Maybe you shouldn't have bought it. Maybe you should be renting. Or moving elsewhere. I don't know.
Why would I do any of those things? I think you're missing the point. The point is housing prices here are not cheap. We luckily can afford it, but it's not like we had the option to get a small starter home for cheap, unless we moved into a really crappy neighborhood or an extra 30-40 miles away from where we are.
I wouldn't spend $200,000 on a 1400 square foot house, that's for sure. But hey, that's just me.
Well, good for you. It seems you don't understand the concept of different areas having different costs. I would think that would have been something you learned while working in real estate. But you also seem to be missing the idea that that is just the market around here, so if you wanted to buy anywhere in a 60 mile radius, that's about what you'd pay, so it's not a bad deal relative to the market. It's not like we paid $200,000 for it at the height of the bubble and now it's worth $100,000.
Everyone's experience is biased - including yours.
The difference is I can look at my experience as simply my experience. I don't pretend that my experience is universal or representative of the whole group of people. I know that there are people who live beyond their means. I just don't think it's as widespread as you think it is.
However, I would say that my ownership of a real estate company with a staff of twenty (oh, and did I mention that I also managed a real estate company with 100 realtors on staff?) gjves me a bigger view than most people.
Yup, but even that, viewed through biased lenses, can mean little.
Actually, I have checked out Maryland. In fact, I've lived there twice in my adult life. Didn't buy a house there, though - too expensive. I chose to rent instead. I also didn't choose to settle there permanently, in spite of the many things I like about the area. What I specifically DON'T like, and therefore voluntarily choose to avoid like the plague, is the ridiculously high cost of living.
You must have been in a different area then. The cost of living here isn't that bad. It's higher than many places, I'm sure, but it's nowhere close to a Manhattan or L.A.
But my point was that different areas have different markets. A starter home in your area may be very cheap, but in many other areas, it's not.
Well, I don't know where you live in Maryland, but I can tell you one thing - I lived there twenty years ago and I couldn't have bought a 1400 square foot house THEN for $150,000 in the 'burbs.
Then you must have been in Montgomery County or something. 20 years ago, my house would have been worth something like $100,000. In most of Maryland 20 years ago, you could have bought a home like mine for under $150,000.
But hey, I can STILL buy one like you're describing for that price in East Texas!
Yeah, but the problem is then you have to live in Texas.