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Do you masturbate?

Will you masturbate within this next year?

  • Yes

    Votes: 22 88.0%
  • No

    Votes: 3 12.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Spiderman

Veteran Member
You don't have to answer the question, but if you could answer the poll honestly, it's not going to show anyone what your answer is.

I've been informed that masturbation is an " intrinsically disordered Act" of debauchery! I'm wondering if the average person commits this intrinsically disordered Act.

The longest I've gone without yanking one out was a year-and-a-half, because I was hoping to become a chaste monk. I relapsed after having a full-blown orgasm and ejaculated in my pants while I was kneeling in a church pew reciting the Divine Office. I kid you not! I figured I must be in mortal sin now, so it couldn't make the sin much worse if I yank one out before going to the confession booth and getting absolved of my sick wretchedness! :(

I'm finding that it can be therapeutic to do so... I certainly don't like to indulge in such shameful Satanic Behavior... It makes me feel guilty and Despicable, but I prefer the shame and guilt over the Chronic sexual tension that results from attempting to be completely chaste.

Somebody told me that masturbation is an addiction that if you stop feeding that addiction, the sexual tension will go away.

FALSE!

That actually isn't true. In my year and a half of abstinence, the sexual tension actually went up to the point where I was getting boners and premature ejaculations, just by reciting the Rosary and feeling intimacy with the Blessed Mother!!!

Now that I rub one off every now and then, that never happens. I try to turn it into something spiritual, so that when I orgasm I make a wish and recite a prayer of exaltation to a Heavenly being. Then I ask God to cleanse me and have mercy on my leper soul.

However, the church does say that sexual pleasure is a foretaste of heaven, so I try to see it as that.

So, how can masturbation be therapeutic? I kid you not I was able to reorient my sexuality... I used to have angry sadistic sexual fantasies which started as a child... I was able to completely reorder my sexuality by associating sexual stimulation with a fantasy of healthy forms of love and affection.

By meditating on healthy forms of sexual intimacy , free of anger and the need to dominate and control, and associating healthy intimacy with sexual stimulation, the Mind gradually got in the habit of only being aroused by what I determined to be healthy and innocent.

A sexuality can be trained and reoriented... One just needs to govern their habits and take ownership.

If you're in the habit of associating sexual gratification with deviant thoughts of dominating and controlling a person , terrorist attacks, or blowing up buildings, it can be very difficult to reverse that and you're simply conditioning yourself to want to act that out!!

It can seem unpleasant and boring at first to abstain from such desires and change what arouses you, but I've experienced it firsthand, so am a firm believer. You simply have to change how you Channel your Sexual Energy.

I used to think that masturbation could condemn a soul to hell fire... I honestly think that such an attitude was more unhealthy for me than masturbation itself.

I'm not defending the habit, in the sense that I'm not saying it's okay... It may indeed be intrinsically disordered... I honestly wish I never did it.

However, I found that chastity , guilt, and fear of hell, and the wrath of God only replaced one disorder with a much worse sickness.

Feeling like a sick disordered leper , and chronic tension isn't healthy... I feel more healthy now than I did when I was at the monastery going to daily mass, doing penance, reciting the daily Rosary, chanting the Liturgy of the Hours, rising at 4:45 a.m., and excessively trying to purge myself of lust!
 
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Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
There are only 2 types of people in this world. Those that masturbate, and liars!
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
There are only 2 types of people in this world. Those that masturbate, and liars!
I think there are probably men out there willing who do such violence to themselves... There are people who sleep on beds of nails, wear spiked chains, sleep standing up,whip themselves, and voluntarily abstain from food for over 20 days after all...
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
If you don't have certainty about masturbating within the next year, I would say that it isn't an issue for you... Congratulations on rarely committing this fowl Abomination against God!
I can't agree that it is a foul abomination against God and the reason why is that believing it is might prompt a person to force himself or herself on another person which in my country is called rape.

Someone might think sex with another person is safer. It isn't.
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
The poll question of course is assuming you'll live another year and won't be quadriplegic or something
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
I've acted out sexually with dysfunctional females but never someone I was in love with...At this point in time I'm committed to a celibate single life of prayer and meditation until I find enlightenment... That could take a long time. Buddha didn't find enlightenment until he was 35, Moses and Muhammad didn't have their Visions until they were 40, Abraham didn't have his revelations until he was 75...
 

Super Universe

Defender of God
Pope, some things are best said only in certain settings.

Boys drinking beer at a bar might say some things that they won't say around their wives.

And some discussions you might have with your doctor are best kept there.
 

osgart

Nothing my eye, Something for sure
you'll go blind! if you keep that up. something your mother would tell you as a teenager, to scare you from doing it!

I seriously think it's a private matter, and everyone should do their own laundry.

a lot of women put their sexual desires out there in the open. it's too commercial. it's an assault on man's senses.

sex should be a personal matter, not a rampant social behaviour.

society loves it's fast food though, and treat sex the same way, cheap and convenient.
 
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Kapalika

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
Within the next year? Pft you mean before the next meal.

The longest I've gone without yanking one out was a year-and-a-half, because I was hoping to become a chaste monk. I relapsed after having a full-blown orgasm and ejaculated in my pants while I was kneeling in a church pew reciting the Divine Office.

Being chaste is just about not having sex. I don't see why, at least for some forms, masturbation would be out of the question. Though I do know that it's said ascetic yogis won't as a way to preserve power. I suspect they use that tension positively somehow in their practice, since it's linked to power.

I certainly don't like to indulge in such shameful Satanic Behavior... It makes me feel guilty and Despicable, but I prefer the shame and guilt over the Chronic sexual tension that results from attempting to be completely chaste.

Satan is awesome, don't worry about it.

That actually isn't true. In my year and a half of abstinence, the sexual tension actually went up to the point where I was getting boners and premature ejaculations, just by reciting the Rosary and feeling intimacy with the Blessed Mother!!!

This almost sounds tantric to me. I approve.

There are only 2 types of people in this world. Those that masturbate, and liars!

Truer words have rarely been spoken.

Are we talking metaphorically?

Like literally metaphorically doing literal things?
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
Pope, some things are best said only in certain settings.

Boys drinking beer at a bar might say some things that they won't say around their wives.

And some discussions you might have with your doctor are best kept there.
One of my faults is I'm too outspoken about defects.

However, I wanted to show people the dangers that I've encountered of being chaste.

Also, there may be a struggling person who reads my post and feels better about them self, even if it is only in the sense that "without the grace of God there go I". :p

My openness about my problems and willingness to embarrass myself has in a few cases allowed me to help somebody out.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
If you're doing violence to yourself, you are doing it way to hard, or need to use some lubricant. As for will I masturbate within the next year, will I breath within the next year? Drink water? Eat? Laugh and cry? Granted I don't do nearly as often as I used to once I started hormones, and I lost my interest in porn (but my mind has become more imaginative), but I still do it.
I do other things that hurt me much more, and cause more damaging to my body, sometimes in the name of pleasure and fun. And sometimes of course it's just unavoidable anymore such as the polluted air we breath. But masturbation involves no violence, and can even help relieve some stress and help you feel better at least for awhile.
 
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