union with the one who is true, by means of his Son Jesus Christ. (1 John 5:19, 20)
I write you, not because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and because no lie originates with the truth. (1 John 2:21)
We originate with God. Whoever comes to know God listens to us; whoever does not originate with God does not listen to us. By this we distinguish the inspired statement of truth from the inspired statement of error. (1 John 4:6)
John didn't say, they - the apostles did not know? Why? They knew. They too had a clear witness from God.
Of them, Jesus said, "If you remain in my word, you will know the truth." (John 8:31, 32)
Today, Jesus' followers do not say, "I do not know the truth." Why? They know. Like Jesus, and his first century followers,
they too have witness that they are commissioned by God.
Their works also bear witness to that fact.
Jesus also said... "By this all will know that you are my disciples - if you have love among yourselves." (John 13:35)
So their unity by love, is also bearing witness to the fact that they are Jesus disciples.
All will know.
However, just as they did in Jesus' day - deny the truth. They do today.
A person who does not believe Jesus is God's son ; that he is in heaven, looking over, and guiding his followers, as he did in the first century, may not see that as a reality.
So it is understandable whan they don't look at things from that perspective.
For a person who does not know these things, I totally agree, they should listen.
Not only listen, but allow themselves to be taught.
Having a humble heart will contribute to this.
Also faith... which many will not have. . . .for faith is not a possession of all people. (2 Thessalonians 3:2)
Of course, it's possible to think one is right, and yet be wrong, but those who are not mistaken, are not mistaken. They know.