There is a lot of ways in which someone understands what God is, so it's better to first ask them what God means to them, and then to ask them to explain why they believe in that. I've found all too many atheists have a very narrow understanding of what God means and assume all those who say they believe in God believe in something that looks like the god of fundamentalists. Why else assume they, "do not listen to reason, logic, evidence, and facts"?One way to influence others is to first be influenced by them. In other words, seek first to understand, then to be understood. Maybe I would be less frustrated if I actually knew the reasons why you believe in God. Help me understand, and in turn I will respectfully respond, and if you care to hear I will respond with the reasons why I don't believe in God.
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So the question should be rather, how can belief in God be compatible with those, or better still, why is it that for some belief in God can cause a conflict with reason, logic, evidence and facts? There are answers for that. It's really not about God, but the ways in which one approaches their beliefs in general about anything at all.