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Catholic Officials on Edge After Reports of Priests Using Grindr

stvdv

Veteran Member
I understand that it might amaze you guys, but in Rome we all know how many priests are stable attenders of gay bathouses, gay pubs, gay bars.
Aboveboard. Everybody knows.
Makes sense. Guy gay bar is most safe

Not easy for those following the Bible:
1 lady wink might be the last they get to see

28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eyecauses you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away.It is better for you to lose one part of your bodythan for your whole body to be thrown into hell.30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to depart into hell.…
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
Yes, I agree but the situation with the early bishops and priests in terms of education, patriarchal society, and the need to travel, presented insurmountable problems back then. Very few women could read, the society did not expect or want women to be equal to men, and the need to go from one village to another at times would create a serious problem for women especially.

For an example of the 2nd item: I Timothy 2[12]: But I do not allow a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet.

So, what's probably happening is that you're looking at this issue from post Reformation eyes that was established way after the scriptures were written, thus the conditions were quite different.

Isn't it amazing that I'm saying that you are way too modern? :D

Can I agree totally with you but disagree?

Yes, all of those problems were real. I assume Peter, who was married, understood the difficulty of it all as well as the some of the other Apostles...

BUT.... :D

It certainly didn't change what Paul said that it wasn't a "requirement" but a "best scenario"... but man has this way of making laws where there isn't any law and thus, we have called priests who are definitely called but do not have the gift of celibacy.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
Catholic Officials on Edge After Reports of Priests Using Grindr

I had never heard of The Pillar, although the article raises some interesting questions:

Lott's wife looked back and she was turned into a pillar of society.

I wonder if the Lott story (about Sodom, etc.) was based on the charred bodies of Vesuvius at Herculaneum?

RE: Priests using a Gay hookup site:

At least they have a hobby, though it is banned by scripture and their church. Yet, with consensual sex with other Gay men, at least they leave the poor beleaguered boys alone. The Catholic church was wrong, all these years to hide molesting priests (makes them a party to their actions), and wronger still to declare bankruptcy to hide their mammon from their victims that need compensation.

The unnatural act of celibacy undoubtedly results in priests who molest little boys and seek Gay sex.

Celibacy was required in the Middle Age and Dark Ages as plagues swept Europe. It was because the churches didn't want money going to heirs, it wanted to keep all funds of their clergy.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
Can I agree totally with you but disagree?

Yes, all of those problems were real. I assume Peter, who was married, understood the difficulty of it all as well as the some of the other Apostles...

BUT.... :D

It certainly didn't change what Paul said that it wasn't a "requirement" but a "best scenario"... but man has this way of making laws where there isn't any law and thus, we have called priests who are definitely called but do not have the gift of celibacy.

At least they had each other.
 

Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
Hahahaha. This could be hilarious. Anything that makes it impossible for the Church to instruct people on their sex lives with any credibility has to be a good thing. :D
Just because they don't follow their own advise doesn't mean that they won't offer that advise to the world.

Consider Sarah Palin's daughter (the poster girl for celibacy), who had several kids with several men while unmarried.
 

danieldemol

Veteran Member
Premium Member
I can support allowing married men to join the secular clergy, but nuns are monastics who have chosen a life of renunciation. Marriage is inimical to the very concept.
Forgive my ignorance but what is a "secular clergy"? It sounds like a bit of an oxymoron in the context of Catholicism.
 

exchemist

Veteran Member
Or have I g
Just because they don't follow their own advise doesn't mean that they won't offer that advise to the world.

Consider Sarah Palin's daughter (the poster girl for celibacy), who had several kids with several men while unmarried.
Would that be the unimprovably named "Bristols" Palin? Or have I got that wrong? :D
 

Glaurung

Denizen of Niflheim
Forgive my ignorance but what is a "secular clergy"? It sounds like a bit of an oxymoron in the context of Catholicism.
Secular clergy are clerics who are not members of any religious order. They live in the world (secular) and do not take religious vows. Your typical parish priest is a secular cleric.

Regular clergy are clerics who are members of a religious order. (the Jesuits, the Benedictines, the Franciscans etc). They are 'regular' (regula) in that they live under a religious rule. They are regulated by a religious rule. They take the religious vows of chastity, poverty and obedience.
 

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
Yeah, yeah... It's the sexual acts specifically that are considered "sinful", but what do you think goes on with grindr and bath houses?

Christianity is not about sexual acts between consenting people.
Vice can lead to sin, but homosexuality can be experienced in a monogamous relationship.
 

pearl

Well-Known Member
At a glance the editors of the blog 'the Pillar' obviously represent support for the conservative Roman Curia through various conservative publications which have been taken over from more moderate publications (Catholic News Agency, National Catholic Register etc all becoming the property of Mother Angelica's crowd,EWTN. There have always been homosexuals within the priesthood.

“The problem for heterosexual young men is not the gay culture of seminaries, but the rule of obligatory celibacy,” McBrien said. “That genie is out of the bottle and cannot be put back in. The Roman Catholic Church will have to address the problem of celibacy openly and objectively or the priest shortage will only worsen.” Father Richard McBrien
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Secular clergy are clerics who are not members of any religious order. They live in the world (secular) and do not take religious vows. Your typical parish priest is a secular cleric.

Regular clergy are clerics who are members of a religious order. (the Jesuits, the Benedictines, the Franciscans etc). They are 'regular' (regula) in that they live under a religious rule. They are regulated by a religious rule. They take the religious vows of chastity, poverty and obedience.
The line gets blurry sometimes.

My ex's parish church was run by the Basilian Fathers, a religious order. I don't think that most of the congregation understood the full implications of this.

For instance, it was only after I stopped attending that I found out that the Archdiocese of Toronto's sexual abuse reporting rules didn't apply to that church.
 

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
This report is in Italian, unfortunately.
I can sum it up. A former priest speaks that so many people in the Vatican are gay aboveboard.
And high clerics used to invite their male lovers into their rooms.

 
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Clara Tea

Well-Known Member
I understand that it might amaze you guys, but in Rome we all know how many priests are stable attenders of gay bathouses, gay pubs, gay bars.
Aboveboard. Everybody knows.
In the very same building of the Congregation for the evangelization of peoples (Vatican territory) there is the largest gay spa in Italy.
Preti gay, la doppia vita dei sacerdoti all'ombra del Vaticano: saune e incontri via chat - Il Fatto Quotidiano

They only go to these places to bring religion to sinners.

It's like the young Baptist man who volunteered to sacrifice himself to sin so he could report back to the group (Las Vegas, sex shows, gambling, etc). It was truly scandalous....good thing he warned everyone.
 
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