Vanakkam,
Hm, I would like to say, this is my personnal understanding of this:
Well, which parent hit and lock his children in a dark basement full of rats and monsters forever when the children make a single mistake ?
If the children is treatened to be locked forever away at a single mistake all the time, he will forget about loving his father/mother and will only fear punishement, and see punishment in them. Parents become then dangerous and monsters themselves.
I don't think God is like that, I hope I'm not the only one ! xD
Child soldiers, people born without hearing of God, atheists are not wrong people doomed to be punished. The conciousness we call many names allow us to follow our paths.
Imagine a mother warning her little children that just learned to walk: "don't go near the stairs, you'll fall"
The little children then go away from his mother's arms, and venture by himself in the house, in the world. He go near the stairs and trip, scratching his knee.
He begin to cry and cry, so his mother come and take him with her.
What will she do to her children ? Hitting him and punishing him because he didn't listened to her ? That wouldn't be very good for the children, as he is already crying in pain. A mother would logically heal and comfort her children.
Why punishing him ? What caused pain to the children ? He caused pain by his own actions, not by the action of her mother. His mother didn't push him in the stairs ! (what kind of mom would do that?!
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The children punished himself: the result of his actions were negative, they caused harm and pain. What the need for an eternal punishement in the basement with monsters ?
I think that basically, we are already punished by our karma. Perform bad actions, you'll have bad results back. God is the mother/father that warn us, that comfort us, the person we come to and say "Listen, I've made a bad mistake, I'm sorry...".
Premarital sex ? Why is it advised not ? Because by having sex while being immature, with many many people, you'll have problems like being young pregnant and having diseases.
Does that mean each time you have premarital sex you are immature, and going to have diseases and being pregnant ? No. When you deeply love someone, when you don't force it, and take necessary steps and when you are loyal to your partner no matter what, you'll not make bad actions and not get bad results.
If you carefully go down the stairs, you'll not trip and fall.
Child soldiers are lacking love, and dragged into much suffering due to their young mind and ignorance, by people that have more power than them....Why would God punish them ? If they kill, their bad actions will come back at them in this life or in another, God doesn't have to do any punishment.
Ahah, Sorry, I may sound stupid, but this is how I feel about this
Because, when you fear God, how can you be someone naturally good and go close to Him if all the time you are litterally forcing yourself to act like this or that ? If you think more about the punishement than about God, then when are you loving Him ? It can become an issue in spiritual life, I think
:bounce have a good day everyone !