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For males only: Why girls kiss girls

Skwim

Veteran Member
Washington (ANI) - Britney and Madonna created a roar with their much-publicised on-stage liplock, and so did Scarlett Johansson and Sandra Bullock. But what is it that makes women to indulge in such a sexual act with the same gender.

Sociology professor Verta Taylor, of the University of California, Santa Barbara, and her colleague, Leila J. Rupp of the school's feminist studies department, examined the trend in a new study.

In one national survey, they report, fewer than 2 percent of women called themselves lesbian or bisexual, but fully 8 percent reported either feeling same-sex desire or engaging in some kind of same-sex act.

The absolute numbers seem low - no surprise in a study that relies on self-reporting about so personal a matter - but what's more important is the 4-to-1 ratio between label and behaviour, and that, the authors say, reveals a lot.


There are four main drivers of the girl-girl trend.

The first is the copycat trendiness that is inevitable when stars on awards shows do something sensational on camera.

But the biggest of the other three reasons is a desire for attention, typically from boys.

Genuine experimentation is another motivation for same-sex connecting between females who don't see themselves as lesbians.

For other girls - those on their way to coming out as lesbians, or just discovering their orientation themselves - girl-girl kissing, particularly in a party setting, provides a safe and comfortable glide path in what can often be a rocky transition.
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Smoke

Done here.
One of my former students used to say she liked to party with white people, because white people just like to drink and have fun, but "when white girls get drunk they always start kissing on each other, and that's when I get out of there." :)
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Hmm...O.K I'll answer this one..I kissed a girl just because I wanted to.I dont give a crap what other people think..It was fun.I liked it..

Love

Dallas
 

blackout

Violet.
Why would my reason for kissing a girl
be notably different from my reason for kissing a guy?

My reason for kissing a particular individual
would vary more than my reason for kissing a gender. :shrug:
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Why would my reason for kissing a girl
be notably different from my reason for kissing a guy?

My reason for kissing a particular individual
would vary more than my reason for kissing a gender. :shrug:

Because Violet..not for you but for many its weird and strange kissing same gender..
 

blackout

Violet.
Why this need to "label" behavior.

Just do what feels right.
Be YourSelf.

If you mutually desire to kiss someone,
why make a case study about it.

Why do we have to explain "kissing"?
 

blackout

Violet.
Because Violet..not for you but for many its weird and strange kissing same gender..

If it's all that weird and strange,
I doubt the comfort level, desire, and attraction
would lead you to kiss someone of the same gender then.

Unless you're a fan of weird and strange,
and you purposefully do what is weird and strange to you
'just because'.

(in which case it has very little to do with "kissing"--
and far more to do with the 'weird and strange')
 
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blackout

Violet.
Why is it never considered "experimentation"
when someone kisses those of the opposite sex.

Yet when someone kisses those of the same sex,
you hear the word "experimentation" quite alot.

How many homosexuals have "experimented"
(and so much on account of societal 'norms')
kissing and so forth, those of the opposite sex,
before finally coming to the conclusion
that they want only partners of the same sex.

If we were a more relaxed society
we really wouldn't worry so much about
who is kissing who, or why.
 

Smoke

Done here.
If you mutually desire to kiss someone,why make a case study about it.

Why do we have to explain "kissing"?

P.G. Wodehouse had one of his characters admonish a jealous lover: "Didn't your mother teach you anything about the facts of life? Don't you know that everybody kisses everybody in rose gardens?"

:)
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Because a girls face will never irritate your face from stubble, and will never get hair up your nose from long facial hair.

If we were a more relaxed society
we really wouldn't worry so much about
who is kissing who, or why.
Alot of it the "experimenting" is to act out fantasy, for the shock and thrill of doing something taboo, and just to try it. Some people do need to experiment to find out just what they like, maybe more but we'll never know because of the social repercussions, especially for men.
Now what I really don't understand is why some people drool over girl on girl, yet at the same time guy on guy is a horrid abomination. It is the same exact concept, just different parts.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Because a girls face will never irritate your face from stubble, and will never get hair up your nose from long facial hair.


Alot of it the "experimenting" is to act out fantasy, for the shock and thrill of doing something taboo, and just to try it. Some people do need to experiment to find out just what they like, maybe more but we'll never know because of the social repercussions, especially for men.
Now what I really don't understand is why some people drool over girl on girl, yet at the same time guy on guy is a horrid abomination. It is the same exact concept, just different parts.

I always wonedred that too..One is "hot" one is revolting..I think its penis brain..

Love

Dallas
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
I always wonedred that too..One is "hot" one is revolting..I think its penis brain..
I'd prefer pictures over video, but I don't see why two guys kissing isn't supposed to be hot? Most porn is cheesy and so ridiculous it should have a sub label of comedy, but even with guy on guy it can be interesting at times.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
I'd prefer pictures over video, but I don't see why two guys kissing isn't supposed to be hot? Most porn is cheesy and so ridiculous it should have a sub label of comedy, but even with guy on guy it can be interesting at times.

I dont like porn at all.Period..Im talking about live..

Love

Dallas
 
One of my former students used to say she liked to party with white people, because white people just like to drink and have fun, but "when white girls get drunk they always start kissing on each other, and that's when I get out of there." :)

LOL !!!!
Anyways I know girls that kiss girls. I just go *face palm*
I actually know real lesbians though. And it is sad the way these straight girls are making lesbians look like... well... cheap.
 

Valjean

Veteran Member
Premium Member
For whatever reason, there's a lot less social stigma attached to female-female physical contact, dancing, &c.
 

no-body

Well-Known Member
They should change it to something like why straight girls kiss other straight girls in public. Obvious answer is attention whoring.
 
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