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Gender gender gender I'm starting to hate all this ******

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
You're not really being that explicit. But objectifying and degrading yourself is not the way to be happy. Of course women are sexual beings (again you are putting words into people's mouths), but having a healthy sexuality does not mean turning yourself into an object and striping so you can find a mate. .

well...if there are no alternatives,... if there is no other way to draw a man's attention, what can a woman do?
by the way...we are going off-topic and I ask everyone for forgiveness. I just wanted to underline that femininity is objective. But that doesn't imply that you are supposed to be feminine, if you are a woman
 
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samosasauce

Active Member
well...if there are no alternatives,... if there is no other way to draw a man's attention, what can a woman do?
by the way...we are going off-topic and I ask everyone for forgiveness. I just wanted to underline that femininity is objective. But that doesn't imply that you are supposed to be feminine, if you are a woman
It just seems like you're confusing vanity for femininity :p but I can't change your view on femininity too easily, I know.
 

Alceste

Vagabond
well...if there are no alternatives,... if there is no other way to draw a man's attention, what can a woman do?
by the way...we are going off-topic and I ask everyone for forgiveness. I just wanted to underline that femininity is objective. But that doesn't imply that you are supposed to be feminine, if you are a woman

Nothing on the face of this earth is easier than drawing the sexual attention of men.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
You come from Sweden, right?
Have you ever heard of Victoria Silvstedt? She's one the most representative women of your country, I guess. She has dedicated all her life to beauty, and the results are visible. I guess she represents what kind of woman men really want.
and even the prince of Sweden has married an ex pornstar.
the kind of woman that men really desire

When it comes to Swedish women, I prefer Noomi Rapace. The one you mentioned looks like a damn blow up doll. That's not sexy.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
all right. I get your tastes, now. You don't like tall junoesque women with tiny waist, long legs and jugs as big as watermelons.

No, that's fine as long as their breasts are natural and they haven't had a bunch of plastic surgery. I do prefer dark hair, but blonde is fine if it's natural. :p
 

Alceste

Vagabond
When it comes to Swedish women, I prefer Noomi Rapace. The one you mentioned looks like a damn blow up doll. That's not sexy.

Ooh, I had to look them both up - didn't know the name of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo actress, but I definitely think she is a billion times hotter than the Swedish Pamela Anderson lookalike.

The truth is, some men do like the vacuous Barbie doll sex toy look, and some women do like to look like that. I sincerely hope they find each other and are happy together.

But for me, and for any man I would want to go out with, the Barbie doll look is deeply, deeply unattractive. To me, spending so much time and money being increasingly fake to match an impossible beauty standard suggests that the woman has some major psychological problems and is perhaps also unintelligent, selfish, frivolous and vain.

Edit: which is totally OK, by the way. Many men are also unintelligent, selfish, frivolous and vain, such as men who are attracted to living Barbie dolls. I sincerely hope everyone finds a good match. :)
 

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
Edit: which is totally OK, by the way. Many men are also unintelligent, selfish, frivolous and vain, such as men who are attracted to living Barbie dolls. I sincerely hope everyone finds a good match. :)

wait, wait, wait. I don't think it's fair to insult the men who prefer Barbie girls .
Flesh is weak...and men have some preferences, because they are made of flesh

I have preferences too. I don't like skinny men. I prefer the hairy ones, with tummy.
am I superficial too?
 
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Alceste

Vagabond
wait, wait, wait. I don't think it's fair to insult the men who prefer Barbie girls .
Flesh is weak...and men have some preferences, because they are made of flesh

I have preferences too. I don't like skinny men. I prefer the hairy ones, with tummy.
am I superficial too?

SOME men have those preferences. As I said, that's OK. Vain, frivolous and superficial people SHOULD be with one another - and leave the rest of us alone. :)

Yes, if you only like partners who fit one specific physical type, you are superficial. That's what superficial means. Looks are only skin deep.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Ooh, I had to look them both up - didn't know the name of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo actress, but I definitely think she is a billion times hotter than the Swedish Pamela Anderson lookalike.

The truth is, some men do like the vacuous Barbie doll sex toy look, and some women do like to look like that. I sincerely hope they find each other and are happy together.

But for me, and for any man I would want to go out with, the Barbie doll look is deeply, deeply unattractive. To me, spending so much time and money being increasingly fake to match an impossible beauty standard suggests that the woman has some major psychological problems and is perhaps also unintelligent, selfish, frivolous and vain.

Edit: which is totally OK, by the way. Many men are also unintelligent, selfish, frivolous and vain, such as men who are attracted to living Barbie dolls. I sincerely hope everyone finds a good match. :)

Noomi's pretty awesome. She was also in Prometheus and Dead Man Down (with Colin Farrell).

I never understood why that was supposed to be attractive. I never saw it as good. I always liked more natural looking women, punks and goths.
 

Estro Felino

Believer in free will
Premium Member
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Yes, if you only like partners who fit one specific physical type, you are superficial. That's what superficial means. Looks are only skin deep.

I didn't say that. I said I have a preference. Of course love wins over looks.
and I'm not that weird, given that most women prefer bellied men
 
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Alceste

Vagabond
I didn't say that. I said I have a preference. Of course love wins over looks.
and I'm not that weird, given that most women prefer bellied men

Lol. Have you noticed that when you generalize that "all women" (or even "most") are attracted to something silly, like a beer belly, then scale it back to "all Italian women", nobody is any more convinced than they were when you initially generalized "all women"?

That's because your sweeping, wildly incorrect generalizations hurt your credibility, to the point where I even have my doubts regarding your stories about your close personal friends.
 

lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
Lol. Have you noticed that when you generalize that "all women" (or even "most") are attracted to something silly, like a beer belly, then scale it back to "all Italian women", nobody is any more convinced than they were when you initially generalized "all women"?

That's because your sweeping, wildly incorrect generalizations hurt your credibility, to the point where I even have my doubts regarding your stories about your close personal friends.

^this+1
 

Draupadi

Active Member
all right...but women try to look feminine to be liked by men.
It's not pleasant to be single....is it?

Yes it is unpleasant to be single. But it is worse when you can't be yourself. I am currently single because my partner left me because I stand up to his abusive attitude, which he thinks is unfeminine, and because I am plus-sized. People always tells me that I will be a beauty if I lose weight. But I say I am happy as I am and if anyone likes me for being slim what will he do if I suddenly gain weight? By the way I gained weight because of medicines so you can't just say that things won't happen to you if you are careful and all.
 
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