I actually had no deities, I had pictures and books that I have re-gifted and will donate.
I too had some books that I thought I would like to have read, mostly about the schools of Vedanta, but I realized this was a mind-****, so I donated them to the library. There may be more to go. I was like a kid in a candy store; rather, I was like an octopus with suction cups on my hands, grabbing books from the bookstore with reckless abandon.
Now I find I neither have the time nor inclination to read many of them. I may weed through them again, and at the very least, box them up against the advent of a day when I do have the time and/or inclination to read them.
The feeling of abandonment...
I did not experience this. If we can know God under many different names but He is all the same then who has been abandoned?
I see... thanks.
It's true, as the saying goes: "Jāki rahi bhāvanā jaisi prabhu mūrat dekhi tin taisi" (everyone sees God in his own way, or, God shows Himself to the devotee in a way that the devotee wishes... something like that).
I very often feel that my shrine is too out of control with murthis of Sri Krishna and Sri Ganesha (of course); Lord Shiva, Maa Durga, Maa Lakshmi, Maa Saraswati, Sri Hanuman, Maa Kali, Vedatmata (Maa Gayatri), Ram Parivar and Sri Hanuman, Lord Narasimha. I'm drawn to them for various reasons. I have other small murthis scattered about the house, mostly as decorations.
The only feeling of abandonment could come from the kirtan/dharmachakra group that I used to go to, it's very difficult when one changes path for those left behind. In your week you may have your:
1- weekly religious event that you attend
2- your hang out with those you feel spiritually bonded with
..
to further engage in visiting with my old group would be a lot to pack into a week.
I also need family time and down time.
This makes sense. Something I feel guilty about, and pretty much prompted my question, is that it's been well over 6 months since I last attended temple. In fact I got a nice e-mail from one of the ladies inquiring if everything was OK, as they hadn't seen me. I explained about my shoulder surgery and rehab and that perhaps one day I'll get to attend. As much as I enjoyed going to temple (more so the old tiny temple than the new grandiose one), I can't quite bring myself to attend anymore. And it's mostly because, as John Lennon said, "Life is what happens when you're busy making plans".
The second guilt is not having or performing a structured sadhana. I don't ignore my shrine, but more often than not, prayers and offerings at the shrine are more likely only on a weekly basis. I'm reluctant to say this because it sounds selfish, but I don't have the time (or privacy) to sit for 30, 45, 60 mins. in private meditation or japa. I do those when and where I can. On the other hand, I think of the story in which Krishna explains to Arjuna antharyagam puja, to bring Arjuna's pride in his elaborate pujas down a notch or three.
So, these are what prompted the question.