I try to avoid it for recons, as I know they find it disrespectful, but not all self-described heathens are recon. Personally, I don't grok the gripe with "neo."
I might join the group. I tend to not get a long with pagans though.
I am dual trad. My beliefs are based on the anglo-saxon culture and from the viking age mythology but I also honor my ancestors of Rome. I belong to the GFS, the Troth and Nova Roma. I am the head of the new england chapter of Nova Roma. I attend blots, fainings, and moots. I have an harrow and a lararium which are altars for honoring the gods and ancestors of my heritage.