Is this World how God wanted it to be, or God wished it was different, but it turned out like this?
God (if you need to give him/her some sort of a personality) is not someone who has desires or wants that need to be fulfilled by the world being a certain way. You might think of God as the eternally existent tree and the various trillion worlds as the hundreds of varieties of flowers of various shapes, sizes, colors and smells that emerge out of it (but remain part of the tree throughout) and get re-absorbed into it. While being completely dependent on God for its existence, every flower (the universe and its multifarious) beings have complete autonomy to evolve and grow as they wish, thus making every one of them an unique and non-repeating and free and joyous expression of the infinite creative power of God. Birth, evolution, growth, decay, destruction and re-emergence is fundamental to sustain the dynamism of this creative kinetics. Pleasure and Pain are simply the Physico-mental reactions that we have to this flux of change that swings us from one state of being to another. Understand this. Sense and see this free God within yourself, see Him act in you and through and in everything and everyone around you....and you will see that same world that you feel broken and stuff....transformed into something else entirely.
Does this make the evil acts of humans and the suffering induced by such things less true for those who have experienced it? No. But the right understanding stops the pain from becoming suffering. And for the people doing evil acts, you see that they act as they do because their non-awareness has blinded them. And you feel compassion for them instead of hate...like you feel for a sick person who disease is contagious. And you have become vaccinated and hence gain the ability to be the only ones who can come near them and treat them.