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You often hear of Hindus converting to Sikhism, particularly when a Hindu girl marries a Sikh boy or the first born son is a Sikh, but do you get the opposite occuring?
I don't know any straight-up converts, but I do know the Hindu-Sikh boundary is a bit of a fantasy. I know plenty of Sikhs who go to mandirs, and plenty of Hindus who go to gurdwaras. The boundary is so non-existent in actuality that most people who are in that fuzzy in between area actually don't even notice that some people might find it odd.
Sikhs are not supposed to go to Hindu Mandir, Rehat Maryada states that Sikhs should not pray to idols. I've never heard of Sikhs going to Mandir but I've heard of Hindus going to Gurudwara because Sikhs welcome all faiths
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No i have not heard of any Sikhs Converting to Hinduism, but that does not mean that it does not happen somewhere or has happened in some time. As Hinduism has no official "Conversion", method nor does it require much religious practices that are consistent within Hinduism for all Hindus (similar to Sikh tradition of wearing the knife, turban, beard, the 5 K's i think ect), if a Sikh decides to becomes Hindu, it would be practically un-noticeable.
I view Sikhism as more a exclusive Dharmah Tradition, because it claims to have the complete truth in the Guru Granth Sahib, and having only one God (Onkara) is a alternative to the Abrahamic religions and therefore a Hindu who seeks monotheism, or is uncomfortable with the "Many Gods", idea may feel more comfortable converting to Sikhism, which is a better choice then the Abrahamic religions. Sikhi has the Gurus, meditation and the Kirtans which are vary familiar to Hindus
I wounder if a Sikh girl marries a Hindu Boy, will they convert? are they allowed to convert from Sikhi to Hinduism? are they even allowed to Marry out of Sikhi?
Why would Sikhi be a better choice than Abrahamic religion?
What about Arya Samaj as they're monotheistic and have no deities.
In the UK there have been incidents where police have been called as Sikhs have been locking the Gurdwara and protesting; refusing to allow Hindus and Sikhs to marry in front of Sri Guru Granth Sahib
What is the need? Sikhi is as good as Hinduism. We too rever the Sikh gurus. Personally, I take Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji Sahib as the Punjabi expositor of Upanishads. For me, the differences do not matter.You often hear of Hindus converting to Sikhism, particularly when a Hindu girl marries a Sikh boy or the first born son is a Sikh, but do you get the opposite occurring?
Part of the issue some Sikhs have with a marriage conducted according to Sikh rites (called Anand Karaj) is that the rite itself talks more about a person's growing relationship and one-ness with God, than it does about a couple getting married. It is sort of implied that the hymns sung during the Anand Karaj are as much about the couple uniting and becoming one soul as it is about people uniting with God. So, some Sikhs feel that it's inappropriate (nonsensical, really) for a non-Sikh (doesn't matter if they're Hindu or not) to participate in this particular ritual.
You'll find most Sikhs will tolerate a Sikh/non-Sikh marriage if it's performed any other way than via Anand Karaj. However, the Sikh Rehat Maryada (Sikh Code of Conduct) does say that the daughter of a Sikh must marry a Sikh. I don't think this is strictly observed outside of Punjab.
Funny side story: I was invited to an Anand Karaj once where the bride was a Sikh and the groom an Italian. Obviously no-one thought to tell the Italian family what to expect during the rite, because a lot of them wore short skirts which made it awkward for sitting on the floor!
I found it quite surprising to hear a few people say that no Sikh would convert to Hinduism. I was born Sikh and I converted to Hinduism. I agree with what Kirran said though, the boundary between Sikhism and Hinduism is too fuzzy, such that I would go as far as saying I didn't really leave Sikhism to join a completely different religion, rather I branched out of Sikhism into the wider religion of Hinduism that I see it as a part of. To me Sikhism was too limiting because of its overly theistic interpretation and the scriptures were not very philosophically satisfying, in the same way the Upanishads, Bhagvad Gita etc stir the intellect to think philosophically. In contrast, the Guru Granth Sahib is more like a book of hymns and prayers to God and is more faith-based. To illustrate with an example:
Bhagvad Gita:
1. Aruna says: If it be thought by Thee that knowledge is superior to action, O Krishna, why then, O Kesava, dost Thou ask me to engage in this terrible action?
2. With these apparently perplexing words Thou confusest, as it were, my understanding; therefore, tell me that one way for certain by which I may attain bliss
3.The Blessed Lord said: . In this world there is a twofold path, as I said before, O sinless one,—the path of knowledge of the Sankhyas and the path of action of the Yogis!
4. Not by the non-performance of actions does man reach actionlessness, nor by mere renunciation does he attain to perfection.
5. Verily none can ever remain for even a moment without performing action; for, everyone is made to act helplessly indeed by the qualities born of Nature.
6. He who, restraining the organs of action, sits thinking of the sense-objects in mind, he, of deluded understanding, is called a hypocrite.
7. But whosoever, controlling the senses by the mind, O Arjuna, engages himself in Karma Yoga with the organs of action, without attachment, he excels!
8. Do thou perform thy bounden duty, for action is superior to inaction and even the maintenance of the body would not be possible for thee by inaction.
9. The world is bound by actions other than those performed for the sake of sacrifice; do thou, therefore, O son of Kunti, perform action for that sake (for sacrifice) alone, free from attachment!
Guru Granth sahib:
Renounce all your cleverness and remember the Supreme, Formless Lord God. Without the One True Name, everything appears as dust. || 1 || Know that God is always with you. By Guru’s Grace, one understands, and is imbued with the Love of the One Lord. || 1 || Pause || Seek the Shelter of the One All-powerful Lord; there is no other place of rest. The vast and terrifying world-ocean is crossed over, singing continually the Glorious Praises of the Lord. || 2 || Birth and death are overcome, and one does not have to suffer in the City of Death. He alone obtains the treasure of the Naam, the Name of the Lord, unto whom God shows His Mercy. || 3 || The One Lord is my Anchor and Support; the One Lord alone is the power of my mind. O Nanak, joining the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy, meditate on Him; without the Lord, there is no other at all.
This gives a snap shot of the difference in approach and style of both scriptures. No matter which part of the Guru Granth Sahib you read, it is all like the above, after a while it sounds very repetitive. It is almost like if you read just a few pages, you have read it all. On the other hand, the Bhagvad Gita presents a philosophical dialogue between Arjuna and Krishna and Arjuna asks him question and after question, even to the point of challenging what Krishna is saying, and Krishna has to answer by justifying with reason. This makes it far more interesting and satisfying scripture to read and every chapter offers something new. There is even a question where Arjuna asks Krishna to explain what matter is, what spirit is and what is their distinction. It is thus a highly sophisticated scripture, a delight for a philosopher and intellectual.
The other reason I turned to Hinduism was Hinduism was far more diverse than Sikhism. It had like literally tens of thousands of scriptures to read, -- ranging from massive epics(Mahabharata, Ramayana) to treatises on logic and epistemology, natural philosophy, linguistics, ethics, psychology, drama and aesthetics, medicine, statecraft and economics. In addition to 6+ entire systems of philosophy with volumes of literature covering every argument in philosophy you can think of. I have been reading them for decades and I have only managed to read dozens. It keeps me busy, it is always interesting and always rewarding.
It is also a far more beautiful religion. Sikh art is very limited and there are lot of restrictions on how you depict the gurus in images, and it is forbidden for an actor to play a guru. There was recently a huge uproar over the movie "Nanak Shah Fakir" where the director tried to show the life of guru Nanak, and went to great lengths to not offend Sikhs by never showing the face of the guru, but the central Sikh authority(Akal takt) which is almost like a Muslim fatwa council, had the movie pulled and you cannot find it anywhere now. Wherever it was showing Sikh fundamentalists even tried to disrupt the screening. I The Sikh art in temples is also very depressing, they are usually images of the gurus being tortured by Muslim and offer gruesome images(in some sense you could say it is similar to Jesus torture on the crucifix) The same is true for architecture, the Gudwaras all look virtually the same
Hindu art is beautiful because it is so diverse and there are no restrictions on depicting Hindu gods, it is all subject to the artists interpretation, and some artists represent them very erotically, even as far back as classical India you find highly erotic representations of Hindu gods and even explicit sexual scenes in temple murals. The temples all look different too, though there is a basic temple design following traditional rules of temple design, there is a lot of creative and artistic freedom. There are no prohibitions like actors cannot play the role of Gods, in fact in classical Indian drama most of the plays are about Hindu gods played by people. You even find Hindu gods in comic books, which would be "haraam" in Sikhism.
I have freedom in Hinduism to question God, and that is a total no no in Sikhism. I once tried to ask some questions to my local Sikh priest, and he replied back like an Islamic Mullah, in a very dogmatic manner, in a sort of it is my way or the highway. In contrast, when I asked a Hindu guru questions, he responded back with reasonable arguments and I asked very tough questions. In Hinduism I have a choice for everything, can literally choose what scriptures I want to read(if any) whether I want to go temple or not, whether I want to worship idols or not. I can even pick which God I want to worship or even reject God. There is no central authority to force me to do anything. This makes it a highly democratic religion.
In many ways you can say Sikhism in the manner it is organised today bears very strong resemblance with Islam. Its beliefs and practices are decidedly Hindu though, in fact Sikh theology is almost identical to Shankaras Advaita Vedanta philosophy
I just want to clarify my aim was not to criticise Sikhism or start a Sikhism vs Hinduism debate, but merely to answer why I as a born Sikh converted to Hinduism, though I use the word "converted" in a loose sense, because as already stated, the boundaries between them are fuzzy.
This is one thing that frustrates me about Sikhi; they state all humans are equal and all paths lead to God yet you say Rehat Maryada forbids the marriage of Sikh girls and non Sikh men (hence why I asked if the girls became Hindu). If I remember correctly it also states that only Amritdhari Sikhs may recite Sri Guru Granth Sahib in Gurdwara and only Amritdhari Sikhs can be Panj Pyare during Vaisakhi. I don't understand why Sikhs state equality yet there's exclusivity in rituals- if all paths lead to God why be a Sikh? Unless they mean karma is rewarded regardless of religion?
I don't understand much of the terminology that you use, so please forgive me if I am jumping to clearly mistaken conclusions.This is one thing that frustrates me about Sikhi; they state all humans are equal and all paths lead to God yet you say Rehat Maryada forbids the marriage of Sikh girls and non Sikh men (hence why I asked if the girls became Hindu). If I remember correctly it also states that only Amritdhari Sikhs may recite Sri Guru Granth Sahib in Gurdwara and only Amritdhari Sikhs can be Panj Pyare during Vaisakhi. I don't understand why Sikhs state equality yet there's exclusivity in rituals- if all paths lead to God why be a Sikh? Unless they mean karma is rewarded regardless of religion?
A quick search suggests that "jaap" is a Sikh concept, not too distant from what a Hindu would call "Bhakti" or, in a more general sense, devotional prayer or recitation.I think the idea that Sikhs think all paths lead to God is a bit of a misnomer. I think it's more like 'all paths lead to God as long as one japs Naam'.
Sure, karma (and its 'phala') is regardless of religion. What is wrong if they ask Sikhs who have vowed to follow the precepts to lead the congregation rather than the middlers?Unless they mean karma is rewarded regardless of religion?
Hi, Treks. It is always nice to meet you.
May I ask for some clarification that may hopefully be of some use to others and will certainly be of use to me?
A quick search suggests that "jaap" is a Sikh concept, not too distant from what a Hindu would call "Bhakti" or, in a more general sense, devotional prayer or recitation.
While "Naam" seems to be an almost Islamic understanding of deity, or perhaps an Advaitan one. I am just not sure, and that may well be the point.
May you please direct me towards a better understanding of the expression? Thanks!