MidnightBlue said:
Do you cover your head for religious reasons?
Yes, I do.
MidnightBlue said:
I am a Muslim. An Unitarian Universalist Hanafi Muslim to be exact.
MidnightBlue said:
What form of covering do you use? Do you cover your hair completely?
I wear a headscarf. I usually wear a rectangular scarf, wrapped around my head however I fancy wrapping it.
This is a rectangular scarf.
Sometimes I wear what is called an Al-Amira hijab, it's a two piece headcovering that's easy to slide on. If I don't have enough time to wrap and pin a rectangular one I'll just slip on an Al-Amira and off I go.
This is what an Al-Amira hijab looks like.
On occassion I'll wear a square hijab, sort of "Turkish style."
This is what that looks like.
I just cover my hair, but I don't loose sleep if a some locks of hair slip out.
MidnightBlue said:
How much, if any, of your face is covered? What's your religion?
Just my forehead and that's just because it's harder for the headcoverings to slip off if they've got some contact with skin, not just my hair.
I do not cover my face unless it's very cold out. Then I'll just take a corner of my scarf and tuck it in higher to protect my face from the wind and cold when I'm walking outside. It's rather convenient, if I dare say so. Hijab is a blessing in the winter.
MidnightBlue said:
What does your headcovering signify to you? Modesty? Humility? Obedience? Something else?
To me, it just represents that I am a Muslimah and it's just a commitment between myself and G-d and not between me and anyone else.
I don't find it as symbol modesty or humility. I've seen women who were dressed in a t-shirt and jeans who conducted themselves in a more modest manner than women who are fully covered and wearing a heavily decorated niqab with hours of embroidery stitched on, eyes smeared in kohl, giggling like school-girls at men passing by...
It's your intention and how you conduct yourself, not what you're wearing. You could go out in a burqa and it would make no difference if you didn't have that core respect for yourself.
I know this has and can be debated until the cows come home- but I don't even see a requirement of covering your face or even hair in Islam. Dressing modestly and covering your breasts and between your legs, yes. But I don't really see headcoverings as required or unnecessary. If you wish to not wear one, or if you wish to, it's your decision. If you find it would be helpful to your iman, your faith, then it's great if you want to wear it. If you find it's unnecessary to your faith, then don't. I think a lot of Muslims forget the history of hijab, which is a sad thing. It causes
some women to be forced into layers of cloth.
If I was ever forced or felt forced into wearing hijab I would rip it off where I stood. In one of my classes a a fellow Muslim student completely disrespected the teacher of the class because she was a Muslim and did not cover her head. Every day in class if he showed up, as soon as he entered the classroom I would remove my headscarf and promptly throw it on the ground below my desk. He later dropped out of the class.
There's a small tangent I would like to go on. Nothing infuriates me more than a man telling a woman how to dress. Nothing. As a Muslim sister wearing a headscarf- people instantly know I am a Muslim. But a Muslim brother? Too many brothers seem to forget that hijab is required of them, as well. Muslim men used to cover their heads, too, you know. And even though we sisters are a very visible symbol of Islam, we get a lot of flack from not only nonMuslims who see and harass us, but we are told we need to cover more, we need to pray away from the men, we can't be expected to hold positions of authourity, we need to stay in our homes and just have children by too many of our brothers in the ummah.
I remember reading through some Islamic Answers websites with fatwas and advice to questions, a website that has been referenced many times by members of this forum, and reading answers about how to get one's wife to wear hijab or how women shouldn't go to college because they might be in the same room as a nonrelated male and pursuing an education isn't required of a Muslimah. It made me sick. It's like we just can't be trusted... even with the strength and learning and wisdom and patience we possess and use just to get through the day.
It makes me think of one of Djamila's greatest posts (out of so many of her wonderful and intelligent and thoughtful posts) here on these forums. When a thread came up about what one would do if they were the opposite sex for the day, she said she would run through a mosque naked just to get people to talk about MEN and modesty, not women and modesty.