Rakhel
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same in this Jewish home.Judaism is not like Christianity at all in fact you will find many opinions by Jews about women but in my Jewish home there is not submission by me and there is a marriage of equality.
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same in this Jewish home.Judaism is not like Christianity at all in fact you will find many opinions by Jews about women but in my Jewish home there is not submission by me and there is a marriage of equality.
Paul didn't write Hebrews.
Also, Paul recognized women leadership in the church as well. So by what you're saying, men should also be submissive to women.
A man worthy of respect would not expect to be submitted to imo.
Marriage is an equal partnership imo.
Very good point Pegg. I'm also with you on the post about 'headship'.i didnt think this thread was specifically about marriage, but in any case it still stands. The bible is pretty clear that the man should be the head of the family and i agree with that.
it doesnt mean the man and woman are not equal partners, they certainly are and i agree with that. But in relation to God, it is the man who is held accountable for his family and that is why he is given the role of the 'head' of the family. The final decisions must rest with him because he will be the one who will be held accountable. See the account in Genesis...what got Adam into trouble in the first place? He could have turned the situation around if he had of made his own decision:
Genesis 3:17 And to Adam he said: Because you listened to your wifes voice and took to eating from the tree concerning which I gave you this command, You must not eat from it, cursed is the ground on your account
Continue on a few verses after the one what you left off at. Because you just did a great shame to what Paul was saying by not actually taking him in context. The verse you quoted is only a tiny portion of that discourse.there is evidence that paul was the writer of hebrews. however, the issue of 'subjection' is very clear in the scriptures
1Cor 11:3 But I want YOU to know that the head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of the Christ is God
if Paul thought men should be submissive to women, then he would not have written this 'headship' arrangement.
im sure if you knew a man who was worthy of respect, you'd find it easy to submit to him
And one way to know that you've found a man worthy of your respect is that he would not want you to do so.
I'm not so sure about that. If we assume that everything that was written in the name of Paul was from Paul, then he contradicts himself. If we remove those pieces that don't seem to be from Paul, then we have Paul supporting the role of women leadership in the church.
Romans 16:1, 16:3, and 16:7.Where did Paul contradict himself and where did he support women leadership?
there is evidence that paul was the writer of hebrews. however, the issue of 'subjection' is very clear in the scriptures
1Cor 11:3 But I want YOU to know that the head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of the Christ is God
if Paul thought men should be submissive to women, then he would not have written this 'headship' arrangement.
Genesis 3:17 And to Adam he said: Because you listened to your wifes voice and took to eating from the tree concerning which I gave you this command, You must not eat from it, cursed is the ground on your account
Or he is a Jew, that doesn't accept the NT as scripture. That is probably a better bet. The NT does not apply to him.That must mean you are not willing to submit to God, or the Torah. For God is the One who inspired Paul to give this command to Christian women. Furthermore, Peter gave the example of woman submission by the life of Sarah, who willingly and lovingly submitted to Abraham. :yes:
Yes, the bible is pretty straightforward on this.
I agree completely, that´s why I submit to my girlfriend and also ask her to submit to me.
We also rebel sometimes, and it is perfectly cool. Submitting and being dominant can be a very nice way to play the game of romance.
That said, I am sure most women would like a guy who both knows when to be dominant and when to submit to their wishes.
There oughta be balance, and it is important to remember that this balance changes with each person and each relationship.
So if you find someone you respect it should be nice to submit to him/her, but I would say that if the respect goes both ways the contrary interaction should be open for contemplation too.
I dont see how being a 'head' has anything to do with domination?
Christ is the head of the church, but is he domineering? Not at all. He was a man of great love and compassion. People were happy to submit themselves to his lead because as a leader he was inspiring and gentle...he certainly want domineering.
Also, when Paul told Christian wives to submit to their husbands, he would have also told the men to submit to their wives, if women didn't have to submit to their husbands as the head of the home.
im sure if you knew a man who was worthy of respect, you'd find it easy to submit to him
how come it's just paul who says that? isn't that kinda.... odd? I was under the impression that nobody should speak in church. it's either shut up and listen, or sing wether it is a disgrace for someone to speak in church depends entirely on what they say. who claims differently is stupid. so if you want to insist god says that, go ahead.. I for one don't buy it.
"feminism has caused many professing Christian women to become rough, loud and arrogant, the very opposite of how God wants Christian women to be"
orly? has it not also cut down on marital rape and domestic abuse? and what about the professing christian men who are quite clearly full of it? did maleism cause this? and what do you suggest to do about it -- that is, if you're even aware of the problem?
Don't know why everyone forget Deborah.
No, he picked a tired and old topic, that the fundies base upon 1) one passage from Paul and 2) the practices of the Catholic Church, neither of which is especially tenable when discussing "What God wants."