<Also I have to disagree with you when you say that the first man who steals is not guilty before God. I don't claim to know who God deems as guilty, but I really don't think poverty justifies dishonesty. God gives us challenges, but breaking one of the ten commandments isn't ever the way to get through them.>
Allow me to attempt to clarify my point. 'Guilt before God' requires a free,
absolute 'NO' to God and this is what destroys the relationsip of man to himself, to his fellow man. It is a 'No' to God that, if defines one at death, is called definitive perdition, judgement. 'Guilt before God' is not simply commiting a sinful action, God
is not a scorekeeper. But in our freedom, in our humaness, we make mistakes. This
is not the same as rejecting God with ones total being. Maybe another example will
illustrate my meaning. Consider the sin of adultry. A man gets fired, stops at a bar, has too much to drink, is approached by a woman offers herself. In a moment of weakness he agrees, after which, because of his guilt, he confesses to his wife, and
receives the sacrament of reconcilation. This singular action contradicts his fundamental 'Yes' to God. A man and woman, working in the same office, decide to have an affair. With full knowledge of and indifference to the consequences of their
action they continue their relationship. There is a fundamental 'No', an absolute
rejection of God. They were already adulterers.