Not sure what you're trying to say with this.
Do you think believing to be the master of your own fate redeems you from the the point written in the OP?
To me it just shows that some people value power and/or autonomy more, whereas others seem to put more emphasis on submission and humility.
That is the "lie" I tell myself.
I don't like to call it lying though, as I don't believe I'm deceiving myself, I'm creating order in my mind by slapping labels on things.
Of course this could be seen as just another lie.
But if all we know is lies, then what does truth mean?
I meant that the pattern can't be broken. It's in our core of being. It's who we are as humans (storytellers).
Just as you can't fight Fate.