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"Forced Genital Cutting," and Jewish circumcision

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Also if you look it up...you will find plenty of stories of men who resent being circumsized as infants...as well as before and after stories of men who got circumsized as adults who regret it mostly due to loss of sensitivity.The foreskin(for one) acts as a barrier to protect the glans from becoming "tough" from rubbing up against clothing.One man described it as similar to his fingers becoming calloused from playing his guitar as far as the difference in sensitivity before and after.

Just because nobody here on this thread is complaining does not mean that its right to make that decision for an infant.A lot of these men talk about how the sensitivity is lost over TIME....



I guess these men are **** out of luck because the parents had a 'right" to decide they didn't need their foreskin...

If you regret being circumcised post here
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
It hurts like hell to have your wisdom teeth removed,

Because wisdom teeth serve no function other than causing issues.

I think whats avoided in these debates is some of the FUNCTIONS the foreskin serves which is not debated..And only what kinds of POTENTIAL problems can arise.

What is lost for some men because of it is completely ignored.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Im just even further convicted listening to some of those men's stories.Its heartbreaking.It doesn't sound like its too good for women either.Including the foreskin apparently aids in lubrication during sex..but hey ...that's what we have Astroglide and Ky for.
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
Yes and no. It's interesting in context, but it's likely not directly applicable to other cultures and circumstances.

Yes and no. What these studies suggest is that a circumicised male is statistically at less risk of HIV infection and statistically is less likely to transmit HPV, genital herpes and other STIs to a partner.

There's no insinuation that circumicision should replace safe sex practices. These statements are no less factual, because the majority of trials were conducted in Africa. You apply this summary to your own culture when weighing risks and benefits.

Male circumcision reduces the risk that a man will acquire HIV from an infected female partner, and also lowers the risk of other STDs , penile cancer, and infant urinary tract infection.
For female partners, male circumcision reduces the risk of cervical cancer, genital ulceration, bacterial vaginosis, trichomoniasis, and HPV. Although male circumcision has risks including pain, bleeding, and infection, more serious complications are rare.

Source: CDC - Male Circumcision - Research - Prevention Research - HIV/AIDS

This is the most up to date position of the AAP:

Since the last policy was published, scientific research shows clearer health benefits to the procedure than had previously been demonstrated. According to a systematic and critical review of the scientific literature, the health benefits of circumcision include lower risks of acquiring HIV, genital herpes, human papilloma virus and syphilis. Circumcision also lowers the risk of penile cancer over a lifetime; reduces the risk of cervical cancer in sexual partners, and lowers the risk of urinary tract infections in the first year of life.


The AAP believes the health benefits are great enough that infant male circumcision should be covered by insurance, which would increase access to the procedure for families who choose it.


“Ultimately, this is a decision that parents will have to make,” said Susan Blank, MD, FAAP, chair of the task force that authored the AAP policy statement and technical report. “Parents are entitled to medically accurate and non-biased information about circumcision, and they should weigh this medical information in the context of their own religious, ethical and cultural beliefs.”

The medical benefits alone may not outweigh other considerations for individual families. The medical data show that the procedure is safest and offers the most health benefits if performed during the newborn period. The AAP policy recommends infant circumcision should be performed by trained and competent providers, using sterile techniques and effective pain management.

Source: http://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-...inal-Say-is-Still-Up-to-parents-Says-AAP.aspx

Let's back up a moment. Here's the summary for the study cited by the CDC:

Male circumcision and risk of HIV infection amo... [J Infect Dis. 2009] - PubMed - NCBI

If you're correct and circumcision reduces the risk of HIV infection, then there should have been a positive correlation in both groups, not just one. In people who visited the clinic who were unsure if they'd been exposed to HIV, the prevalence rate ratio was exactly 1.00... i.e. circumcision provided no benefit at all. Why do you think this is?

Jeff, you and I are going to find statistics to support our own views.

Ultimately, the CDC makes no recommendations, as you've reminded me in the past. We will intrepet this info as we see fit. HIV statistics have to be approached differently in the United States. I don't argue this, but, that which studies have yielded are no less relevant to those in the United States who are exposed or part of high-risk groups.


No, that's not what the studies say. You have to think a bit more about what's going on. The study group and the control group are both made up of a variety of men with a variety of characteristics: some engage in high-risk practices, some don't. Some use condoms consistently, some don't. If the study was done well, then they would have controlled for these sorts of variables by doing their best to ensure that the study group and the control group are the same except for the variable being studied.

Now... only certain people in those groups will become infected; a 1% infection rate doesn't mean that each person is "1% infected" with HIV; it means that 1% of the people are 100% infected and the rest aren't infected at all.

Other evidence we have shows that consistent condom usage provides very good protection against HIV infection, so odds are that in that study group, more often than not, the people that are getting infected will be the ones who don't use condoms consistently.

Why are you attempting to argue this with me, when I don't disagree?

This does not null the statistical probability of a man who is uncircumcised and engaging in unprotected sex, being at higher risk for certain STIs and transmission of STIs.

Sure, I'd consider it. But why vaccinate babies against HIV? Why not take a cue from the other vaccine we have for an STD: HPV vaccines don't get given out until early adolescence. At that age, yes, the parent can still override the child, but at least the child is old enough to express an opinion.


It's quite different, actually:

- there's a need for immunization in childhood to protect the child himself/herself. There are also compelling public health reasons not to let unvaccinated children run around infecting other people.

- when wisdom teeth need to be removed, it's a time-critical thing. If it's delayed, the patient will suffer quite a bit later. If they don't need to be removed, the dentist usually won't recommend that they be removed.

Also, wisdom teeth aren't removed until the child is able to express an opinion on the matter... if it isn't in adulthood anyhow - I got mine taken out at 19.

Again, this is you imposing your opinions on how parents should make decisions for their children.

I respect your right to refrain from making certain decisions. I don't have a problem with you deciding that circumcision would be wrong for your child and that you would refrain from having certain procedures done if you didn't have weigh in from your child.

I'm not arrogant enough to impose my personal thoughts on how your children should be raised.

Again, I am a proponent of parents making educated choices for their children.

I think you do exactly the same thing, only with different (and IMO arbitrary) lines for what's acceptable and what's not. When analogies get thrown around like cutting off a child's earlobes, tribal scarification, tattooing , or just giving a baby a good hard slap, you're happy to whine and complain that they're trying to equate circumcision with child abuse. Well, if you really believe what you're arguing here, then who are you to call those things child abuse?

You might have a point here, if earlobe mutiliation, tribal sacrification and the like were deemed practices per the AAP, pediatricians and physicians - that parents could make for themselves confidently through unbiased education and consultation with medical professionals. These are not acceptable practices in America, period.

You can't compare them to male circumcision, because in my country, these types of practices are not common or lawfully accepted.

I'm glad you agree. Now remember it and apply some common sense to the statistics you like to throw around.

Same thing goes for you. At the end of the day, you disagree with the procedure primarily because it causes pain. You reject the policy statement of the AAP. Got it.

So as long as the complication rate of circumcision is less than 50%, it's irrelevant?

Did I say that? No.

But, how can you expect me to have the same emotional reaction to this, when I've had more exposure to circumcision than you have, and the complication rate amongst my peer group is much less than 50%, if not null?

What do you want me to say?

There are actions that are beneficial for children, even though they cause pain. There are also actions that cause pain to children without an associated benefit.

Per you. You don't acknowledge any benefit of infant male circumcision, which is fine.

I respect the rights of those parents who do construe benefit. That's all there is to it.

I don't think that his parents were evil, if that's what you're getting at. If his parents were brought up to think of circumcision as normal, and if his father was circumcised himself, I'd probably be inclined to see them as victims, too.

I'm looking forward to FH responding to this on his own.

Well, with any luck, generations that follow us will continue to be less and less exposed to circumcision than you have been. It will be a win-win: you can keep on believing that you know better than everyone else while fewer and fewer children get hurt.

You slay me with your dramatics.

If anything, YOU are the one who is projecting as if you know better than everyone else. I'm not interested in imposing my opinions on the decisions of other people in regard to their parenting when they are acting lawfully and in what they feel to be in in the best interest of their child. You however, are.
 
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DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
I don't think that his parents were evil, if that's what you're getting at. If his parents were brought up to think of circumcision as normal, and if his father was circumcised himself, I'd probably be inclined to see them as victims, too.

This is how I feel about it.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
So as long as the complication rate of circumcision is less than 50%, it's irrelevant?

Exactly and do we get to count the rate of complications that can happen later in life?Like circumcision being linked to higher instances of erectile dysfunction?

How many adult males would need to come forward ..the ones who are LIVING with negative affects of circumcision to admit its was THEIR RIGHT and yes as an INFANT not to be needlessly and permanently mutilated?

I don't think I would have the balls to look at one of my sons in the face if they end up with sexual difficulties because of my choice to say "well plenty of men don't have an issue" ..and "it was my right to follow cultural norms" so just deal with it.
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
Exactly and do we get to count the rate of complications that can happen later in life?Like circumcision being linked to higher instances of erectile dysfunction?

How many adult males would need to come forward ..the ones who are LIVING with negative affects of circumcision to admit its was THEIR RIGHT and yes as an INFANT not to be needlessly and permanently mutilated?

I don't think I would have the balls to look at one of my sons in the face if they end up with sexual difficulties because of my choice to say "well plenty of men don't have an issue" ..and "it was my right to follow cultural norms" so just deal with it.

Per the AAP:

Penile problems may develop in both circumcised and uncircumcised males. The true frequency of these problems is unknown

Also per the AAP:
A survey of adult males using self-report suggests more varied sexual practice and less sexual dysfunction in circumcised adult men.13 There are anecdotal reports that penile sensation and sexual satisfaction are decreased for circumcised males. Masters and Johnson noted no difference in exteroceptive and light tactile discrimination on the ventral or dorsal surfaces of the glans penis between circumcised and uncircumcised men.31

Also per the AAP:
The true incidence of complications after newborn circumcision is unknown.32 Reports of two large series have suggested that the complication rate is somewhere between 0.2% and 0.6%.33,,34 Most of the complications that do occur are minor.35 The most frequent complication, bleeding, is seen in ∼0.1% of circumcisions.35

Source: Circumcision Policy Statement
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
what should we tell this guy?

'm only 28, and already my glans is almost completely numb. If I touch it with my finger I feel sensation only in the fingertip. When I see porn where the woman is gently touching the head of the penis, and moving the foreskin up and down over it, I know what I have lost. The loss itself is hard to deal with, but to hear people in the circumcision "debate" claiming that it causes no loss in sexual function, that it is just a snip of a useless piece of skin, is like getting kicked in the ribs. Knowing that millions of boys are still being circumcised and there is no law to protect them makes it impossible to heal and move on.

The sexual aspect is only one part of it. Another is seeing video of a baby strapped down by his wrists and ankles, screaming until he can barely breathe, while his perfectly healthy penis is gushing blood from surgical wounds. This act was done to me. There are people who tell me that because I cannot remember it, it is perfectly all right. I feel violated physically and sexually, and betrayed.

The only thing that makes me feel better about any of this is to see people choosing not to circumcise. When I see mothers expressing their regret I grieve with them and feel less alone with my pain. All of this is so easily preventable... I wish I could be more eloquent and persuasive but it is so hard for a man to talk about another violating his manhood. There is a lot of shame and self reproach, even though I know there was nothing I could do to defend myself. I still feel like less of a man.

And this guy?

Lets see, regret being circumcised? Regret that the most important part of my anatomy for sexual function and feeling was removed for no good reason? Regret that I had to suffer through the trauma of unbearable pain on the order of waterboarding or worse, when I couldn't deal with it mentally as an infant? Regret that my (and my partner's) sexual experience was a lukewarm shadow of what it could have been?

Oh yes, big time.

But I had no idea. And if I had never restored, I would still not know. But now I do know a lot of what I was robbed of. And it was a lot.

Yes, I regret it. If I could go back in time and prevent it, I would. And I am restoring to get back as much as I can. And now I know the real, unstated reason, why they do it to infants. That way the man has no way to know what he lost.

Regards


Oh really????

Penile problems may develop in both circumcised and uncircumcised males. The true frequency of these problems is unknown

So thats a good reason to keep doing it??????
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
what should we tell this guy?



And this guy?




Oh really????



So thats a good reason to keep doing it??????

I'm not in the position to tell either guy, anything. They should be working with their physician to determine the cause and best treatment for their issues. If circumcision is the deemed cause for their ailments, who is accountable?

Not you. Not me.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
I'm not in the position to tell either guy, anything. They should be working with their physician to determine the cause and best treatment for their issues. If circumcision is the deemed cause for their ailments, who is accountable?

Not you. Not me.

It should be the person who performed it, ideally. In any other cosmetic procedure, the informed consent of the patient is required. This is what transfers responsibility for foreseeable risks from the doctor to the patient. In the case of infant circumcision, informed consent was never obtained, so the responsibility for normal risks should stay with the person who committed the act.
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
It should be the person who performed it, ideally. In any other cosmetic procedure, the informed consent of the patient is required. This is what transfers responsibility for foreseeable risks from the doctor to the patient. In the case of infant circumcision, informed consent was never obtained, so the responsibility for normal risks should stay with the person who committed the act.

No ****. But, an adult might also hold their parents accountable for making a poor choice. I can understand that.

Correct your statement. For ANY procedure concerning a minor, in the United States, parental consent is required.
 

Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
Ha ha! You're insinuating that a good number of US men have serious health problems as a result of their circumcision and they don't even know it!

Seriously, this is becoming asinine. Why would a man, who is happy, healthy and enjoying a productive sex life regret a small procedure that he has no remembrance of?

It's important to be respectful of religious and cultural practice, if we are to function as free societies, even if it makes the junk in your pants quiver in fear.

It seems to have MORE of an impact on YOU than those who have undergone the procedure as infants and then as adult men.

I am not insinuating anything... I said they were fine with it.
I asked a question How does anyone know ??? if sensitivity has been lost. ???
A circumcised person only knows what they feel now, not what they might have felt.
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
I am not insinuating anything... I said they were fine with it.
I asked a question How does anyone know ??? if sensitivity has been lost. ???
A circumcised person only knows what they feel now, not what they might have felt.

In fairness to you, Terry, I apologize if I misrepresented anything that you said or inquired.

The thing about penile dysfunction and sensitivity issues, is that it happens to BOTH uncircumcised and circumcised males. There's no conclusive evidence that links circumcision to penile dysfunction and sensitivity issues, at least not on a broad scale. Some studies suggest that greater issues occur in uncircumcised men.

I can't argue with you. If you don't have foreskin, you don't know what sex would have felt like for you, with foreskin. But, considering the data provided in regards to penile dysfunction and loss of sensitivity - the subject seems too inconclusive to at least on a broader scale, to worry about.

I would hope that a man suffering from any type of dysfunction is consulting a physician to investigate cause and treatment.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
No ****. But, an adult might also hold their parents accountable for making a poor choice. I can understand that.
So you think that a child should be able to, say, sue their parents for undesired effects of their circumcision?

The thing about penile dysfunction and sensitivity issues, is that it happens to BOTH uncircumcised and circumcised males. There's no conclusive evidence that links circumcision to penile dysfunction and sensitivity issues, at least not on a broad scale.
It's a known risk due to circumcision, and while it's rare, it happens orders of magnitude more often than, say, HIV infection, which you considered enough of a risk to make note of.

Some studies suggest that greater issues occur in uncircumcised men.
Which studies? Please be specific.
 

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
So you think that a child should be able to, say, sue their parents for undesired effects of their circumcision?


It's a known risk due to circumcision, and while it's rare, it happens orders of magnitude more often than, say, HIV infection, which you considered enough of a risk to make note of.


Which studies? Please be specific.

If they have the legal ability to sue their parents and that's what they feel they need to do, I'm not in a position to dictate their decisions.

I am wrong. Studies have not yielded significant differences between the penile sensitivity of circumcised and uncircumcised males. There are no studies suggesting that circumcised men mayhave greater sensitivity. I'm trying to figure out what I misread. I screwed up and take ownership of it.

The AAP references this:

A survey of adult males using self-report suggests more varied sexual practice and less sexual dysfunction in circumcised adult men.13 There are anecdotal reports that penile sensation and sexual satisfaction are decreased for circumcised males. Masters and Johnson noted no difference in exteroceptive and light tactile discrimination on the ventral or dorsal surfaces of the glans penis between circumcised and uncircumcised men.31

Additional resources:

Prevent Disease.com - Circumcision Does Not Dull Sensitivity: Study
Circumcised men are just as sensitive - Technology & Science - CBC News
Circumcision Does Not Affect Sensitivity

You'll find articles as well that debunk these. So, it really depends on which side of the fence a person is on when discussing this issue. We'll all find data to support our stance. I'm ultimately comfortable with that provided by the AAP and the family physician. I'm sure you're comfortable with those resources that support your ideas.
 
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Me Myself

Back to my username
Which is the percentage of males that regret the circumsicion anyways?

Which is the percentage of males that we conclusively know have lost some function by the circumsizion?
 

Me Myself

Back to my username
Did you know that the usage of shoes deform the feet?

The feet will stay deformed too. It is a choice made for the kids that they wont be able to take back.

Ere are also clear links between usage of shoes and more abundancy of feet problems like flat feet.
 
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DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
A circumcised person only knows what they feel now, not what they might have felt.

The accounts of men who were not circumcised who later as adults had themselves circumcised are very telling.Yes loss of sensitivity is reported.

So instead of just looking for statistics I take the men's word for it who experience it.
 

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Did you know that the usage of shoes deform the feet?

For most of us...shoes are NECESSARY to substantially prevent injury .Including things such as frost bite in which can lead to having to have our feet amputated..lacerations..infections etc....
 

Me Myself

Back to my username
The accounts of men who were not circumcised who later as adults had themselves circumcised are very telling.Yes loss of sensitivity is reported.

So instead of just looking for statistics I take the men's word for it who experience it.

I also take the men's word for it, and a lot of them report increased sensibility.

So I just assume placebo/nocebo effect on both cases until anyone can evidence conclusively that there is any change.

For most of us...shoes are NECESSARY to substantially prevent injury .Including things such as frost bite in which can lead to having to have our feet amputated..lacerations..infections etc....

In most enviroments, this is just plain false.

Unless you are out in the snow or walking around diseased pheces, shoes are unnecessary.

To the very least, you could use sandals, they are cheaper. Then again, shoes are more aesthetic and sandals are "inappropiate" to many events, so they make them use shoes.

I would bet a lot more damage has been done by shoes than by circumsicion.
 
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