Hello, hope you are doing well.Although, annihilationism is attractive, I don't believe that the Bible conveys that eschatological principle about the reprobate.
For, as Paul said that '...return evil with love...as it is tantamount to putting burning coals on the aggressor's head...', I compare this figurative usage of the expression to be aligned with Jesus' statement about '...weeping and gnashing of teeth...where the fire never quenches...'.
That is, the torment is internal - being ostracized from the Kingdom will surely elicit such frustration and regret, causing one's conscience to burn perpetually. After all, all the sinner had to do was say 'sorry' (repentance), and 'thank you!' for God's grace - salvation handed to them on a silver platter. Point being, therefore, they will be punishing themselves - God is not a sadist.
And, the indictment is warranted, for they treated Christ's love and God's mercy with contempt and ridicule, while, at the same time, living a life of selfish and unholy behaviour.
Again, the punishment fits the crime, and they are inflicting it upon themselves.
If you and I continue sharing our thoughts with each other on the subject of death, or if you look at my past litany of posts on the subject, you’ll quickly find that I believe exactly as Ecclesiastes 9:5, Genesis 3:19, and Psalms 146:3,4 state: that the dead “know nothing”, that Adam returned “to dust”, and that when a person dies, “his spirit goes out, he goes back to the ground” and “his thoughts perish.”
As Jesus said about Lazarus in John 11:11-14, he had “fallen asleep.” (Paul used that term many times; a person asleep is not aware of what’s going on, or the passage of time.)
For all intents and purposes, the dead are temporarily non-existent, ie., temporarily annihilated.
But that’s what the promised Resurrection, in the future (John 6:44; Acts 24:15), will undo: bring back to life, those who’ve died.
And, as Romans 6:23 states, everlasting life is “the gift” God gives; it’s not used to inflict punishment in any way.
The only punishment given is death, ie., non-existence, the opposite of life.
I agree that God is not a sadist.
Human death now, resulting from sickness & death (as opposed to death by accident), is due to Adamic sin (Romans 5:12; Romans 6:23). From which Jesus’ sacrifice provides that Resurrection.
The “second death”, as mentioned in Scripture, is just eternal death. From which no one will ever be resurrected. They will simply be gone forever.
The Lake of Fire mentioned in Revelation 20:13,14 is symbolic. Because death is cast into it.
I mean, you really can’t burn death.
But it can be made to be gone forever… to be “no more”. And that’s exactly what the next chapter, at Revelation 21:4, states: “death (Adamic, resulting from sin) will be no more.”
Take care, my cousin.