Iti, I know from past conversations that this is a bit of a touchy subject, but if I may: I wouldn't say that you, personally, don't understand. I don't think the kind of argument that windwalker was trying to make, or that I was originally sort of hinting at in the thread that spawned this one, is that it is necessarily the case that every self-identified atheist just doesn't get it, and that if you got it you would change your self-identification. I can understand why that would seem insulting and dismissive. However, just as windwalker says that he has had particular experiences with atheist representations of religion seeming more like caricatures than reasonable depictions, I've had similar experiences. This, to me, is kind of the case in point:
Not to pick on mud too much, because this is a very common argument. It's the "flying spaghetti monster" argument by ridicule. The problem is that the analogy to "pink unicorns", "leprechauns", and "Big Foot" has very little to do with how I experience what I call "God" or how I conceptualize it. The fact of the matter is, equating the "Divine", in my view, to a flying pig does very much misrepresent my theology. It may be the case that it doesn't entirely misrepresent the history of theism, or the God of much popular belief, although even there I think it runs the risk of being overly caricaturized. In any case, it's hard to let go of this objection. If I say it, I don't intend it to be an insult of the atheist, or a suggestion that you are (all) merely ignorant. It's more a matter of not finding a particular polemic very compelling. It doesn't mean that there aren't better and more valuable "atheistic" points to be made.
The other thread requested that theists should "identify your God and convince us that he exists". The pushback against the request is that, implicitly, it seems to contain assumptions about what it means to identify "my" God (is God a thing? like a unicorn?), the absolute value or necessity of "convincing", or of some presupposed epistemology, a particular ontology of "existence", and other difficulties. Because we so often take some of that philosophical background for granted, even challenging it seems, I think, to many people, like intentional obfuscation. But it's really not. At least not if the goal is to try to understand the experience and views of some theists as they themselves understand it. It's the same problem as when theists assume that all atheists must be nihilists, or immoral, because they assume that meaning or moral value can only possibly be grounded in a Supreme Being. Usually, what I am interested in is dialogue, more so than debate. To understand and to hopefully be understood. There are preconceptions on both sides that make this challenging imo