This question hinges on the idea that having a "same-sex attraction" makes a person "gay", which premise I reject.
But that is the absolute literal definition of homosexuality. Just FYI the opposite is true of the definition of heterosexuality.
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One doesn't just turn gay or indeed straight because they've decided to stop being a virgin. One can stay absolutely chaste and still have a sexual orientation. Otherwise we'd have to label every single virgin in existence as asexual.
Sexual behavior =/= Sexual orientation. Anyone with a passing familiarity with basic biology will tell you that.
How do you even define homosexuality if you're not including attraction? The very thing that defines every single sexual orientation as we know it today. I'm just baffled.
That's like saying a man having the mere desire to have sex with a woman, even if it were against her will, makes him a rapist.
Makes him a potential rapist. If he desires to have sex and do so against her will, that is quite literally the definition of a rapist actually.
The hell are you trying to say, man?
A man who has always been sexually attracted to children, yet he never once acted on that attraction, is not a pedophile.
Yes, yes he is. Again that is the literal definition of a pedophile. WTF? A pedophile is still a pedophile even if he or she never acts on their desires. Otherwise what the hell would we even label them???
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Christ even the vernacular usage describes someone with
desires specifically, who may or may not engage in such behaviors. Vernacular usage.
Sexual paraphilias and sexual orientations are NOT defined by sexual behavior. No one in any modern scientific scenario would ever argue such a point. Otherwise we are
all asexual until we have sex. It doesn't actually work like that mate.
Like what messed up out of date dictionary are you even using?
If all people "were" or "became" everything that they "thought" or "desired", we would all be in prison.
Whoa, what kind of messed up things are you into? I mean I make no judgment, but damn dude, what fantasies are you having?
A person is not "gay" or a homosexual for being attracted to the same sex, but by acting on that attraction and engaging in homosexual behavior.
No they are not. As previously mentioned sexual behavior =/=sexual orientation. Many straight people have had gay encounters. Sometimes as mere experiments. Maybe they were even drunk. If they did not enjoy the experience, then I fail to see how it makes them gay. Bi curious maybe, but who the hell even defines their sexual orientation as specifically behavior? Sexual orientation manifests as early as prepuberty. I doubt all gay and straight people were having sex in primary/elementary school. Again maybe some as part of experimentation or even abuse (or mimicking abuse as a sort of coping mechanism.) Not really true of every gay straight or bi person though.
Did you seriously never in your life have a specific preference for males or females or both until you had sex?
Again no judgment, there exists the occasional person for who that is true. But that's not really a common phenomenon among gay or straight or bi individuals.
Just FYI.
A person is not "gay" or a homosexual for being attracted to the same sex, but by acting on that attraction and engaging in homosexual behavior.
A person is gay regardless of the sex or lack thereof they are having. Same is true of heterosexual people. I am not my behavior, that's just insulting (I'm straight in case you were wondering.) If I never had sex until the day I died, I would still be heterosexual.
When did the pedophile decide he/she was a pedophile? Or those who practice necrophilia and bestiality?
I dunno. Ask them.
Are these behaviors something they cannot control? They were forever destined to rape children, corpses and animals?
You can't control desires (well, maybe if you were the next Buddha or something) but we can control behaviors sure.
Which is why we don't define sexual orientations or even sexual paraphilias by behavior specifically. Such a thing is overtly simplistic and inaccurate to reality. Also we couldn't accurately define homosexuality, bisexuality or even heterosexuality if we did that.
I may not be able to control when I become aroused or to whom I am attracted, but I decide to have sex with no one except my wife.
Good for you.
So do you let others have theirs in peace, or are you not one for the golden rule?
Or, on the other hand, did they harbor and nourish unclean thoughts which led to unclean behavior?
Again, I dunno, why don't you ask them?
The Lord condemns any sexual activity outside the confines of marriage, which He describes as only between a man and woman who are legally and lawfully wedded.
Okay? So?
A man and a woman who are not married to one another having consensual sex is just as sinful as two members of the same sex having consensual sex.
Both are forbidden.
If both are forbidden and as bad as each other, why is it I constantly see protests against gay people but not unmarried couples?