They seemed awful preachy to me.
Especially after finding your
unsourced criteria list...
I do not disagree with the list.
However, I am curious who came up with it.
A direct question you completely failed to address, let alone answer.
What, exactly, makes her question about the standards "foolish (and that is being generous)"?
So "foolish" in fact, the only thing you were able to provide in answer is to be "generous" calling it "foolish" and make the bold empty claim that "it is an admission that you were wrong"?
Which brings up the whole wrong about what, exactly?