It's not a matter of soothing my feelings. It's a matter of you letting your mouth write a check your butt can't cover. Perhaps you should consider that next time you want to offer your 'advice'.
Good-Ole-Rebel
I answered your questions. I have answered them more than once. Others have answered them.
What exactly are you talking about? I have not offered you advice. I have not made commitments that I am unwilling to complete. Nothing like that has happened here. You, on the other hand, have had your whining and selfishness explained to you numerous times and are lashing out rather than admit your failings.
If you would admit them to yourself, you would be taking the first steps to healing. If you do not want my help, then find someone here that you will accept and talk with them. Were you abused when you were younger? Often that is the case for people that lash out at others.
You seem to be spinning out of control. Is there someone you can call or talk to near you? Perhaps an emergency number.