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Does Premarital Sex Make You Feel Guilty?
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whereismynotecard
Treasure Hunter
I feel guilty because I haven't had premarital secks...
Father Heathen
Veteran Member
Nope. I don't because there's not any reason for it to.
whereismynotecard
Treasure Hunter
"Two things marriage is good for: Tax breaks, and adultry."
+Xausted
Well-Known Member
heh, I take exception to that!
I only got married in january and I have never been happier. There are other reasons for marriage and good ones. (but then I suppose I am still loved up so I would say that)
Jeremy Mason
Well-Known Member
Wow, as Beat Loaf says, "...two out of three aint(sp?) bad".
Green Gaia
Veteran Member
Nope, don't feel guilty... 'cause I can't get married anyway.
cardero
Citizen Mod
The first time that I had sex, I was confronted with feelings of guilt. I still had the after effects of an organized religion that was set against such practices. After it happened, I really did not feel guilty but enlightened and experienced.
Engyo
Prince of Dorkness!
Nope. Too bad I'm post-marital.
jewscout
Religious Zionist
depends, how much has she drank?
Green Gaia
Veteran Member
Ya know... I think you may be the straight male version of me. :spit:
jewscout
Religious Zionist
lol hey great minds think alike ya know lol
Heneni
Miss Independent
If there is ANY one thing id like my daughter to abstain from its sex before marriage.
If she gets drunk, takes drugs or goes to clubs, i know that my god can save her from her teenage curiosity. I know my daughter has the seed of god that remains in her, and she will need to go through a time of hardship for the wrong choices she makes. I will , if ANYTHING, make a point of explaining to her, that sex before marriage will hurt her in ways she cannot necessarily fix physically. Alcohol works its way out of the system, drugs do the same thing, but she cant get her virginity back. That makes me realise that once youve lost it..you have lost something important! And for that reason, she ought to make sure she keeps it!
Curiosity about sex is inevitable for a teenager, but its one of those curiosities that will kill the cat, and the bible says that sexual perversions bring about the wrath of god. I dont want her to experience that wrath, since its not something she can escape. Gods word is true...and she will be worse off if she engages in these things. Her relatioship with god will suffer.
Abstaining from drugs and alchohol is also important, because it makes you feel great, but it makes your will power decrease exponentially. I know that many prayers for my childrens protection is my responsibility. I dont pray that god keeps her away from these things, but rather that when they come her way, she has the moral power to say NO. If she fails, i pray that god will use her conscience and trust that her conscience, which is her light, will get her back on track! I can only give advice, but her conscience is her light. And god is the one opperating in her conscience. This conscience which is suppose to be her light, can turn into her greatest deciever, if she continues to go against what her conscience is trying to tell her.
The bible says that if the light inside you is darkness HOW GREAT IS THAT DARKNESS!
She should feel guilty if she engages in pre-marital sex. If she doesnt her concience has become her enemy. Hopefully she will have the character to abstain. I cannot shield her from the wrath of god. The worst thing that can happen to her, is that she be given over to shamefull lusts it will only make her feel ashamed.
Heneni
If she gets drunk, takes drugs or goes to clubs, i know that my god can save her from her teenage curiosity. I know my daughter has the seed of god that remains in her, and she will need to go through a time of hardship for the wrong choices she makes. I will , if ANYTHING, make a point of explaining to her, that sex before marriage will hurt her in ways she cannot necessarily fix physically. Alcohol works its way out of the system, drugs do the same thing, but she cant get her virginity back. That makes me realise that once youve lost it..you have lost something important! And for that reason, she ought to make sure she keeps it!
Curiosity about sex is inevitable for a teenager, but its one of those curiosities that will kill the cat, and the bible says that sexual perversions bring about the wrath of god. I dont want her to experience that wrath, since its not something she can escape. Gods word is true...and she will be worse off if she engages in these things. Her relatioship with god will suffer.
Abstaining from drugs and alchohol is also important, because it makes you feel great, but it makes your will power decrease exponentially. I know that many prayers for my childrens protection is my responsibility. I dont pray that god keeps her away from these things, but rather that when they come her way, she has the moral power to say NO. If she fails, i pray that god will use her conscience and trust that her conscience, which is her light, will get her back on track! I can only give advice, but her conscience is her light. And god is the one opperating in her conscience. This conscience which is suppose to be her light, can turn into her greatest deciever, if she continues to go against what her conscience is trying to tell her.
The bible says that if the light inside you is darkness HOW GREAT IS THAT DARKNESS!
She should feel guilty if she engages in pre-marital sex. If she doesnt her concience has become her enemy. Hopefully she will have the character to abstain. I cannot shield her from the wrath of god. The worst thing that can happen to her, is that she be given over to shamefull lusts it will only make her feel ashamed.
Heneni
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
It made me feel not only guilty..but foolish..I felt cheap because I was just letting myself be used.
Love
Dallas
Love
Dallas
Autodidact
Intentionally Blank
Not at all. I love being an atheist. Although, since I'm not going to get married, my sex-isn't pre-marital, it's non-marital.
Engyo
Prince of Dorkness!
Thus my original point about being post-marital.
Papersock
Lucid Dreamer
Nope.
For me it is not premarital, because that implies that I will someday get married.