Not really my thing, but if it's yours, go for it. Have fun, play safe, make sure everyone involved is on the same page.
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Forget All About Premarital Sex...Instead: What Do You Think About Casual Sex?
- Thread starter Sunstone
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Just him? Is it illegitimate if she participates?
That would be perverse!
Women are pure of thought & feeling.
Besides, it takes much less time if she's left out.
Oh, it's the whole, "Just play dead and he'll go away" -- thing. I get it.
Beware a date who asks....
"How good are you at lying real still?"
"How good are you at lying real still?"
My answer to the OP is:
I consciously gave up the option for casual sex when I took a vow of marriage, one in which both parties intended it to be a monogamous relationship. For me, it is not ok to have casual sex.
As far as other people are concerned, I think it's ok for them to have casual sex if they are consenting adults. I don't see how it's any of my business.
I consciously gave up the option for casual sex when I took a vow of marriage, one in which both parties intended it to be a monogamous relationship. For me, it is not ok to have casual sex.
As far as other people are concerned, I think it's ok for them to have casual sex if they are consenting adults. I don't see how it's any of my business.
It's supposed to be formal after marriage?
No one told us!
Really. A guy that doesn't get it's important to put in at least equal effort is already accustomed to not having repeat requests.
That'd be a dinner with no dessert.
That's ok. If you take out the trash that will make everything better.
I never said the date with the question was a guy.
Well, that is my job.
I also do the recyclables & the compost.
Whuhhh?
I meant one person would be doing all the work, the other one not...not doing the work. That's as far as I'll go with it.
If you still don't get it maybe @Buttercup can explain it to you.
Oh, I understand not working.I meant one person would be doing all the work, the other one not...not doing the work. That's as far as I'll go with it.
If you still don't get it maybe @Buttercup can explain it to you.
Not to brag, but I'm rather gifted in that area.
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RF's pet cat
I won't make any moral judgements about it, it's not part of my socially liberal ideals. I think people should be free to express themselves sexually as long as it doesn't harm anyone (I include unsafe sex into the definition of harm, as it could lead to spreading diseases). It's none of my business what goes on in their bedrooms.
But it's not for me personally. I'm married but even if I was single, I wouldn't want it. I'd worry too much about the possible consequences, I'd feel too anxious towards a person I don't know well and that wouldn't enjoyable at all. I also kind of find it pointless, as I think there's better ways to meet my needs without the risks and anxiety. I don't tend to want people in this way, unless I feel strongly about them. So I'd just wait to be in a relationship and then share myself with them.
I don't know if it has anything to do with it, but maybe it's noteworthy that I'm introverted. So I have no desire to know many people or be with many people, especially when it comes to something intimate. So there's that too.
But it's not for me personally. I'm married but even if I was single, I wouldn't want it. I'd worry too much about the possible consequences, I'd feel too anxious towards a person I don't know well and that wouldn't enjoyable at all. I also kind of find it pointless, as I think there's better ways to meet my needs without the risks and anxiety. I don't tend to want people in this way, unless I feel strongly about them. So I'd just wait to be in a relationship and then share myself with them.
I don't know if it has anything to do with it, but maybe it's noteworthy that I'm introverted. So I have no desire to know many people or be with many people, especially when it comes to something intimate. So there's that too.