So you're at the ridicule stage now? This is the second stage of apologetics, and the first decompensation stage. The apologist begins like you did - staid, even, unemotional, etc.. After awhile, he gets fristrated that he isn't making progress - that his ideas are being rejected.
Then comes the ridicule - the "ha-ha-ha"s and eye-rolling emojis.
The third stage is overt anger and hostility.
If you're going to post emotionally, it might be noticed and commented upon as I am doing now. Such behavior is inappropriate. It impedes progress and the exchange of ideas.
No, I had been fooled, but extricated myself from what was increasingly evidently seen to be a sterile ideology. I needed more.
Actually, it's people like you that make me feel smart when you make comments like that. Stupid people don't read things like that one. I never called myself smart. You did, albeit condescendingly according to your second stage of apologetics - the ridicule born of frustration. It happens every time.
And yes, I am correct. You are personally offended by my rejecting Christianity and calling the transition to secular humanism an improvement. What else could be eliciting all of this emotion from you? Do yourself a favor and learn to conceal it if you can. Your status just fell through the floor. The entire nature of our relationship and discussion has changed.
As they say in courtroom dramas when the witness, who had been friendly becomes hostile, "Your honor, permission to treat the witness as hostile." When you lapse into this state, you give your collocutor permission to comment on areas he might have felt uncomfortable broaching before as is happening here and now. You don't want that happening to you.
Did you ever see
My Little Chickadee starring Mae West? There is a scene in the movie in which Ms. West has approached the judge in a courtroom scene, and makes a snide remark under her breath. The judge angrily asks (paraphrasing), “Mrs. West. Are you trying to show contempt for this court?” to which she replied, “No, your honor. I’m doing my damnedest to conceal it.”
Good advice.
No. There is no evidence that spirits exist. I was having a psychological experience that I mistook for the spirit that I was promised would visit me, the Holy Spirit. That turned out to be an unkept promise.
I have no use in my life for ideas like spirits, and plenty of good reason to avoid believing in such things by faith. Faith was harmful to me. I made a very bad decision once based in faith. It's a poor method for deciding anything, and I've learned how to avoid it.
If this is fooled, then give me more. My life has been a good one. I have no complaints. My choices were good ones for me. I hope that yours brought you a good life.
I came out of Christianity emptier than I went into it? Possibly, but my cup is full today. What I want from life is love, beauty, friends, respect, autonomy, a sense of purpose, and freedom from want, shame, fear, and regret. I have that. What do you think that your religion has to offer a person that's happy?
Feel free to say it as often as you like. Your mere assertion has no persuasive power. I know what religious-type faith is. You merely disagreeing is meaningless.
You need to convince others of your claim. You don't even try beyond repeating yourself. Did you see what I wrote to
@usfan about indoctrination versus academic teaching? What you are doing is simply repeating yourself again and again with no evidence or argument in support of your claim. What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without rebuttal.
I've already done that. Do you remember the discussion on justified belief versus unjustified belief? When you have "faith" based in evidence, you have a justified belief. When you decide to believe something because you want it to be true, your belief is unjustified, and your faith is of the religious type. These are two different words spelled and pronounced the same. but with two antithetical meanings, like dust - when you dust your home, you are removing dust. When you dust for prints, you are adding dust. Two words with antithetical meanings spelled and pronounced the same - homonyms.
I realize that many Christians define a Christian as one who faithfully follows the teachings attributed to Christ, but I don't require that. That's a No True Christian fallacy (I've renamed the fallacy, since I only ever see it used in this context).
My definition of a Christian is a person who accepts Christian dogma, and I take people at their word if they tell me they are a Christian, which one could call a second definition of Christian - anyone who calls himself that. It's the one the census takers use to determine how many Christians, for example, there are in a given country or the world. They don't do a background check on either their beliefs or their behavior.