To everyone
Suppose Alice is measuring the spin of particles coming at her with a detector. Suppose they are coming at her one by one. So she records their spin, which might look like:
UP, DOWN, UP, DOWN, DOWN, UP, UP, DOWN, DOWN UP, ....
She notices that 50% are UP, and 50% are down. According to QM, this is what she should get.
Bob does the same at his end. He gets:
DOWN, UP,DOWN, UP,UP, DOWN,DOWN, UP,UP, DOWN, ...
He also notices that 50% are UP, and 50% are down. And according to QM, this is what he should get.
Then one day, Alice and Bob get together and compare their data. Not only their data agrees with QM, but there's a correlation between them; every time Alice measured an UP spin, Bob measured a corresponding DOWN spin, and vice versa. So they wonder why.
So sometime later, a clever physicist points out to them that the particles they were measuring came from a common source which was at rest and was decaying, giving off particles going in opposite direction with opposite spin.
They now know the reason behind this correlation - conservation of angular momentum.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Alice doesn't know anything about the existence of Bob during her experiment. She doesn't know what Bob will measure at any time. Spinkles arguments are from a God's POV, so it's no wonder he concludes there is a spooky action at a distance.