Ah, I'm sorry to hear this.
Prying and when they find out there is some LGBT+ thing going on... setting them under pressure.
LGBT+.
If you are a remarried couple and you divorced for reasons other than adultery... no problem.
However, the one thing is as unbiblical if you follow a conservative line of thought than the other.
Yet they pick and choose and bully the gay only.
This is at least from what I see in the churches.
For many Christians being gay is a lifestyle choice like putting on boots vs. sneakers. For many, you could just snap your fingers or do a little therapy and miraculously be straight again.
It's a shame and I hope Jesus will provide the answer.
On major Christian discussion boards, LGBT+ people cannot respond to slurs made against them, because they say they don't want youths to read the other standpoint or anything pro-gay.
LGBT+ are the chosen "favorite enemy" of Christianity, it seems, and they are getting bullied out.
But who is there to speak up in the churches?
Do you want to have a nerve racking fight with the pastor... or do you just want to join and fellowship and sing?
Actually in my experience it went beyond LGBT stuff. We had youth leaders who chided us - in college, mind you - for frontal hugging the opposite sex and holding hands. I Kissed Dating Goodbye was in vogue among Evangelicals at the time.