I recently had a discussion with someone who is currently going through some financial difficulties. He had been on unemployment for a month. During that month, he pounded the pavements for work, and has also hit the books with a relish, in order to be able to obtain higher certification to make him more marketable. He called all his creditors, and worked out a solution so he wouldn't go bankrupt or lose his home. And, he prayed that God would help him out.
He recently got a job.
He credits God for his ability to stay afloat. God miraculously worked things out so he didn't go bankrupt. God found him this job.
And I just want to shake him and be like, "Dude! God didn't do that. YOU did. YOU are the one who worked so hard to find a job. YOU were the one who was proactive and worked out your finances. YOU are the one that is trying to better yourself."
This sort of thing really irritates me. I understand being thankful. But I do not understand this sort of abject humility or dependency or whatever, that makes believers think that they are not responsible for their success, that they themselves did not earn what they have gotten.
I find it unhealthy. What are your thoughts?