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Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself on RF?

The Hammer

Skald
Premium Member
The moderators have recently been discussing whether members feel welcome on RF. We want to better understand some aspects of our culture here and would appreciate your participation in a brief questionnaire.

Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?

This thread is for discussion, not debate. Thanks for your participation.

Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?

Not particularly, no. But this a lot of the times has to do more with my own personality than anything or one on RF in particular. Another issue I see is that Theistic beliefs tend to get dogged on in the Religious Debates section, so I tend to avoid that part of the forum, and stick to Discussions only. Theistic beliefs, and in particular non-mainstream religious beliefs (polytheism), tend to be treated more as an anomaly or a sideshow, then an actual real viewpoint.

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?

Yes, and this has usually to do with Militant anti-theists, or the Right-Wing trolls that make their appearance on the fora occasionally. While this doesn't include me, I have seen that there seems to be a general dislike of Syncretics or more Ecclectic religious members, those that are willing to play around and combine differing belief systems.

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?

Polytheist. First, is there are not a lot of polytheists on the forum (or minimal activity). The second is Paganism also appears to be of minimal activity, and it would be nice if there were more active members in that area. The last part doesn't make me feel less welcomed, but it does minimize how and in what ways I participate on the forum.
 

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
I must say I consider myself very lucky since on RF the LGBT group I belong to is very consistent and united.
I love you all guys:purpleheart::purpleheart::purpleheart:
 

Evangelicalhumanist

"Truth" isn't a thing...
Premium Member
The moderators have recently been discussing whether members feel welcome on RF. We want to better understand some aspects of our culture here and would appreciate your participation in a brief questionnaire.

Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?

This thread is for discussion, not debate. Thanks for your participation.
I've had my knuckles rapped a few times (possibly more than a few) for expressing my opinions with a little too much focus on the person I'm expressing them to, rather than focusing on my opinions. And really -- they were not wrong to so rap.

As long as I express myself honestly, and give my reasons (especially on difficult topics), I do, in fact, feel quite comfortable expressing my opinions here.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
I don't feel comfortable expressing myself in the Luciferian DIR because it gets invaded by non-luciferians and will likely become debate. The Theistic Luciferians need their own space, as Luciferianism in general does not condone group worship and the Theistic Luciferians will butt heads with the regular Lucifarians over it. I don't have a problem expressing myself in the general LHP DIR, though.
Or you could just realize that you don't own the copyright to the label "Luciferian" and have no business acting as a gatekeeper. "Regular Luciferianism" doesn't exist as it is not an organized religion with a dogma or creed. It's something that one just decides to call themselves/their path. You have your beliefs and should respect the right of others to theirs. It's not like it effects you.

I know this isn't a debate thread, but I felt I had to say something about that. If you want to debate, feel free to start a thread about it.
 
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crossfire

LHP Mercuræn Feminist Heretic Bully ☿
Premium Member
I don't feel comfortable expressing myself in the Luciferian DIR because it gets invaded by non-luciferians and will likely become debate. The Theistic Luciferians need their own space, as Luciferianism in general does not condone group worship and the Theistic Luciferians will butt heads with the regular Lucifarians over it. I don't have a problem expressing myself in the general LHP DIR, though.
Or you could just realize that you don't own the copyright to the label "Luciferian" and have no business acting as a gatekeeper. "Regular Luciferianism" doesn't exist as it is not an organized religion with a dogma or creed. It's something that one just decides to call themselves/their path. You have your beliefs and should respect the right of others to theirs. It's not like it effects you.

I know this isn't a debate thread, but I felt I had to say something about that. If you want to debate, feel free to start a thread about it.
lol, see what I mean?
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
lol, see what I mean?
See what? That you took this thread as an opportunity to bring your sectarian bickering into it? You were the one attacking others. You don't own the Luciferian DIR. Like I said, you can start a thread and we can debate over it. Otherwise, I've said what I had to say about that.
 
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SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?

Yes. Because if others take issue with what I contribute, it's a reflection of their own worldview. It's up to me whether or not I allow others to make me feel uncomfortable, not them.

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?

Not at all. I think others warm up to me quickly because of my formidable fashion sense. I've been complimented on it on several occasions, especially by one administrator in particular.

I am recalling your comments on my fashion sense accurately, right, @Sunstone?

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?

I don't think so. I mean, I've been turned away from formal gatherings just because I show up in tails and a paisley Speedo, but I'm always welcome here wearing that. Hecks, they even let me post naked without saying anything.
 

Dawnofhope

Non-Proselytizing Baha'i
Staff member
Premium Member
Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?

Yes

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?

I haven't personally felt unwelcome though I've been quite strongly criticised from time to time.

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?

The faith community I belong too (Baha'i Faith) has strong beliefs that includes a theory (progressive revelation) about the origin and nature of all the major world religions. Inevitably having strong beliefs leads to conflict with adherents of other religions and worldviews whose beliefs are held just as strongly. Differences of opinions leads to tensions that can lead to heated personal discussions at times. I'm good with that though generally avoid unproductive discussions that create more heat than light. :)
 

Dawnofhope

Non-Proselytizing Baha'i
Staff member
Premium Member
Thank you to everyone who has responded to date (nearly fifty participants on this forum). Your constructive approach to answering the questions has exceeded expectations. If you haven't answered yet or have more to add please feel free to do so. In the next 12 - 24 hours I hope to compile a summary of the responses to date to share with the moderators but also on this thread. Its really important to the moderation team that participants across the religious and political spectrum feel welcomed here and they belong.
 

Ancient Soul

The Spiritual Universe
Yes, i feel comfortable here, simply because i only respond to threads i am confident of my comments. I sometimes have to throttle back for fear of breaking rules, and it seems that too often i don't throttle back far enough, sorry about that mods.

I know you from another forum and I'm amazed at how "throttled back" you are here! While I haven't come across all of your posts, those that I've read are so mild I don't think you have anything to worry about in RF.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Thank you to everyone who has responded to date (nearly fifty participants on this forum). Your constructive approach to answering the questions has exceeded expectations. If you haven't answered yet or have more to add please feel free to do so. In the next 12 - 24 hours I hope to compile a summary of the responses to date to share with the moderators but also on this thread. Its really important to the moderation team that participants across the religious and political spectrum feel welcomed here and they belong.

One other thing, out of all the forums I've been on in my teen years and the past ten years I've never seen people care about others as they do here and mods asking for feedback from the posters. So, that I give a thumbs up too.
 

Ancient Soul

The Spiritual Universe
Thank you to everyone who has responded to date (nearly fifty participants on this forum). Your constructive approach to answering the questions has exceeded expectations. If you haven't answered yet or have more to add please feel free to do so. In the next 12 - 24 hours I hope to compile a summary of the responses to date to share with the moderators but also on this thread. Its really important to the moderation team that participants across the religious and political spectrum feel welcomed here and they belong.

I've given this some thought today and do have a bit more to add on this topic.

When the forum I was on for nearly 20 years changed venue to a news only outlet and shut down their forum section, I looked all over for a substitute, (And NO I do NOT have a forum addiction, I can quit whenever I want, honest!) and most of the strict "agreement only/no argument" forums were pretty dead. And RF was the only one I found that had a fair amount of activity because it didn't seem to have a strict "agreement only" policy, and allowed real debating. So I strongly believe that most people LIKE debating religious topics, even if it gets a bit heated at times, as well as discussing their beliefs with other like minded individuals. The point being that you are doing something right to have this much activity on RF or it would be as dead as the other forums I tried out.

Also, there are always people on forums who are insecure in their beliefs or just insecure in themselves and get upset at everyone who disagrees with their religious beliefs. Personally, I cannot understand this. There are thousands of religions with thousands of denominations within all those religions because nobody can agree on any of them. That is why most people avoid bringing religion up in public, to prevent an all out brawl from erupting. Or at the very least a heated argument and hurt feelings. So if someone thinks everyone is just going to agree with them and convert to their religion just because they say they should, or agree with everything they say, they should not be in forums, because they are going to get a lot of flak with that approach. And by trying to make them feel welcomed and belong here, having everyone agree with them, no dissent, isn't going to work well with everyone else.

The bottom line is that in any forum there will be things people do and do not like. You cannot please everybody because in making a change to please one person, other people may not like the change. So I think a lot of the complaints I've read here all come down to just personal responsibility. If you don't like a reply or person, just ignore them. Same for the political section, just don't go there. Or if one gets too much flak on something they've stated, then THEY should review their comments and try to understand how it offended others so much, then decide if it's worth defending it or trying to make amends. As basically a lot of the complaints comes down to just making personal choices. Nothing in life is perfect for everyone.
 

MNoBody

Well-Known Member
it is an interesting place at times, which is why I have been enjoying coming here.
sadly there is never very many actual people frequenting here according to the dashboard....maybe a dozen or 2 at any given time, so it is slow as mud compared to say fb, which when I was involved would be quite lively in comparison.
having limited social outlets means the few that exist would be considered more enjoyable if they were more active.
But, I have no complaints [just a few thoughts]
and would like to thank whomever has bothered to keep this place running [for whatever reason]
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Jesster

Friendly skeptic
Premium Member
I didn't really answer the other questions. Now that I think of it, I have more to say.

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?
Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?


Two at once. Since returning, it hasn't been a big problem, but I did leave for a good while (even as part of the staff) because I was tired of people telling me what I believed, as if my beliefs were their domain to sort out and not my own. It became a daily occurrence and it was allowed to fly. So I left. I know atheists are absolutely welcome here. But I didn't appreciate all the misinformation that people were able to dump on me because I use that term. It halted all conversation every time it happened, and it was the norm.

But like I said, it doesn't seem to be a big problem now.
 

PoetPhilosopher

Veteran Member
Though I wasn't specificly told to, after seeing the reminder by A Digital Artist I am editing my post to stay within the rules.

Edit
 
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Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
Thank you to everyone who has responded to date (nearly fifty participants on this forum). Your constructive approach to answering the questions has exceeded expectations. If you haven't answered yet or have more to add please feel free to do so. In the next 12 - 24 hours I hope to compile a summary of the responses to date to share with the moderators but also on this thread. Its really important to the moderation team that participants across the religious and political spectrum feel welcomed here and they belong.

Thanks to you. Thanks for caring, @adrian009 :)
I think RF is like a big family and thanks to threads like this, engagement and dialogue makes it a very beautiful family.
:heart:
 

Salty Booger

Royal Crown Cola (RC)
I might be too new here to offer much help but will offer what I can.

Do you feel comfortable openly expressing yourself. Why or why not?
I'm trying to keep my posts within a G rating. So far I haven't had any complaints.

Has there ever been a time when you haven't felt welcome here, and what do you feel was the reason?
The door is always unlocked when I return.

Are you part of a particular group that you feel is less welcomed and why?
I'm not a member of any specific group. I do appreciate the diversity of sub-forums from which I can choose to participate.

Thanks for your participation.
Thank you for the forums.
 
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