Couples are not naturally compatible sexually as often as thought......Having a sexual trial doesn't tell you much, either.....Marriage,to many folks' surprise, isn't primarily about sex.....Marriage is a day by day by day journey with shared chores, trips, trials, arguments and pain.....and someone who cares about you. Someone who worries when you are away....Someone who can care about the cats you love just because you love them......Sex life changes with the age of the partners....Accommodations are necessary for the older set but can be a part of life for individuals capable of making those efforts...
A very 'corny' line from a chick flick I saw is so, so true(paraphrased), "He completes you".......That takes time to find out....What a great asset is a sense of humor with the ability to laugh at one's self....Being alone is no fun but being in a relationship that turns bad is hell. Physical abuse is always a sad possibility and completely should remove any hope of a relationship......Probably not much help.....Good Luck and Best Wishes..