I'm pretty much the same way, and yes we are the kinds of people the OP...and the hundred other "atheism is a religion" threads are talking about.
It's still incorrect to call atheism a religion, however. There is no story, no tale, no moral code, no Gods, demi-gods, no angels no demons, no nothing in common whatsoever.
All this accusation is, is sad bellyaching from defensive theists as they watch their numbers dwindle year after year. For a long time no one dared say anything about religion, the bully religious majority would destroy you. I'll repeat once again that in 1987...less than 30 years ago...George Bush stated publically that atheist should not be considered American citizens, nor patriots. Theists...specifically Christians in America...were insulated from any criticism at all.
These days we can criticize, and boy, they really aren't used to it. Say one small thing and it's "the war on Christianity" or "these arrogant atheists, boy they just won't shut up." Such thin skin. If your religion is so great, defend it on merit, don't complain about atheists who might criticize. Until the President of the United States tells you people of your religion shouldn't be considered American citizens, you have no idea what real criticism is like, so stop with the thin skin whining act.
Some atheists might differ on your principles. For example moral code, many atheists say they do uphold certain practical moral codes .