@Xavier Graham - why talk about a "default position" to begin with? What does that mean? Is it important? Why?
Personally, I think that's overthinking things. Just be who you are. One cannot be otherwise, after all. Just be. And if others don't get you, that's fine.
Well tbh, often times I create threads when I should instead be studying or something else lol. Like, when I created this thread, it was when I was cooking at work and I just didn't want to be at work. So I racked my brain for a thread topic idea while there and here we are. I have better thread ideas when I read more, I'll get there.
So, to answer your question, I mainly ask for the sake of conversation, at least in this case. It may not be the most important of questions, but I do get enlightening responses, such as yours :0
So this thread is the result of overthinking, rather, forced thinking. Not all my threads are, but this one is. I talk to talk sometimes lol