I am not the one to judge hearts
You're right! And you should have ended the statement right there.
Baptism is the choice of the believer.
In
some circles. Most of the Body of Christ believes that parents can make spiritual choices for their children, just as they make physical choices for them.
I think you are making a huge assumption here.
But it's a valid assumption. We have to make all kinds of assumptions, both about what the scriptural writers intended to say, as well as what the original Church intended in baptism.
Herein lies our basic underlying difference. You see baptism as a legality: a ticket into heaven whereby no one may get in without it.
Your hermeneutical cloud is fogging your glasses. I absolutely do not see baptism as a legality. If you had read my copious posts with regard to grace and salvation, you would know that.
I see baptism as a response of love that issues from a heart that desires to be right with God.
So do I. However, I extend the impetus to the hearts of the parents who wish their children to be united with Christ in the sacrament.
How "deep" is the faith of the infant being baptised? I say it's non existant.
Who knows? Perhaps an infant's faith is deeper than that of any of us, being purer and, therefore, closer to God. Just because a person cannot voice what's going on with them spiritually does not mean that spirituality does not exist. Are you negating the spiritual potential of these human beings? Sounds like age discrimination...
Being a disciple is not for everyone. Most can't deal with the radical love and putting the needs of others ahead of their own. However, once you realise exactly what "eloi, eloi, lama sabach thani" really meant to Jesus, there is nothing you won't do that he asks you to do. Baptism then becomes a non issue as you gladly take the plunge, trusting in God to do the work.
That's a nice sermonette, but it runs dangerously close to doctrines of predestination, unconditional election and limited atonement, none of which I espouse.
Christ came to reconcile humanity and to impart grace to all of us.