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For those of you unaware the Buddha somewhat famously refused to answer certain questions.
Cula-Malunkyovada Sutta: The Shorter Instructions to Malunkya
The unanswered questions
These questions were things like " Is the universe finite or infinite, what happens to the tatagata (Buddha) after death" etc and it is a bit of a speculation as to why the Buddha did not answer these questions. In some places it is said that the Buddha didn't answer questions like this because it would merely confuse the people asking them and would not actually help in their practice.
On my own spiritual journey I didn't like unanswered questions at first. I thought it was a way of getting out from giving answers to what students wanted to know. Students can be ceaseless with their questions after all. Mystics are well know for giving their contradictory answers and there are plenty of people who know about koans which are deliberately difficult or unanswerable questions in the zen/chan tradition.
It wasn't until I had my first mystical experience that it really made sense why you give such weird answers to questions asked about mystical experience. They are simply put indescribable but people desperately want to know what you have experienced. People who haven't had that experience want more than anything for you to relate what happened and how it happened.
The truth is I just really can't. I can't relate what happened to me or why. I have studied numerous faiths and mystics to understand that there is certainly something similar going on between faiths as different as Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism, Jainism, Taoism etc but what is actually happening is still a bit of a mystery.
For me personally I think we are connecting to something divine and unfathomable. For shorthand I might call it God, Ultimate experience, whatever really but it is not something that can be related with words it can only be experienced. I've seen that experience profoundly change some people and It is the thing that saved me from alcoholism and a life of profound suffering. Recently I had some events remind me of how bad things really were and the amount of pain and isolation I was in and I can only say I am thankful to no longer be in that situation.
Now part of the reason I decided to call myself A Hindu with Taoist leanings is that I have personally found Bhakti and the expression of the divine through certain Hindu gods immensely useful. I have felt a very strong connection to certain Hindu texts and found that the rituals have given me a form of expression and connection I did not have previously. The rituals give me a system I can use to continue connecting with that divine presence that I find so difficult to describe. I say I have Taoist leanings because so far I have still not found a single text that seems as willing to embrace the difficulty of putting names to this divine presence as the Tao te ching and the philosophies and practices of Taosim have given me a lot over the years.
I think Hinduism acknowledged a variety of experience that few other faiths do. From what I have seen the mystical experience doesn't really play favorites and people are of such a diverse variety that no one path is ever going to truly work for everyone. Some people want strict rules and practices while others need things more free form. Hinduism embraces that variety of paths since it is more of an umbrella term than anything else. This is also useful for me since although I have been studying the vedas as a historical document they don't really give me much spiritually while the Bhagavad Gita has given me a great deal more.
I think we should take more from the example of the Buddha and be fine just telling people we don't know or that we don't have the answers to the questions they ask. The answers we get in our own lives are often for us and a good deal of what happens after that is unknowable. We should be concerned with our practice here and now and being good. It seems to me we get into squabbles over the tiniest parts of of doctrines without really embracing our own truths and acknowledging that things can be different for different people.
If you have a vegan friend you don't scorn them for it you just buy some vegan hotdogs so they can still attend the bbq. Maybe it's a little annoying to be accommodating sometimes but you need to try and welcome those people just as much as anyone else. God comes to us in myriad ways and we need to be willing to open ourselves up to that just as much as we need to be understanding that not everyone is going to be open or open the same way.
For those of you unaware the Buddha somewhat famously refused to answer certain questions.
Cula-Malunkyovada Sutta: The Shorter Instructions to Malunkya
The unanswered questions
These questions were things like " Is the universe finite or infinite, what happens to the tatagata (Buddha) after death" etc and it is a bit of a speculation as to why the Buddha did not answer these questions. In some places it is said that the Buddha didn't answer questions like this because it would merely confuse the people asking them and would not actually help in their practice.
On my own spiritual journey I didn't like unanswered questions at first. I thought it was a way of getting out from giving answers to what students wanted to know. Students can be ceaseless with their questions after all. Mystics are well know for giving their contradictory answers and there are plenty of people who know about koans which are deliberately difficult or unanswerable questions in the zen/chan tradition.
It wasn't until I had my first mystical experience that it really made sense why you give such weird answers to questions asked about mystical experience. They are simply put indescribable but people desperately want to know what you have experienced. People who haven't had that experience want more than anything for you to relate what happened and how it happened.
The truth is I just really can't. I can't relate what happened to me or why. I have studied numerous faiths and mystics to understand that there is certainly something similar going on between faiths as different as Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism, Jainism, Taoism etc but what is actually happening is still a bit of a mystery.
For me personally I think we are connecting to something divine and unfathomable. For shorthand I might call it God, Ultimate experience, whatever really but it is not something that can be related with words it can only be experienced. I've seen that experience profoundly change some people and It is the thing that saved me from alcoholism and a life of profound suffering. Recently I had some events remind me of how bad things really were and the amount of pain and isolation I was in and I can only say I am thankful to no longer be in that situation.
Now part of the reason I decided to call myself A Hindu with Taoist leanings is that I have personally found Bhakti and the expression of the divine through certain Hindu gods immensely useful. I have felt a very strong connection to certain Hindu texts and found that the rituals have given me a form of expression and connection I did not have previously. The rituals give me a system I can use to continue connecting with that divine presence that I find so difficult to describe. I say I have Taoist leanings because so far I have still not found a single text that seems as willing to embrace the difficulty of putting names to this divine presence as the Tao te ching and the philosophies and practices of Taosim have given me a lot over the years.
I think Hinduism acknowledged a variety of experience that few other faiths do. From what I have seen the mystical experience doesn't really play favorites and people are of such a diverse variety that no one path is ever going to truly work for everyone. Some people want strict rules and practices while others need things more free form. Hinduism embraces that variety of paths since it is more of an umbrella term than anything else. This is also useful for me since although I have been studying the vedas as a historical document they don't really give me much spiritually while the Bhagavad Gita has given me a great deal more.
I think we should take more from the example of the Buddha and be fine just telling people we don't know or that we don't have the answers to the questions they ask. The answers we get in our own lives are often for us and a good deal of what happens after that is unknowable. We should be concerned with our practice here and now and being good. It seems to me we get into squabbles over the tiniest parts of of doctrines without really embracing our own truths and acknowledging that things can be different for different people.
If you have a vegan friend you don't scorn them for it you just buy some vegan hotdogs so they can still attend the bbq. Maybe it's a little annoying to be accommodating sometimes but you need to try and welcome those people just as much as anyone else. God comes to us in myriad ways and we need to be willing to open ourselves up to that just as much as we need to be understanding that not everyone is going to be open or open the same way.