I think what I am trying to say by the word relational, covers more than legal or business relationships. Maybe I dislike the legal verbiage, because it lacks any sense of love. "I am contractually your husband, wife." *Shakes hand politely and then fulfills his duties as husband contractually*. You see my point? I think treating God in legal terms, makes it feel more like a business partnership, than a growing dynamic love.I know you are smart enough to understand an analogy.
In a marriage... is it relational? Yes
Would you call it a transaction? Probably not.
Is it also legal? Yes
Is it a covenant? Yes
Are there requests that are met because of the relational, legal, covenant? Yes
And so to even come to God with a contractual obligation in mind, sets the whole thing on its ear for me. I'll share what I see. I think this whole legal verbiage is simply a metaphor to try to talk about, to put it simply, stuff that works and stuff that doesn't. It's basically our relationship with Reality, or our discordance with it. God's will, is that which promotes balance and harmony, health and vitality. When we act out of accord with the natural Way, which Christ symbolizes, then we lose balance, harmony, health, and vitality.
The "covenant", is not technically a "legal contract". It's saying, follow the Way, and you will be blessed. I think as a metaphor however, it's badly used in how I hear it. It leave one viewing their relationship with the divine as a legal contract, rather than the Source of their being, the Wellspring of Life.
I think it comes down to one's sincerity with themselves, and one's intention towards goodness. If some dude is just wanting an upgrade, then he needs to do a little checking under the hood first. Greed and desire are not a spiritual path.Paragraph 1
"I want a new wife because the other woman is prettier." Do you think that qualifies? (Which is the point that I was making) But, to give you credit, it is harder on a grey issue of marriage of when it is right and when is it not right.
But on a more black and white issue... God wants people healed. Or, God wants to meet your needs. Or, God wants you to have peace of mind. Etc Etc Etc So, again, if you find a promise - you can be sure He hears you.
But what I was bringing up before was in response to you saying you find God's will in scripture. What if you're blinded by your own desires, and see what you want to see in it? What if what you see doesn't fit Reality? Have you really found God's will, or your own desires, disguised and justified as God's Will? I wonder how many truly do understand God's will by reading texts? I tend to think it's not found that way, by thought process.
When I have heard the term Grace used, it is often in the context of the law, that God's grace let Jesus pay the legal penalty for our transgressions, to that effect. That's still seeing things in a legal context.Paragraph 2
I agree, it is more relational and should not be legalistic because it is based on grace and not the law.
When I hear the word Grace, in reference to the Divine, I hear something like how Jesus said God sends the rains on the just and unjust. Rain of course, was considered a blessing ('Lord hear not the prayer of the traveler", goes the old Rabbinic prayer). Grace is there all the time without asking. It is simply a matter of receiving. Our relationship with the Divine Reality, is tactile. It surrounds us. "In him we live and move and have our being". It is energetic. It is absolute. And it is upon all that is.
There is not a legal wrapper around that. That's Grace. It IS. And it is Love to all.
I remember having these long debates with another member here some few years ago, how you should not trust the heart, and of course cited that passage which says the heart is deceitfully wicked and should not be trusted. The message was, not even if your conscious tells you something is not right, you should ignore that and go by what you read in scripture instead. Would you agree with her on that?4) Yes, a conscience can guide you. However, would you be able to say there also be people whose conscience have been seared and no long have good judgment?
The reason I focused on this is because you say you need to find God's will in scripture, as part of the process or procedure to obtain positive prayer results. How is that done, I ask? It's not from reading the words, as everything that we read is going to pass through the filters of our own minds on it's way towards understanding. We colorize what we hear. What is the checksum? What is the balance? How does one go from reading the words, to finding God in them? It cannot just be reason, is it? It cannot just be luck?
I like that saying.There is a saying "to the pure all things are pure".
Again, this is Grace, viewed in a legal container, not the Divine Light that shines upon all without favor, understanding of Grace. Grace, as a forgiveness for legal debt, is not Divine Grace, in the true sense of the word. It's badly used metaphor from scripture, updated into these terms in the 12th century AD by the Norman Anselm of Canterbury. The metaphor does not work very well applied to God, but it does to a Norman King.It was a legal payment for sins born out of love. The benefit is that there is forgiveness and relationship available.
I have a different view of what Christ's sacrifice was, and it is not to pay a blood debt to God. That's a very confusing image of the Divine.
No, you see. I don't see that. It's not legal. You don't forgive because you are supposed to. You forgive because you know what it is like to be forgiven yourself. If we fall back into our old patterns, then you can give yourself a reminder by remembering that. It's not because you are obligated legally to God to do this. You do this because of who you are. "Love is the fulfillment of the law". "Love works no ill". It's about being a transformed human being, not a Christian with a legal contract with God.A still small voice can still say to me "You know I said you are supposed to forgive because you are forgiven?" It is is relational but there is a legal aspect to it.
Me?Yes... you can be legalistic in your approach if you want.