Tzeitel said:
Many times it is lead by women, who are NOT to lead in the congregation, or teach over men.
This is incorrect. There is no male or female in Jesus Christ, nor bond or free, Jew or Gentile. But this is off topic.
Many have different forms of worship, different groups, different denominations, some none at all. Such diversity of ritual among believers leads me to believe not all can be in alignment with the Truth. It's probably critically important imo to know and do the true form of worship.
John 4:22 Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation if of the believer. But the hour comes and now is when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: For the Father seekth such to worship him.
God is a Spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.
Ok so in John 4:22 Jesus basicly says that everyone worships, however the question is are we worshipping rightly? Then he goes on and basicly says that the true worshippers will worship Him not by candles, no altars, not by bible reading, and not by singing, BUT BY THE SPIRIT. You can take a look at all the different groups of religions and see that the forms they use for worship have been and continue to use candles and altars like for instance the catholic church. Many christian groups feel that bible reading and teaching are worship and even singing. But they very person they say is their Lord, Jesus, says those means are not the correct worship. Jesus says that the true worship shall be "...in spirit and in truth.." Note, spirit and truth, double nouns used. Two nouns used but one thing meants. The double noun being used to doubly emphasize that it is spirtually true, or truely spiritual. More reason to consider what Jesus was talking about.
Matthew 15 gives a good account of worship, but again it is not true worship. Matthew 15:6: Thus have ye made the commandment of God of none effect by your tradition. Hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of you, saying, This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with lips; but their heart is far from me. But in vain they do worship me, teaching doctrines the commandments of men."
You see the worship looked real. Probably was given credit as a form of worship. But what did the Lord say?
Mark 7:5 descripes Vain Worship. Usually man is worshipped more than God. Been going on a long time.
So throughout the bible there are many forms of worship shown but yet none of them were the correct way because Jesus Christ had said the hour cometh(future at that time) when the true ones will worship in truth. This would then be the true form of what and how to worship God. This implies that there was no true form of worship before the "said hour" Jesus foretold. None of the singing, reading, chanting, candle lighting, altars, music playing, imagies etc.. qualified, in the eyes of God, as true worship. Because none of it was in spirit and in truth. It's because one had to be born-again of God's Spirit. True worship is impossible without it. And to worship by the spirit you operate a power of the holy spirit. The manifestation of the spirit which produces the true worship is speaking in tongues. And there are verses to back this up.
I Corinthians 14:2: For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God..."
Think about it though. The essence of worship is to communicate with God. And speaking to God in truth and spirit is a two way street. You talk to him and he talks to you. That is the essence of worshipping. The only difference between speaking in tongues and speaking say in English is that when one says, "I post on religiousforums" one has to think, move their lips, tongue, throat. You formulated the words and pushed them out. But when one speaks in tongues you do not think the words you speak. God gives the words to your spirit and you formulate them on your lips. You do not think the words but they are there when you move your lips, throat and tongue. What you speak is God's business, but that you speak is your business.