"Everything happens for a reason."

[kreeden]

Is there dark without light,

Actually yes . In fact there can't be darkness with light as darkness is the lack of light . Which was kinda my point earlier ... { I think I had a point at lest } . When do we reach a point where reasons are so mixed and lost that they become meaningless ?

For excample , in the car accident that I talked about earlier , which causes actually had a direct effect upon the accident ? And there were so many causes that were just hinted at . For excample , " I wasn't paying attention ". Why ? If " you " hadn't decided to drive to the next ciry , but flew , what would have happened ?

Using " hind-sight " to find cause ... well , we will find what we are looking for after the fact . But looking ahead it is a completely different story . Each " cause " has so many possible " effects " , and then take into account of the effects of other possible " causes " may have upon that first effect , one ends up with pure Chaos .

What I'm trying to say is looking back on something , yes it usually appears that it could have happened no other way . But looking ahead ... well , the future is yet to be written .

 

[almifkhar]

yea i think it is true. life is a big learning experience. the whole point of it is to learn from the good choices you've made and also the mistakes you have made. if it works for you great, if not don't repete the mistake instead learn from it and try something new.