I was raised Christian and was always told that God had absolute power over the physical realm as he created it. I never saw evidence of this which is one reason I became polytheistic. Now I'm wondering if the gods are limited much like us, in that they don't have much influence over the physical realm as much as we don't have much influence over the spiritual realm? Or maybe they have some kind of law that prevents them from majorly interfering? Or maybe they are just not bothered? I worship Diana and some other deities but the most they seem able to do is give guidance, rather than interfering directly? Maybe it costs them too much energy or something to interfere directly and only do so when it's important? What do you think?
I doubt most pagan societies recognised a spiritual/physical dicotomy, demi gods/esses, ancestors and gods/esses were sacrificed to and petitioned to for abundant harvests, good hunting, fair weather, protection in childbirth, success in love, strength in battle, cures for illness and invoked for protection against enemies. Clearly deities were/are seen as intervening in and possessing abilities to influence both the natural world and affect human lives.
If you read world mythology there are many instances of gods interfering in and/or intervening in human affairs. Diana was a multifaceted goddess, considered a protector of the lower classes and in Rome slaves were given sanctuary in her temples. Diana was widely petitioned for sucess in childbirth and hunting, obviously her dedicants believed she could influence their lives.
Why don't you think your gods/esses influence your life directly? Maybe you have not built your relationship sufficiently with them yet. Or are petitioning for assistance in areas they believe you can help yourself.............just some thoughts.