Friendship between man and woman is not healthy

[Estro Felino]

well...that's what my religion teacher used to say in Middle school.
and I absolutely agreed with her.

because if men start treating women as friends and vice-versa, that romantic magic, that mystery between the male and the female world is destroyed.

That's why I see lots of girls turning into ladettes...into butches...you know what I mean. Because they talk to men and consequently, are drawn to their same level. Women are supposed not to talk to men. Or if they talk to them, they should never look them into their eyes.

 

[Estro Felino]

In fact I have only female friends.
I don't like talking to men. We are two worlds apart

 

[Smart_Guy]

But... but... aren't I your friend?

 

[Estro Felino]

But... but... aren't I your friend?

yes...you are.
But try to understand me...with women there is more empathy

 

[Thana]

yes...you are.
But try to understand me...with women there is more empathy

I'm curious, Do you ever get tired of stirring the pot?

 

[Revoltingest]

You sure have lots'o rules, Hayster.

 

[Pegg]

well...that's what my religion teacher used to say in Middle school.
and I absolutely agreed with her.

because if men start treating women as friends and vice-versa, that romantic magic, that mystery between the male and the female world is destroyed.

That's why I see lots of girls turning into ladettes...into butches...you know what I mean. Because they talk to men and consequently, are drawn to their same level. Women are supposed not to talk to men. Or if they talk to them, they should never look them into their eyes.

where in the world do you come up with this stuff??? :thud:

 

[dawny0826]

well...that's what my religion teacher used to say in Middle school.
and I absolutely agreed with her.

because if men start treating women as friends and vice-versa, that romantic magic, that mystery between the male and the female world is destroyed.

That's why I see lots of girls turning into ladettes...into butches...you know what I mean. Because they talk to men and consequently, are drawn to their same level. Women are supposed not to talk to men. Or if they talk to them, they should never look them into their eyes.

Women are not supposed to talk to men by whose ridiculous standards, yours?

Speak for yourself. The majority of people that I know met their significant others via online resources, becoming friends before becoming lovers, before commitment.

Healthy relationships are often built on friendship, communication and trust.

 

[Brinne]

That's why I see lots of girls turning into ladettes...into butches...you know what I mean. Because they talk to men and consequently, are drawn to their same level. Women are supposed not to talk to men. Or if they talk to them, they should never look them into their eyes.

So do men who talk to too many women turn into flamboyant drag queens?

 

[Estro Felino]

Healthy relationships are often built on friendship, communication and trust.

No, honey. Lasting relationships are based upon romance and passion.
A woman is supposed to remain always an irresistible erotic prey for her man...that is...she should invent something new every day to turn her husband on.
so woman is supposed to remain mysterious...not like a friend...but like something which is both dangerous and catchy-

Friendship is the basis of love? ah ah
that's why men get tired of women: when women become their friends and they don't turn them on any more
so either they dump them or they seek mistresses

 

[Poeticus]

But... but... aren't I your friend?

I'm curious, Do you ever get tired of stirring the pot?

You sure have lots'o rules, Hayster.

where in the world do you come up with this stuff??? :thud:

Women are not supposed to talk to men by whose ridiculous standards, yours?

Speak for yourself. The majority of people that I know met their significant others via online resources, becoming friends before becoming lovers, before commitment.

Healthy relationships are often built on friendship, communication and trust.

So do men who talk to too many women turn into flamboyant drag queens?

... Why do you all feed It ?

 

[lewisnotmiller]

No, honey. Lasting relationships are based upon romance and passion.
A woman is supposed to remain always an irresistible erotic prey for man...that is...she should invent something new every day to turn his husband on.
so the woman is supposed to remain mysterious...not like a friend...but like something which is both dangerous and catchy-

Friendship is the basis of love? ah ah
that's why men get tired of women: when women become their friends and they don't turn them on any more
so either they dump them or they seek mistresses
women are forced to look always irresistible because men are pigs.

Wow...that is one interesting take on gender relations you have.
So I need to become less friendly with my wife, act more like a pig, and my marriage will be better....or blame her and take a mistress?

Well...okay then. If you're sure. Wish me luck.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

... Why do you all feed It ?

You have to admit, its kinda perversely interesting to see where things lead.

 

[Estro Felino]

You have to admit, its kinda perversely interesting to see where things lead.

It's frustrating to see that people don't understand that I am from a different cultural background than theirs. So they easily criticize

In my country men act and think that way. If you think their behavior is wrong, then try to convince them to act otherwise

 

[lewisnotmiller]

It's frustrating to see that people don't understand that I am from a different cultural background than theirs. So they easily criticize

In my country men act and think that way. If you think their behavior is wrong, then try to convince them to act otherwise

Even assuming that's true, why do I need to convince them of anything? You're the one suggesting you agreed with your teacher that men and women can't be friends, that women are designed to be erotic prey, and that men are pigs.

If you want to add a caveat of 'in Italy' and think that validates your opinion, be my guest.
Me, I think youre serving up your own view of gender relationships, and hiding behind a statement that 'its cultural' but I could be wrong. Its just my opinion.

 

[Smart_Guy]

I don't have female friends. I don't even interact much with my female relatives.

Dunno if it is because of my fear of women or if my fear of women was caused because of it.

I'm 32 and not married.



(goes to a corner and cries)

 

[Godobeyer]

well...that's what my religion teacher used to say in Middle school.
and I absolutely agreed with her.

because if men start treating women as friends and vice-versa, that romantic magic, that mystery between the male and the female world is destroyed.

That's why I see lots of girls turning into ladettes...into butches...you know what I mean. Because they talk to men and consequently, are drawn to their same level. Women are supposed not to talk to men. Or if they talk to them, they should never look them into their eyes.

I do agree with that , because that's correspond to Islam teaches

-chat in virtual social media like RF ,with ALL respect, for my opinion , it not equal to talk face to face in same place personally .

 

[ametist]

It's frustrating to see that people don't understand that I am from a different cultural background than theirs. So they easily criticize

In my country men act and think that way. If you think their behavior is wrong, then try to convince them to act otherwise

there can be a cultural majority but it is not possible all men in your culture or around you chose and act exactly the same. There can be many different people among them.

we dont have to change anything. That's how they are. you just make your own choice and and direct your attention to some place else. suprisingly, you may begin to notice not all men were in that category.

it can be true many men prefer women to be sexy, myterious, and even unfriendly to be catchy. It doesnt matter. What matters is what you are gonna choose for your relationships.

I choose and prefer a friendly man. I am not some type of a toy box that i should come out with new tricks every day to look sexy etc. it is too much to ask from anyone. I cant ask this from a guy as well. it is ridiculous. it is a mutual duty to get the sexy out of each other if it ever comes to that point and only way that we can proceed that far, is that we should be convinced we are each other's trusted friends to begin with. To become someone's friend means that you know that person, without knowing a person, i simply find it gross to get involved in a sex activity.

In your posts I usually notice that you arent talking about your choices but the choice of the general what you think belongs widely to your culture. So how about once in a while absolutely consentrating on what YOU would choose and want.

correct me if i am wrong please.

 

[Godobeyer]

I don't have female friends. I don't even interact much with my female relatives.

Dunno if it is because of my fear of women or if my fear of women was caused because of it.

I'm 32 and not married.



(goes to a corner and cries)

That's good brother , i have an advise for you

if you will love a girl and you convinced on her 100 % and she love you (at least accept you) , just married her , without hestitation.

for my experience :

the break of the heart (lost your love) , is more painful than break the bones :sad4:

 

[Parsimony]

Sexism.

Sexism everywhere.