namaskaram :namaste
I think your understanding of tantra and mine might just be different
and one day you will tire of sex, ..... prehaps when the body is old and infirm and nolonger performs its functions ?
either that or suffer extreme frustration ?
You're right, our understanding is entirely different
I am old enough to be past being driven by sexual desire. I was referring to humans in general. They're not all old like us.
Tantric sexual practices are irrelevant to someone who is not subject to powerful sexual drive - generally suitable for younger people in other words.
You seem to be unable to grasp that I may not be endorsing practices because I do them.
When you get the message, hang up the phone ! Any specific tantric practice is not something that someone is likely to do for an entire lifetime.
The practices which people do for an entire lifetime are typically
practices which have never worked.That's why the practitioner is still doing them !
Psychedelics are
not something which I am recommending to anyone either btw. I only persist in this thread because fundamental misunderstandings about the subject are being consistently presented.
which might cause you to ask , ..."why am I so attatched to this bodily function" ?
Yeah, I did ask that decades ago. Your assumptions are missing by miles Ratikala.
Hopefully something will cause you to ask ... 'why am I still practicing techniques which lead to nothing but
predictable states ?' That is grasping after 'repeatable states' , and aversion to the unexpected !
I think we would both agree there are many forms of tantra .
Possibly, but so far you seem to have not grasped the particular form we are discussing.
I am not arguing that this is not so , but I am suggesting that we learn to rely upon states that are generated by our own practice which are therefore more reliably atainable without recourse to outside intervention .
You are addicted to 'states' and certainty.
to me , .... and I repeat, to me ! .... meditation is a method of owercoming obsticals , ... yes , there are pernitious obsticals , but that simply highlights the need for sincere and regular practice .
So, presumably if you are still practicing sincerely,
that highlights the fact of your pernicious obstacles.
So how's the practice going ? Same as ever ?
the cycle of birth , old age , sickness , and death his samsaric realm equates to dukkha
I think your statement some what contradicts the four knobe truths ?
for an unbiased translation , .....
of course one in samsaric existance feels sadness at the temporary loss of any dear or loved one but that sence of loss is tempered by reflections on imperminance , thus we can accept greif and loss without the same degree of suffering that one might otherwise experience .
Most ordinary people with no dharma training whatsoever work that out for themselves when they lose a loved one.
You missed the meaning of my post, and you miss the point of the noble truths also IMO.
The cessation of suffering is not an event in linear time. It is always present as nirvana, which is
not an ephemeral 'state'.
Nirvana may or may not be recognised.It is not an 'end game'.
Whatever 'states' you are practicing (rehearsing) are
all samsara.
You are equating the wisdom of liberation in the moment with a sentimental indulgence in the platitudes of impermanence. This is the banality which comes of practicing 'states' and 'certainty'.