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High stakes as Supreme Court considers same-sex marriage case

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Regarding your statement that homosexuality leads to disease, the downfall of of the family, prove it. And please, spare me the Christian apologists that state that gays were the cause of aids, and so on. I simply can't believe the things you state are still being believed. It boggles the mind.
It truly does boggle the mind. You accuse me incorrectly of being closed minded in another thread and here you deny an entire category including hundreds of millions of intelligent people and tens of thousand of sciences greatest minds because they have faith, and give no reason what so ever. It is truly mind boggling. However this point is so widely granted I will meet your bias conditions.

Assuming you have not rejected the CDC out of hand lets see what the greatest data base of disease has to say about homosexuality and aids.

Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)a represent approximately 2% of the United States population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV. In 2010, young gay and bisexual men (aged 13-24 years) accounted for 72% of new HIV infections among all persons aged 13 to 24, and 30% of new infections among all gay and bisexual men. In 2010, gay and bisexual men accounted for 63% of estimated new HIV infections in the United States and 78% of infections among all newly infected men. From 2008 to 2010, new HIV infections increased 22% among young (aged 13-24) gay and bisexual men and 12% among gay and bisexual men overall.
CDC – Fact Sheet - Gay and Bisexual Men – Gender – Risk – HIV/AIDS

When a behavior practiced by a mere 4% of the population produces 60% of new aids cases you had better show me some great reasons to justify it being protected by law, and the medical expenses paid for by the 96% of the population not engaging in the behavior.

So much for your aids dismissal.

As to the family. This is a matter of fact and of common sense. First homosexuals cannot produce children naturally. This inherently weakens the general family units of any population even if some of those gays adopt. If we all practiced homosexuality exclusively (which no other species on earth does) the entire human race would cease to exist within a generation or two. Add to this the fact that the homosexual population has a much higher rate of sexual violence, a higher rate of infidelity, promiscuity, a lower average life span, etc..... and you a have a recipe for disaster.

Included in this particular syndemic, according to the Linacre paper, are issues related to mental health, including higher risks of “suicidal ideation, substance misuse, and deliberate self harm than heterosexual people.” According to the paper, even the Southern Poverty Law Center, an advocacy group for MSM, admits “that LGBT people suffer higher rates of anxiety, depression and depression-related illnesses and behaviors like alcohol and drug abuse than the general population,”
CDC: Syphilis Resurgence Among Gay Men 'Major Public Health Concern' - Breitbart

Yeah this is a great idea, lets have more of this, protect it by law, and declare that anyone who does not rationalize a behavior this destructive is intolerant or behind the times. The destructive consequences are not only still believed today they are becoming more obvious and incontrovertible as more data is available.

I have never said, and I have never heard anyone suggest gays are the cause of aids. I do not think anyone knows the exact cause of aids (last I heard it came from using monkey plasma in polio shots). What Christians and anyone that can read statistics claim is that homosexuality massively increases the spread of aids and many other STDs, social ills, and increased health care costs and it lacks any justification that balances out the enormous cost.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
So how do you "demonstrate" that it is true that women deserve the vote as well as men? Or that black people deserve education in the same schools as white people?
It is peculiar to homosexual defenses that they do are almost never justifications of the actual behavior they are far more often a condemnation or point about problems with something else. Homosexuality having no actually defense instead tries to cling to other behaviors, laws, and actions and demand they all sink or swim together. How is problems defining who should vote a defense of homosexuality? How is linking it to racism relevant? However I am bored and so I will answer you.

If you actually based legality and morality on social Darwinism or nature then I have no idea how you would justify any equality between people. Evolution never made any two things actually equal. However you asked me how I would do so, so I will tell how I would resolve these issues and how many of our great founders did so. I would do so using biblical principles and reason. From my faith: As Jefferson and Lincoln both claimed men (meaning humanity) find their equality under God. From reason if men actually do have equality it must come from a transcendent standard because in no natural way are al men equal. This a foundation which satisfies both my faith and my reason. Now that I have a foundation for equality I now have to establish how this equality applies. This equality is not absolute (not equal in all things). Rights are not carte blanch permissions to do anything you want no matter the cost. IOW these rights had to applied to respected where accepting those rights were morally and socially justifiable. Regardless of what foundation any society has used there has always been a difference between justifiable behavior and unjustifiable behavior. So rights are recognized where they are socially and morally acceptable. Granting women the right to vote is morally justifiable. I cannot think of any argument that would serve to deny justification for that right. It is a theological principle that we are governed by consent, so granting that consent in this case both appeals to my faith and my reason. Now slavery is a little more complicated. In fact thinking about it I am sorry I agreed to explain this because it is so complex. Lincoln (and most of our founders) believed tat slavery was wrong in its "chattel" form as it existed then. However this was more complex than this. You have to weigh the impact of freeing millions of men who do not have the education to make informed choices, have no homes to go to, have to means to provide for themselves, are not qualified to fully participate in a responsible way. Slaves then were usually completely primitive, ignorant, an unskilled members of African tribes who were enslaved by other tribes and then bought by a very small minority of agricultural masters over seas. Instantly turning out millions of these people to fend for themselves simply was not a rational option at the time. Make no mistake, slavery was wrong as it existed in America at the time, however it was a simple fact that our founders and statesmen for preexisting and had to manage the best they could. This is why the constitution and declaration were considered promissory notes guarantying equality when equality was responsible. Equal under God but not equal in all ways. When MLK demanded equality for blacks he did not do so by referencing secular humanism, social Darwinism, or even human reasoning. He said his God given right to equality was promised in the founding documents of the nation and were to be recognized in the fullness of time which he said was far past. So gradually as it was practical and morally responsible their God founded right to equality was granted. It may have been late, but it would have been morally irresponsible, and downright cruel to have turned out millions of ignorant people incapable of providing for themselves and responsibly exercising full rights in society at that time.

However what you asked about was not an equality with homosexuality. Being a women or being black is not a behavior which we can be condemned for or judged by. Homosexuality is a behavior. Even if you assume it is an orientation, acting on that preference is still a choice. The same as a psychopath may be born that way but when he acts on others in psychopathic ways we do not protect his behavior by law. No society has ever granted that all behavior is acceptable if any are. No one has ever said since one behavior is allowed by law then any behavior should be. And no society that people in general consider just have ever granted that behavior and identity are equally treated by law.

Anyway your arguments fail on several grounds.

1. You cannot justify one behavior by condemning or approving of another behavior. All behavior is not equal and should never be considered as such.
2. Throwing all behavior in one basket and demanding we take them all or none is not rational.
3. Equating what is true of identity is equally true of behavior or choice is a false dichotomy.
4. Pointing out the imperfections in one line of reasoning is of no help or hindrance to another line of moral reasoning.


Marriage is a right, protected and enforced by law. Can you give one good reason as to why a man and a man shouldn't be allowed to marry?

1. Marriage is either a right granting by a transcendent source and a Holy institution that has a specific purpose intended by God, or it is merely a tradition commonly accepted, recognized, and protected by law because of social Darwinian byproducts which ensure offspring and their protection. Neither scenario justifies homosexual marriage.
2. I do not care if everyone on earth or in history believed that rights can be granted by edict, they would all be wrong. It is not merely that rights are not granted by fiat, it is that they can't possibly be granted by any natural institution.
3. Rights are considered inherent to us. No one has any rights to grant to anyone else. Nature tells us what is not what we should do. I do not have your rights, you cannot grant me any rights, and no government has any rights to dispense to anyone.
4. Governments do not grant rights, they are charged with not infringing upon them. Laws protect rights that exist inherently they are powerless to grant them.
5. Do you deny that Jews had rights to happiness and life because Hitler made it legal to kill them on an industrial scale? Do you deny that the Ukrainians had the right to eat the food they produced when Stalin legally took their food in order to starve millions of them? Do you deny slaves actually had any right to freedom because some rich aristocrats made it legal to enslave them? Do you actually believe other humans as flawed and impotent as you or I are actually in possession of each others rights? If you think legality in anyway determines morality that is truly depressing.


How does that work by the same logic? We're suggesting consenting adults be allowed to marry consenting adults. That's like saying if we want to make it standard medical practice to allow male doctors to be able to operate on female patients, by the same logic we should make it standard practice for male doctors to be able to operate on plant pots. How is that even remotely the same logic??
If consent is the justification for what ever behavior is consented to then why is insider trading illegal, sex between adults and even consenting minors illegal, that drug selling and using is outlawed even among consenting adults, etc.....? That is how your logic breaks down. I made no claims to knowledge, and so had n burden. It is you who are demanding recognition of a behavior and legal protection for a behavior well established to be exceeding destructive and so it you who have the logical burden. Consent is a logical dead end as a foundation for law. What else you got? I could not understand your (as usual) confusing metaphoric example with the male plant doctors.

Just like when we extended the right to vote to women, it meant that we suddenly had to extend the right to vote to walls, hamsters and clouds, which lead to a massive breakdown in society, right?
The defects in your reasoning are consistent. There is no danger of walls or Hamsters voting because walls have no wills, and hamsters have no interest in voting. However people have demanded the right to marry dolls, dead people, children, towers, dogs, etc... and all the legal and ethical entanglements that come with it. I advise you to defend homosexuality specifically instead of trying to glue it to other issues and demand they all must sink or swim together.

I have to ask again: are you serious? Do you honestly not see the difference between the right for a consenting adult to marry a consenting adult of the same gender and the right of a consenting adult to marry a dog? Do you HONESTLY believe that extending the right to marry to include same-sex couples MUST lead to some anarchic world where anybody is allowed to marry anything?? If so, then we might as well conclude this discussion here, because you're not worth debating with.
Now it is apparent what your reasoning is. You wish to draw the moral line at whatever that pleases you, give no actually reasons or rational moral arguments for the line being there, and then demand I adopt your arbitrary moral standard. Again, it is you who are claiming a right, you who want recognition, you who are insisting that a behavior that no other species known in the universe exclusively engages in, and you who are demanding legal protection. In many cases I would not care but in this case your demanding all this of a behavior which produces enormously far more harm than any good you can muster to balance it out with. It is 100% percent your burden. I must merely point out you have not yet provided given anything that actually begins to meet that burden.

You basically are inventing a moral line based on merely preference and devoid of any rationality which even if actually true it would be impossible for you to have any actual knowledge of it. In essence you have made yourself your own moral standard and demand we all adopt your standard. When you reject God you must become your own God (of sorts).

The argument is really very simple: Gay couples should be allowed to marry because their relationships are every bit as meaningful and worth recognizing as heterosexual relationships. It really is that simple. This argument you have is utterly nonsensical. You are literally just saying "why should we?", and believing that's an adequate response to treating people unequally. Your logic can be applied just as easily, and with just as much justification, to the emancipation of slaves, the right for women to vote, or interracial marriage. It's short sighted, ignorant, and profoundly self-serving. You have no actual argument.
How on earth (even if true) could you possibly know what you underlined was true? You may have a right to your opinion but do you have a right to invent your own reality as well. I and you have no idea how meaningful the average homosexual marriage would be. I however have some evidence to suggest they are not. Homosexual sexual assault rates are higher than straight couples, infidelity rates are higher, life spans are lower, promiscuity rates are much higher, drug use is more rampant, depression is far more common, and where it is legal there has been little demand for marriage (percentage wise) among homosexuals. They seem to be far more interested in having the right than actually initializing it. There are whole lists of evidence to believe that homosexual relationships are less meaningful than straight relationships but lets pretend they are just as meaningful. I did not make any objections that relied on how meaningful the behavior is. I said the behavior comes at such a drastic cost to society that you must have very strong reasons to justify it. Claiming that you know what you can't possibly know and is not a sufficient justification anyway is not going to do it. Many killers and psychopaths find great meaning in their behavior we do not according protect their behavior by law. No law I have ever even heard has meaningfulness as it's foundation.

Sorry for the length. I got going and was too lazy to stop.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
It truly does boggle the mind. You accuse me incorrectly of being closed minded in another thread and here you deny an entire category including hundreds of millions of intelligent people and tens of thousand of sciences greatest minds because they have faith, and give no reason what so ever. It is truly mind boggling. However this point is so widely granted I will meet your bias conditions.

Assuming you have not rejected the CDC out of hand lets see what the greatest data base of disease has to say about homosexuality and aids.


Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)a represent approximately 2% of the United States population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV. In 2010, young gay and bisexual men (aged 13-24 years) accounted for 72% of new HIV infections among all persons aged 13 to 24, and 30% of new infections among all gay and bisexual men. In 2010, gay and bisexual men accounted for 63% of estimated new HIV infections in the United States and 78% of infections among all newly infected men. From 2008 to 2010, new HIV infections increased 22% among young (aged 13-24) gay and bisexual men and 12% among gay and bisexual men overall.
CDC – Fact Sheet - Gay and Bisexual Men – Gender – Risk – HIV/AIDS

When a behavior practiced by a mere 4% of the population produces 60% of new aids cases you had better show me some great reasons to justify it being protected by law, and the medical expenses paid for by the 96% of the population not engaging in the behavior.

So much for your aids dismissal.

As to the family. This is a matter of fact and of common sense. First homosexuals cannot produce children naturally. This inherently weakens the general family units of any population even if some of those gays adopt. If we all practiced homosexuality exclusively (which no other species on earth does) the entire human race would cease to exist within a generation or two. Add to this the fact that the homosexual population has a much higher rate of sexual violence, a higher rate of infidelity, promiscuity, a lower average life span, etc..... and you a have a recipe for disaster.

Included in this particular syndemic, according to the Linacre paper, are issues related to mental health, including higher risks of “suicidal ideation, substance misuse, and deliberate self harm than heterosexual people.” According to the paper, even the Southern Poverty Law Center, an advocacy group for MSM, admits “that LGBT people suffer higher rates of anxiety, depression and depression-related illnesses and behaviors like alcohol and drug abuse than the general population,”
CDC: Syphilis Resurgence Among Gay Men 'Major Public Health Concern' - Breitbart

Yeah this is a great idea, lets have more of this, protect it by law, and declare that anyone who does not rationalize a behavior this destructive is intolerant or behind the times. The destructive consequences are not only still believed today they are becoming more obvious and incontrovertible as more data is available.

I have never said, and I have never heard anyone suggest gays are the cause of aids. I do not think anyone knows the exact cause of aids (last I heard it came from using monkey plasma in polio shots). What Christians and anyone that can read statistics claim is that homosexuality massively increases the spread of aids and many other STDs, social ills, and increased health care costs and it lacks any justification that balances out the enormous cost.
1. Where did I dismiss aids and Gay men? I never said it was not a problem that continues to plague the gay male community. Did you, however, note the ages of those who are getting the virus? 13 to 24. An age that is either grossly misinformed or too young to understand the risks, or misplaced youths working the streets as male prostitutes.

2. Gay women can and do have children. They either have themselves via IV or they use surrogates, just as male gays do. Furthermore, gays can adopt or foster children. And according to Benjamin Siegel of the American academy of pediatrics, after 3 decades of dedicated research noted absolutely no difference in parental style, detrimental effects, familial cohesiveness and the length of time the couples remain couples. (Siegel, B. 2013).

3. The majority of people up to now that have spread std's are straight men who either have affairs, are themselves promiscuous or are too young to know better. Of course, gay men do get HIV and Aids, however, if you noted in the cdc research, as education continues and kids are able to get free condoms those numbers will decrease. Are you aware of the sheer number of men who spread syphillus at about the turn of the 20th century?

4. You're welcome to your opinion and if your state votes the issue of SSM, you're free to vote against it. Of course my vote will negate yours. But you're still welcome to try. What you can't do is change the fact that gay people are no different than you. We love, we have families, we have children. And most of us don't give a rats arse that your book of fiction tells us we are wrong. God made me and I'm pretty sure God doesn't get things wrong.
 
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1robin

Christian/Baptist
I am not trying to destroy homosexual sex.
Come on Voile, your too smart for me to believe that. I was saying that homosexual sex comes with some much additional rates of destruction compared with monogamous hetero sex that it requires a very heavy weight argument to justify it.

History has been dominated by an almost universal non-acceptance of women rights. You might be surprised to notice how recently women were allowed to vote in the civilized world.
History is full of sin, mistakes, and every form of moral insanity imaginable. What we have to do is carefully weed through our moral principles and slowly weed out actual injustices. That is very easy to do with Women's rights. It is so far proving impossible to do with homosexual behavior.

Well, it is not an extreme minority here. The vast majority of Swedes belong to this church, by default. The only ones who agree with you are the Muslims.
That most certainly is not the only ones who agree with me. By far the majority of Christina denominations do not perform homosexual marriages. In addition to that many of the popular votes given by state deny homosexual marriage but in many cases one liberal judge defies the will of the people and does what ever he wants anyway.

BTW is there only one denomination in Sweden?
How is the majority of a country which in your own words is secular (or the small amount of Christians) in that nation relevant to anything?
Does this denomination practice this universally?
How long have they done so?



Let's say that if I have the right to marry a man, I equally have the right to marry a woman. Plug in here your evidence that we have rights to marry, in general, and that homosexuals do not have it.
Marriage has two traditional justifications.

1. That it is the intention of various God's. In the most prolific example. The union between a man and a women was represent the union between Christ and the church. The bible constantly refers to the church as bride and Christ as the groom.
2. Now if that justification is out you only have only a social Darwinian justification for marriage. In that in the general permanent pair bond between a man and a women was optimal for human flourishing.

The justification that whatever is true between a man and a women is justified between members of the same sex contradicts both. Your getting the burden mixed up here. Your going against historical tradition, all manner of theological faiths, making claims to rights, demanding legal recognition of a practice that comes with a massive increase in human suffering in countless categories. It is not my burden to justify preventing it, it is your burden to justify it. You want to rectify history I am fine with that but you better have a very good argument in this case.



Irrelevant. Do you have evidence that allowing gays to marry increases the risks of these evils, if any? Maybe I am too romantic, but I like to think that the marriage of two homo sapiens reduces promisquity. Especially when you have to pay the hell out in lawyers and divorces.
Yes I have evidence. I am so sick of posting it I encourage you to search my recent posts.

[/quote]They have a lot of credibily here. I think this is one of the reasons church attendance increased in Sweden by 50%. From 2% to 3% lol.[/quote] They might appeal to a wider and more rebellious section of the population by they erode their credibility as representatives of a moral system which they so flagrantly contradict. popularity is not equal with credibility.


Well, I would like to hear the evidence that they are obeying the wrong God. They just focus more on love between two people instead of what they do in bed. I mean, do you really think that the creator of the Universe and all cares what you do in bed and with whom? You would forbid heteresexual marriage too, if you knew what some North Europeans do in bed, I suspect, lol.
They profess to follow and represent the biblical god yet they completely contradict his commands. I can't make it any simpler than that.

With theology you can prove anything and its opposite.
Again let me state I was not making a theological argument here. I have done so elsewhere.

True, fact is they say you are contradicting the true teaching of God. So, what should I believe?
Ultimately you have make up your own mind because you will have to answer to a God who knows the fact of the matter if he exist. However let me give a few scriptures.

Leviticus 18:22 ESV / 1,855 helpful votes

You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV / 1,184 helpful votes
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Romans 1:26-28 ESV / 890 helpful votes
For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.

Leviticus 20:13 ESV / 827 helpful votes
If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.

I am not going to get into the applications between covenants here but you cannot simultaneous claim that what God has pronounced a death sentence in the past for he now sanctifies as Holy.

It will not be controversial anymore reltively soon.
The only thing we learn from history is that we do not learn from history. History demonstrates that opinions are like pendulums that swing too far one way then to far the other way.

For instance?
Ok,
Let's say that if I have the right to marry a man, I equally have the right to marry a woman
You did not defend homosexuality you instead glued into onto heterosexuality and demanded that both sink or swim together without any justification.

Two people loving each other should have the right to marry. Period. All the rest is obvious discrimination against people who had no choice in being attracted by members of the same sex.
So your twelve year old who has a crush a crush on her 40 year old scum bag gym teacher should be allowed to marry him? We all discriminate, we are only debating where the line should be. Anyone who actually makes laws that make use of these imaginary blanket moral ambiguities would the maximum immorality possible.


i am not a moral realist, so it depends on what we mean with wrong. I identify wrongness with neural reponses, like pain. But the rest of the Universe does not care if I shoot a baby or have a headache, obviously.
Of course your not a moral realist, you have no source for actual moral facts, duties, or laws. That is a poor defense of anything except anarchy or nihilism.

Cool, so I should not care of the historical record of opposition to gays. For, if a general shared belief does not tell me whether it is right or wrong, why do you mention it?
No one should reject anything for the sole reason of it being historically prohibited. However if we are overturning 5000 years of moral conclusions we need much better reasons than we have been given here.


You ought to allow gays to marry. Prove me objectively wrong.
How do I demonstrate any moral fact to one who denies they exist. There is no common ground. However I can get close. Homosexual behavior increases human suffering at far higher rates than heterosexuality, yet it completely lacks the justification or necessity heterosexuality does. That is as close as I can get to proof who denies moral truth actually exists.



Well, he also likes to speak of objective morality that is grounded of God, ergo about the objectification of something that appears to be a mass delusion with different flavors and no evidence whatsoever to exists. Basing morality on God has the same epistemological value as basing it on the tooth fairy or Bigfoot. So yes, I feel perfectly entitled to dismiss him, sorry.
A Chesterton used to divided purposes cannot stand. It is I hope, far beneath you to compare the evidence and argumentation for God with that for bigfoot and the tooth fairy. And I do not have to a dozen posts to even highlight how many that is absurd and intellectual disingenuous. You want to defend homosexuality by picking on Chesterton or comparing biblical faith to absurdities just demonstrates exactly what I have claimed about homosexual argumentation. You want to back up and take another run at it?
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
It is peculiar to homosexual defenses that they do are almost never justifications of the actual behavior they are far more often a condemnation or point about problems with something else. Homosexuality having no actually defense instead tries to cling to other behaviors, laws, and actions and demand they all sink or swim together. How is problems defining who should vote a defense of homosexuality? How is linking it to racism relevant? However I am bored and so I will answer you.

If you actually based legality and morality on social Darwinism or nature then I have no idea how you would justify any equality between people. Evolution never made any two things actually equal. However you asked me how I would do so, so I will tell how I would resolve these issues and how many of our great founders did so. I would do so using biblical principles and reason. From my faith: As Jefferson and Lincoln both claimed men (meaning humanity) find their equality under God. From reason if men actually do have equality it must come from a transcendent standard because in no natural way are al men equal. This a foundation which satisfies both my faith and my reason. Now that I have a foundation for equality I now have to establish how this equality applies. This equality is not absolute (not equal in all things). Rights are not carte blanch permissions to do anything you want no matter the cost. IOW these rights had to applied to respected where accepting those rights were morally and socially justifiable. Regardless of what foundation any society has used there has always been a difference between justifiable behavior and unjustifiable behavior. So rights are recognized where they are socially and morally acceptable. Granting women the right to vote is morally justifiable. I cannot think of any argument that would serve to deny justification for that right. It is a theological principle that we are governed by consent, so granting that consent in this case both appeals to my faith and my reason. Now slavery is a little more complicated. In fact thinking about it I am sorry I agreed to explain this because it is so complex. Lincoln (and most of our founders) believed tat slavery was wrong in its "chattel" form as it existed then. However this was more complex than this. You have to weigh the impact of freeing millions of men who do not have the education to make informed choices, have no homes to go to, have to means to provide for themselves, are not qualified to fully participate in a responsible way. Slaves then were usually completely primitive, ignorant, an unskilled members of African tribes who were enslaved by other tribes and then bought by a very small minority of agricultural masters over seas. Instantly turning out millions of these people to fend for themselves simply was not a rational option at the time. Make no mistake, slavery was wrong as it existed in America at the time, however it was a simple fact that our founders and statesmen for preexisting and had to manage the best they could. This is why the constitution and declaration were considered promissory notes guarantying equality when equality was responsible. Equal under God but not equal in all ways. When MLK demanded equality for blacks he did not do so by referencing secular humanism, social Darwinism, or even human reasoning. He said his God given right to equality was promised in the founding documents of the nation and were to be recognized in the fullness of time which he said was far past. So gradually as it was practical and morally responsible their God founded right to equality was granted. It may have been late, but it would have been morally irresponsible, and downright cruel to have turned out millions of ignorant people incapable of providing for themselves and responsibly exercising full rights in society at that time.

However what you asked about was not an equality with homosexuality. Being a women or being black is not a behavior which we can be condemned for or judged by. Homosexuality is a behavior. Even if you assume it is an orientation, acting on that preference is still a choice. The same as a psychopath may be born that way but when he acts on others in psychopathic ways we do not protect his behavior by law. No society has ever granted that all behavior is acceptable if any are. No one has ever said since one behavior is allowed by law then any behavior should be. And no society that people in general consider just have ever granted that behavior and identity are equally treated by law.

Anyway your arguments fail on several grounds.

1. You cannot justify one behavior by condemning or approving of another behavior. All behavior is not equal and should never be considered as such.
2. Throwing all behavior in one basket and demanding we take them all or none is not rational.
3. Equating what is true of identity is equally true of behavior or choice is a false dichotomy.
4. Pointing out the imperfections in one line of reasoning is of no help or hindrance to another line of moral reasoning.




1. Marriage is either a right granting by a transcendent source and a Holy institution that has a specific purpose intended by God, or it is merely a tradition commonly accepted, recognized, and protected by law because of social Darwinian byproducts which ensure offspring and their protection. Neither scenario justifies homosexual marriage.
2. I do not care if everyone on earth or in history believed that rights can be granted by edict, they would all be wrong. It is not merely that rights are not granted by fiat, it is that they can't possibly be granted by any natural institution.
3. Rights are considered inherent to us. No one has any rights to grant to anyone else. Nature tells us what is not what we should do. I do not have your rights, you cannot grant me any rights, and no government has any rights to dispense to anyone.
4. Governments do not grant rights, they are charged with not infringing upon them. Laws protect rights that exist inherently they are powerless to grant them.
5. Do you deny that Jews had rights to happiness and life because Hitler made it legal to kill them on an industrial scale? Do you deny that the Ukrainians had the right to eat the food they produced when Stalin legally took their food in order to starve millions of them? Do you deny slaves actually had any right to freedom because some rich aristocrats made it legal to enslave them? Do you actually believe other humans as flawed and impotent as you or I are actually in possession of each others rights? If you think legality in anyway determines morality that is truly depressing.


If consent is the justification for what ever behavior is consented to then why is insider trading illegal, sex between adults and even consenting minors illegal, that drug selling and using is outlawed even among consenting adults, etc.....? That is how your logic breaks down. I made no claims to knowledge, and so had n burden. It is you who are demanding recognition of a behavior and legal protection for a behavior well established to be exceeding destructive and so it you who have the logical burden. Consent is a logical dead end as a foundation for law. What else you got? I could not understand your (as usual) confusing metaphoric example with the male plant doctors.

The defects in your reasoning are consistent. There is no danger of walls or Hamsters voting because walls have no wills, and hamsters have no interest in voting. However people have demanded the right to marry dolls, dead people, children, towers, dogs, etc... and all the legal and ethical entanglements that come with it. I advise you to defend homosexuality specifically instead of trying to glue it to other issues and demand they all must sink or swim together.

Now it is apparent what your reasoning is. You wish to draw the moral line at whatever that pleases you, give no actually reasons or rational moral arguments for the line being there, and then demand I adopt your arbitrary moral standard. Again, it is you who are claiming a right, you who want recognition, you who are insisting that a behavior that no other species known in the universe exclusively engages in, and you who are demanding legal protection. In many cases I would not care but in this case your demanding all this of a behavior which produces enormously far more harm than any good you can muster to balance it out with. It is 100% percent your burden. I must merely point out you have not yet provided given anything that actually begins to meet that burden.

You basically are inventing a moral line based on merely preference and devoid of any rationality which even if actually true it would be impossible for you to have any actual knowledge of it. In essence you have made yourself your own moral standard and demand we all adopt your standard. When you reject God you must become your own God (of sorts).

How on earth (even if true) could you possibly know what you underlined was true? You may have a right to your opinion but do you have a right to invent your own reality as well. I and you have no idea how meaningful the average homosexual marriage would be. I however have some evidence to suggest they are not. Homosexual sexual assault rates are higher than straight couples, infidelity rates are higher, life spans are lower, promiscuity rates are much higher, drug use is more rampant, depression is far more common, and where it is legal there has been little demand for marriage (percentage wise) among homosexuals. They seem to be far more interested in having the right than actually initializing it. There are whole lists of evidence to believe that homosexual relationships are less meaningful than straight relationships but lets pretend they are just as meaningful. I did not make any objections that relied on how meaningful the behavior is. I said the behavior comes at such a drastic cost to society that you must have very strong reasons to justify it. Claiming that you know what you can't possibly know and is not a sufficient justification anyway is not going to do it. Many killers and psychopaths find great meaning in their behavior we do not according protect their behavior by law. No law I have ever even heard has meaningfulness as it's foundation.

Sorry for the length. I got going and was too lazy to stop.
I can tell you how meaningful my marriage to my late partner was, despite she was a wife to me alone and not in reality, due to people like you. I met her about 1985. We talked occasionally as I traveled to my various assignments and then began talking every night. Just like any other couple on the planet, we dated for a while. I took her to the movies, knots berry farm, dinner, the usual date stuff. Over time, we feel in love. Deeply in love. She was my soul mate. I loved that woman with every breath I took. I bought a home in tonner canyon, in brea, Ca., just like every other couple. I read her entire series of books by David eddings and Tolkien as she loved fantasy. She taught me to oil paint and sculpt. We would spend entire nights on the beach in Santa Ana and cry for joy for the love we felt, watching the moon rise and the tide come in. and because of people like you, she died. I lost her so young and I died the day she did, at least psychologically. I wept inconsolably as I scattered her ashes out to sea, a kind of sadness that comes from the depth of the soul. To this day, I remain single and celibate as there will ever be another wife like she. She made my life brighter just by being herself. And if you can't understand that, I honestly feel sorry for you.
 

ImmortalFlame

Woke gremlin
It is peculiar to homosexual defenses that they do are almost never justifications of the actual behavior they are far more often a condemnation or point about problems with something else. Homosexuality having no actually defense instead tries to cling to other behaviors, laws, and actions and demand they all sink or swim together. How is problems defining who should vote a defense of homosexuality? How is linking it to racism relevant? However I am bored and so I will answer you.
It's not a defence of homosexuality: it's an attack on the logic of your argument. You are saying that we have to somehow "demonstrate that homosexuals deserve the right to marry". I challenged you to "demonstrate that women that women deserve the right to vote", which is the exact same logical argument you are attempting to use. If you cannot do that, then you can see how your argument is flawed.

If you actually based legality and morality on social Darwinism or nature then I have no idea how you would justify any equality between people. Evolution never made any two things actually equal.
Why would we ever based morality or legality on social Darwinism? Why are you even bringing that up? What does that have to do with anything?

However you asked me how I would do so, so I will tell how I would resolve these issues and how many of our great founders did so. I would do so using biblical principles and reason. From my faith: As Jefferson and Lincoln both claimed men (meaning humanity) find their equality under God. From reason if men actually do have equality it must come from a transcendent standard because in no natural way are al men equal. This a foundation which satisfies both my faith and my reason. Now that I have a foundation for equality I now have to establish how this equality applies. This equality is not absolute (not equal in all things). Rights are not carte blanch permissions to do anything you want no matter the cost. IOW these rights had to applied to respected where accepting those rights were morally and socially justifiable. Regardless of what foundation any society has used there has always been a difference between justifiable behavior and unjustifiable behavior. So rights are recognized where they are socially and morally acceptable. Granting women the right to vote is morally justifiable. I cannot think of any argument that would serve to deny justification for that right.
That is not the logic you were applying earlier. You asked us to "demonstrate that gays deserve the right to marry", and yet you are clearly stating here that the only reason you would grant women the right to vote is because you cannot see any sufficient justification for NOT allowing them to vote. This is pure hypocrisy. Can you or can you not "demonstrate that women deserve the right to vote"?

When MLK demanded equality for blacks he did not do so by referencing secular humanism, social Darwinism, or even human reasoning. He said his God given right to equality was promised in the founding documents of the nation and were to be recognized in the fullness of time which he said was far past. So gradually as it was practical and morally responsible their God founded right to equality was granted.
Again, this does not answer the question. You are not "demonstrating" that equality for black people is "deserved", as you put it.

However what you asked about was not an equality with homosexuality. Being a women or being black is not a behavior which we can be condemned for or judged by.
You obviously need to read a few more history books. Being a woman or being black are things that are regularly condemned even today, and not too long ago were roundly condemned by a large proportion of American society.

Homosexuality is a behavior.
Garbage. Is heterosexuality a behaviour?

Even if you assume it is an orientation, acting on that preference is still a choice.
Falling in love isn't a choice, unless you think homosexuality is entirely defined by sexual relations - in which case, you need to pull your head from the gutter.

The same as a psychopath may be born that way but when he acts on others in psychopathic ways we do not protect his behavior by law. No society has ever granted that all behavior is acceptable if any are. No one has ever said since one behavior is allowed by law then any behavior should be. And no society that people in general consider just have ever granted that behavior and identity are equally treated by law.
Then please tell me why it shouldn't be. That was the question.

Anyway your arguments fail on several grounds.

1. You cannot justify one behavior by condemning or approving of another behavior. All behavior is not equal and should never be considered as such.
Which is exactly why YOUR argument fails, not mine. You argued that treating homosexuality as equal to heterosexuality with regards to marriage MUST mean we treat them equal as a marriage between a man and a dog or a man and a bridge. You are the one who made that argument, not me. My argument is that there is no good reason to deny homosexual relationships the same rights as heterosexual relationships - a position which you at least accept with regards to women's votes or black slavery; that there is insufficient moral or rational justification to deny equality on these grounds. You arbitrarily decide not to extend this to homosexuality due to sheer hypocrisy.

2. Throwing all behavior in one basket and demanding we take them all or none is not rational.
Again, I have never said that. This is a strawman.

3. Equating what is true of identity is equally true of behavior or choice is a false dichotomy.
Homosexuality is not a behaviour or a choice. It is a preference and an identity. Equating homosexuality with sex is a false dichotomy.

4. Pointing out the imperfections in one line of reasoning is of no help or hindrance to another line of moral reasoning.
It is when the exact same logic is being applied in both lines of reasoning.

1. Marriage is either a right granting by a transcendent source and a Holy institution that has a specific purpose intended by God, or it is merely a tradition commonly accepted, recognized, and protected by law because of social Darwinian byproducts which ensure offspring and their protection. Neither scenario justifies homosexual marriage.
Garbage. No state or law defines marriage as being inextricably linked to ensuring the protection of offspring - that's a pathetic, fallacious definition. If this were true, you ought to be arguing against marriage for sterile couples. Yet I see no argument from you against that. If marriage should be about anything in law, it should be the protection and establishment of a relationship (even one that has no children or chooses to adopt children) to ensure successful cohabitation between the individuals in that relationship.

2. I do not care if everyone on earth or in history believed that rights can be granted by edict, they would all be wrong. It is not merely that rights are not granted by fiat, it is that they can't possibly be granted by any natural institution.
So where did the right for women to vote come from? Why did that suddenly come into existence? Was it merely "not recognized" until recently? If so, then why is it not true that we simple are "failing to recognize" that homosexuals have a right to marry? Where is the fault in that?

3. Rights are considered inherent to us. No one has any rights to grant to anyone else. Nature tells us what is not what we should do. I do not have your rights, you cannot grant me any rights, and no government has any rights to dispense to anyone.
So you wouldn't consider a miscarriage of human rights if a government denied the right of interracial couples to marry? Rights are PROTECTED AND MAINTAINED by governments, or should be. When a government acts in such a ways as to unfairly disadvantage a group (say, by denying them a legal process that is granted to other groups for no good reason other than that they don't share sexual genitalia) that government can be said to be infringing upon their rights. If a government tells you that it's okay for white people to sit wherever they want on a bus but that black people have to sit in specially designated areas, that is infringing on their rights to equal treatment.

4. Governments do not grant rights, they are charged with not infringing upon them. Laws protect rights that exist inherently they are powerless to grant them.
See above.

5. Do you deny that Jews had rights to happiness and life because Hitler made it legal to kill them on an industrial scale? Do you deny that the Ukrainians had the right to eat the food they produced when Stalin legally took their food in order to starve millions of them? Do you deny slaves actually had any right to freedom because some rich aristocrats made it legal to enslave them? Do you actually believe other humans as flawed and impotent as you or I are actually in possession of each others rights? If you think legality in anyway determines morality that is truly depressing.
See above. You are again constructing a strawman. We're not asking the legal system to "invent" rights for homosexuals. We're saying that the law is actively prohibiting their rights. Their rights ARE innate, and the law is suppressing those rights and restricting them by denying homosexuals equality. When women got the right to vote, morality didn't "change" because the law dictated it. The law changed because people recognized that women should have the right to vote and that denying them that was infringing upon their equality.

If consent is the justification for what ever behavior is consented to then why is insider trading illegal, sex between adults and even consenting minors illegal, that drug selling and using is outlawed even among consenting adults, etc.....? That is how your logic breaks down.
Again, you are so ridiculously wrong that I am beginning to think you aren't even bothering to read my arguments at all. You're continuing to construct ridiculous strawmen. We aren't arguing about "justification for behaviour", we are talking about "right to marry". Where have I said that consent justifies all behaviour??? I have specifically said THE RIGHT FOR ADULTS TO MARRY CONSENTING ADULTS. You are arguing that the right for consenting adults to marry consenting adults should be considered equal to the right for a consenting adult to marry a plant pot. It is not the same logic and you know it. The reason adults aren't allowed to marry consenting minors is because MINORS CANNOT LEGALLY GIVE CONSENT, and since my statement already made clear that this issue dealt exclusively with CONSENTING ADULTS, I can only assume this argument of yours feel out of an extremely dark and disturbing place in your own morally corrupt psyche - because it certainly can't be inferred from my statements.

I made no claims to knowledge, and so had n burden. It is you who are demanding recognition of a behavior and legal protection for a behavior well established to be exceeding destructive and so it you who have the logical burden.
The moment you call homosexuality "exceeding destructive", you have lost this argument, and I am no longer willing to debate your ignorant, backwards, narrow-minded position. If you want to see something "exceeding destructive", try taking a look in the mirror.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
It truly does boggle the mind. You accuse me incorrectly of being closed minded in another thread and here you deny an entire category including hundreds of millions of intelligent people and tens of thousand of sciences greatest minds because they have faith, and give no reason what so ever. It is truly mind boggling. However this point is so widely granted I will meet your bias conditions.

Assuming you have not rejected the CDC out of hand lets see what the greatest data base of disease has to say about homosexuality and aids.

Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)a represent approximately 2% of the United States population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV. In 2010, young gay and bisexual men (aged 13-24 years) accounted for 72% of new HIV infections among all persons aged 13 to 24, and 30% of new infections among all gay and bisexual men. In 2010, gay and bisexual men accounted for 63% of estimated new HIV infections in the United States and 78% of infections among all newly infected men. From 2008 to 2010, new HIV infections increased 22% among young (aged 13-24) gay and bisexual men and 12% among gay and bisexual men overall.
CDC – Fact Sheet - Gay and Bisexual Men – Gender – Risk – HIV/AIDS

When a behavior practiced by a mere 4% of the population produces 60% of new aids cases you had better show me some great reasons to justify it being protected by law, and the medical expenses paid for by the 96% of the population not engaging in the behavior.

So much for your aids dismissal.
Sounds like having sex with men is a risky activity. Should we restrict marriage to lesbians only?

As to the family. This is a matter of fact and of common sense. First homosexuals cannot produce children naturally. This inherently weakens the general family units of any population even if some of those gays adopt. If we all practiced homosexuality exclusively (which no other species on earth does) the entire human race would cease to exist within a generation or two.
If everyone were doctors, we'd all starve quickly with nobody to grow our food. We should prohibit people from becoming doctors - medicine is unnatural.
 

McBell

Unbound
It is peculiar to homosexual defenses that they do are almost never justifications of the actual behavior they are far more often a condemnation or point about problems with something else. Homosexuality having no actually defense instead tries to cling to other behaviors, laws, and actions and demand they all sink or swim together. How is problems defining who should vote a defense of homosexuality? How is linking it to racism relevant? However I am bored and so I will answer you.
What is interesting is that you are STILL arguing the wrong thing.
See, as already pointed out to you, the supreme court is not looking at this case in the way you seem to think.
Same sex marriage is not "defending" anything.
The fact is that those states who have banned same sex marriage are having to defend their bans.

So you have the thing backwards.
But you already know this.
And you already know your side has already lost.
Thus the reason you are beating up on your strawman.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
Come on Voile, your too smart for me to believe that. I was saying that homosexual sex comes with some much additional rates of destruction compared with monogamous hetero sex that it requires a very heavy weight argument to justify it.

Therefore, according to your criteria, homosexual female relationships are to be preferred than heterosexual ones. For I cannot see what diseases female pairs can get if they did not mess around with males before. Would that be a sufficient condition to bless faithful lesbian love? If not, why not?

History is full of sin, mistakes, and every form of moral insanity imaginable. What we have to do is carefully weed through our moral principles and slowly weed out actual injustices. That is very easy to do with Women's rights. It is so far proving impossible to do with homosexual behavior.

If is is very easy, I wonder why it took millennia to realize that. That for sure should give us a pause when we contemplate the moral reliability, or intellectual capabilities, of so-called traditions.
By the way, when you say "impossible to do with homosexuals", are you referring to Iran and Uganda, or are you including Europe as well?

That most certainly is not the only ones who agree with me. By far the majority of Christina denominations do not perform homosexual marriages. In addition to that many of the popular votes given by state deny homosexual marriage but in many cases one liberal judge defies the will of the people and does what ever he wants anyway.

Well, that did not work in Ireland, a stronghold of the Catholics, apparently. As I said, you are losing. A couple of generations, and you will be remembered as the bad guys :).
The same way people who opposed interracial marriages are remember today. I seriously hope that in Heaven you will be vindicated against the bad press, lol.

BTW is there only one denomination in Sweden?

If we count the members of the church of Sweden, then yes. The rest are minorities. There are some Episcopalians and Muslims that do not agree, obviously.

How is the majority of a country which in your own words is secular (or the small amount of Christians) in that nation relevant to anything?
Well, you reminded me that its history is molded by Christianity and we have a cross on our flag.
But even if it was not the case, would that be a sufficient condition for the few Christians left to abandon what you consider so important?

Does this denomination practice this universally?
How long have they done so?

Not long ago. A few decades after women could vote. Some say they are opportunistic, but in this case you would be left choosing between inconsistent and opportunistic Christians.
Your call.

Marriage has two traditional justifications.

1. That it is the intention of various God's. In the most prolific example. The union between a man and a women was represent the union between Christ and the church. The bible constantly refers to the church as bride and Christ as the groom.

The problem here is that we are speaking of different brides. What church are you talking about? There must be thousands. Lucky Jesus that He can choose from so many brides. Or does He support polygamy?

2. Now if that justification is out you only have only a social Darwinian justification for marriage. In that in the general permanent pair bond between a man and a women was optimal for human flourishing.
Nope. I do not appeal to nature for my opinions, obviously. If I did, I would limit heterosexual marriage in order to avoid the obvious evils of overpopulation.

The justification that whatever is true between a man and a women is justified between members of the same sex contradicts both. Your getting the burden mixed up here. Your going against historical tradition, all manner of theological faiths, making claims to rights, demanding legal recognition of a practice that comes with a massive increase in human suffering in countless categories. It is not my burden to justify preventing it, it is your burden to justify it. You want to rectify history I am fine with that but you better have a very good argument in this case.

The same historical tradition that limited women rights, burned witches and allowed slavery for millennia? I think it is pretty obvious that it is totally discredited. I wonder how you can take it seriously.
And again, here in North Europe we do not appear to be on the verge of chaos and anarchy. So, all those evils are just a figment of your imagination that can easily be proven wrong.

Yes I have evidence. I am so sick of posting it I encourage you to search my recent posts.

Your recent posts? That is not evidence, I am afraid. And as you said, traditionally gay marriages are very recent, so what kind of evidence can you have gathered?

They might appeal to a wider and more rebellious section of the population by they erode their credibility as representatives of a moral system which they so flagrantly contradict. popularity is not equal with credibility.

So, your historical record of popularity against gay marriage is not equal to credibility? I am afraid, you are constantly contradicting yourself.

They profess to follow and represent the biblical god yet they completely contradict his commands. I can't make it any simpler than that.

True. Our church allows also to work on the Sabbath and eat shrimps without risking to get stoned to death. They must really believe in the wrong God. Lucky us.

BTW, the NT prohibits the marriage between Christians and not-Christians, too. Why don't you make the same noise about that?

Again let me state I was not making a theological argument here. I have done so elsewhere.
I am a naturalist. Theology = Leprechaunology for me. You should go all theological with your fellow Christians in North Europe. You could impress me by reaching an agreement. Until that day, I will chalk out your theological arguments about gays in the same way I chalk out theological arguments concerning the sex of the angels.

Ultimately you have make up your own mind because you will have to answer to a God who knows the fact of the matter if he exist. However let me give a few scriptures.

I have to answer to God? Which one? Oh the Baptist/Muslim version, I guess. There is no God. I would start getting used to the idea, if I were you. And if there were one, you might have to respond to Him too, if He does not look like Jesus.
For the record: veiled remarks about my future reports to the almighty are perceived by me as clear signs that I am winning an argument.

Leviticus 18:22 ESV / 1,855 helpful votes

You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV / 1,184 helpful votes
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Romans 1:26-28 ESV / 890 helpful votes
For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.

Leviticus 20:13 ESV / 827 helpful votes
If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.

I am not going to get into the applications between covenants here but you cannot simultaneous claim that what God has pronounced a death sentence in the past for he now sanctifies as Holy.

Like stoning shrimps eaters, wood collectors on the Sabbath, prohibiting women to talk in Church, prescriptions about selling a daughter as a sex slave, forbidding Church visits to people with impaired vision, tolerating slavery, etc. ? I am sure that is very holy to stone shrimps eaters to death. Those things are indeed disgusting.

Is that really your source of objective morality?

The only thing we learn from history is that we do not learn from history. History demonstrates that opinions are like pendulums that swing too far one way then to far the other way.

Yes, we have learned from history that slavery is wrong and that women have rights. You can learn a lot from bad examples. Actually, nobody cared about the historical record.

But what puzzles me is that you care about history. You always make that example that if some evil force changes the world, then what people believe during that regime might very well be wrong. So, what makes you think that what people believed in history is right? What makes you believe that the regime in place in the last millennia makes it right just for being shared by everyone?

Ok, You did not defend homosexuality you instead glued into onto heterosexuality and demanded that both sink or swim together without any justification.

Defending homosexuality is like defending gravity. Both are natural things. And if someone is only attracted by members of the same sex without having any choice in that matter (unless you think you can choose your sexual orientation), I do not see any reason to prevent them to marry.

So your twelve year old who has a crush a crush on her 40 year old scum bag gym teacher should be allowed to marry him? We all discriminate, we are only debating where the line should be. Anyone who actually makes laws that make use of these imaginary blanket moral ambiguities would the maximum immorality possible.

If she were 18 years old, I do not see what I can do. For sure, I would not try to prohibit marriages generally because of that.
Maybe you heard that before: we are talking of grown ups here.

Of course your not a moral realist, you have no source for actual moral facts, duties, or laws. That is a poor defense of anything except anarchy or nihilism.

Lucky me. I could have ran the risk of having a source that at a certain point in time approved slavery and genocide....and the stoning of Swiss chocolate cookies bakers on the Sabbath.

No one should reject anything for the sole reason of it being historically prohibited. However if we are overturning 5000 years of moral conclusions we need much better reasons than we have been given here.

Therefore, if the nazi would have established a 5000 years old Empire, would we need a lot of work to establish that there is something suboptimal with their moral system?

How do I demonstrate any moral fact to one who denies they exist. There is no common ground. However I can get close. Homosexual behavior increases human suffering at far higher rates than heterosexuality, yet it completely lacks the justification or necessity heterosexuality does. That is as close as I can get to proof who denies moral truth actually exists.
The only people who suffer are the homosexuals and the bigots when they notice that people, like in Ireland, do not buy their Biblical Scholarship, or things that share the same acronym.

A Chesterton used to divided purposes cannot stand. It is I hope, far beneath you to compare the evidence and argumentation for God with that for bigfoot and the tooth fairy. And I do not have to a dozen posts to even highlight how many that is absurd and intellectual disingenuous. You want to defend homosexuality by picking on Chesterton or comparing biblical faith to absurdities just demonstrates exactly what I have claimed about homosexual argumentation. You want to back up and take another run at it?

Fairies, Apollo and Bigfoot have the same evidence of existing as your God. The rest, is a matter of preference, and accidents of birth. Therefore, resting a moral case on something that has no evidence of existing is a dead end.

Ciao

- viole
 
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1robin

Christian/Baptist
1. Where did I dismiss aids and Gay men? I never said it was not a problem that continues to plague the gay male community. Did you, however, note the ages of those who are getting the virus? 13 to 24. An age that is either grossly misinformed or too young to understand the risks, or misplaced youths working the streets as male prostitutes.
Where did I say you did so? Please quote me.

I said you denied an entire class of people (which includes the majority of sciences greatest scholars) because they merely believed and defended the bible. I also pointed out that your suggestion that Christian apologist consensus is that homosexuals caused aids. I am aware of none that do, even if some do they are a vast minority. What we do say is in fact an undeniable fact. Homosexuality greatly increases the spread of aids and many other problems which is by far the more effectual claim between the two. IOW everything you stated in your opening I believe was in fact wrong.

The massive increase in rates is not confined to that age group btw. It may be much higher that group because it contains the more sexually active and less cautious but they are not causal, it is the very act it's self that is the cause in almost all cases and categories.


2. Gay women can and do have children. They either have themselves via IV or they use surrogates, just as male gays do. Furthermore, gays can adopt or foster children. And according to Benjamin Siegel of the American academy of pediatrics, after 3 decades of dedicated research noted absolutely no difference in parental style, detrimental effects, familial cohesiveness and the length of time the couples remain couples. (Siegel, B. 2013).
I did not suggest that two gay people cannot acquire children. I said their being homosexual reduces the chances that they will have children and absolutely eliminates the chance they will have any children in the traditional sense of the family. These all cause an erosion often overall family unit. I specifically pointed out adoption specifically to prevent you from wasting your time by doing exactly what you did and mistakenly pointing out while the patient has suffered massive injuries you know of a band aid available.

3. The majority of people up to now that have spread std's are straight men who either have affairs, are themselves promiscuous or are too young to know better. Of course, gay men do get HIV and Aids, however, if you noted in the cdc research, as education continues and kids are able to get free condoms those numbers will decrease. Are you aware of the sheer number of men who spread syphillus at about the turn of the 20th century?
This a classic mistake. I am not talking about total damage. I am talking about massive increasing the rate with not increasing the justification of a behavior. There are 96% straights to 4% gays, but that 4% is producing far more than it's share of misery and does not produce it's share of net gain or necessity. There is no necessity to homosexual sex what so ever. The only justification that exists is that 4% of us want to do it. Last time I checked the fact you want something does not make it true, right, or legal. Especially when that 4% that lack sufficient justification cause many many more times than 4% of increases in suffering. Pointing out group that includes 96% of people produce more of X than a group who includes 4% is irrelevant in this case and intellectually bankrupt in any similar case.

4. You're welcome to your opinion and if your state votes the issue of SSM, you're free to vote against it. Of course my vote will negate yours. But you're still welcome to try. What you can't do is change the fact that gay people are no different than you. We love, we have families, we have children. And most of us don't give a rats arse that your book of fiction tells us we are wrong. God made me and I'm pretty sure God doesn't get things wrong.
We are not debating what our opinions are. What I think it is of little relevance. What can be sufficiently justified (or what can't be in any rational sense of the word) is of importance. Arguments are what matter in a debate not my your or my preference. Our votes may not matter in a few decades. Islam is being allowed to infiltrate the west and because of the rise of secularism western nations now lack the moral will they had in the 40's which can stop that kind of tyranny. If Islam does manage that feat your vote will no longer even be taken. Even before this happens my vote may be negated by a liberal judge anyway which has occurred in many states in the US. The popular vote was against homosexual marriage yet some liberal judge decided he did not care what the people want.

The Christian end scenario for this world is bleak, we just did not know when it would occur. With the moral insanity and everything that it produces that has resulted from the rise of secularism we can now see the beginning of the end and it's horrific form. Soon the voting privileges that were granted to you (by the blood of Christians in most cases if you live in the west) will no longer be relevant.
 

Baladas

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I'm very glad that they are seriously considering this, and I hope that they decide in the favor of civil liberty.
This really shouldn't be a "religious" issue at all.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
It truly does boggle the mind. You accuse me incorrectly of being closed minded in another thread and here you deny an entire category including hundreds of millions of intelligent people and tens of thousand of sciences greatest minds because they have faith, and give no reason what so ever. It is truly mind boggling. However this point is so widely granted I will meet your bias conditions.

Assuming you have not rejected the CDC out of hand lets see what the greatest data base of disease has to say about homosexuality and aids.

Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)a represent approximately 2% of the United States population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV. In 2010, young gay and bisexual men (aged 13-24 years) accounted for 72% of new HIV infections among all persons aged 13 to 24, and 30% of new infections among all gay and bisexual men. In 2010, gay and bisexual men accounted for 63% of estimated new HIV infections in the United States and 78% of infections among all newly infected men. From 2008 to 2010, new HIV infections increased 22% among young (aged 13-24) gay and bisexual men and 12% among gay and bisexual men overall.
CDC – Fact Sheet - Gay and Bisexual Men – Gender – Risk – HIV/AIDS

When a behavior practiced by a mere 4% of the population produces 60% of new aids cases you had better show me some great reasons to justify it being protected by law, and the medical expenses paid for by the 96% of the population not engaging in the behavior.

So much for your aids dismissal.

As to the family. This is a matter of fact and of common sense. First homosexuals cannot produce children naturally. This inherently weakens the general family units of any population even if some of those gays adopt. If we all practiced homosexuality exclusively (which no other species on earth does) the entire human race would cease to exist within a generation or two. Add to this the fact that the homosexual population has a much higher rate of sexual violence, a higher rate of infidelity, promiscuity, a lower average life span, etc..... and you a have a recipe for disaster.

Included in this particular syndemic, according to the Linacre paper, are issues related to mental health, including higher risks of “suicidal ideation, substance misuse, and deliberate self harm than heterosexual people.” According to the paper, even the Southern Poverty Law Center, an advocacy group for MSM, admits “that LGBT people suffer higher rates of anxiety, depression and depression-related illnesses and behaviors like alcohol and drug abuse than the general population,”
CDC: Syphilis Resurgence Among Gay Men 'Major Public Health Concern' - Breitbart

Yeah this is a great idea, lets have more of this, protect it by law, and declare that anyone who does not rationalize a behavior this destructive is intolerant or behind the times. The destructive consequences are not only still believed today they are becoming more obvious and incontrovertible as more data is available.

I have never said, and I have never heard anyone suggest gays are the cause of aids. I do not think anyone knows the exact cause of aids (last I heard it came from using monkey plasma in polio shots). What Christians and anyone that can read statistics claim is that homosexuality massively increases the spread of aids and many other STDs, social ills, and increased health care costs and it lacks any justification that balances out the enormous cost.
They don't. And you know this since it's been pointed out to you on practically every single thread about homosexuality that you've participated on in this forum.

But for some reason, you just keep repeating it over and over in different threads as if you're presenting something new.

Your statistics and your arguments have been reduced to rubbish many times over now. I wonder why you keep repeating them at this point.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
It is peculiar to homosexual defenses that they do are almost never justifications of the actual behavior they are far more often a condemnation or point about problems with something else. Homosexuality having no actually defense instead tries to cling to other behaviors, laws, and actions and demand they all sink or swim together. How is problems defining who should vote a defense of homosexuality? How is linking it to racism relevant? However I am bored and so I will answer you.

If you actually based legality and morality on social Darwinism or nature then I have no idea how you would justify any equality between people. Evolution never made any two things actually equal. However you asked me how I would do so, so I will tell how I would resolve these issues and how many of our great founders did so. I would do so using biblical principles and reason. From my faith: As Jefferson and Lincoln both claimed men (meaning humanity) find their equality under God. From reason if men actually do have equality it must come from a transcendent standard because in no natural way are al men equal. This a foundation which satisfies both my faith and my reason. Now that I have a foundation for equality I now have to establish how this equality applies. This equality is not absolute (not equal in all things). Rights are not carte blanch permissions to do anything you want no matter the cost. IOW these rights had to applied to respected where accepting those rights were morally and socially justifiable. Regardless of what foundation any society has used there has always been a difference between justifiable behavior and unjustifiable behavior. So rights are recognized where they are socially and morally acceptable. Granting women the right to vote is morally justifiable. I cannot think of any argument that would serve to deny justification for that right. It is a theological principle that we are governed by consent, so granting that consent in this case both appeals to my faith and my reason. Now slavery is a little more complicated. In fact thinking about it I am sorry I agreed to explain this because it is so complex. Lincoln (and most of our founders) believed tat slavery was wrong in its "chattel" form as it existed then. However this was more complex than this. You have to weigh the impact of freeing millions of men who do not have the education to make informed choices, have no homes to go to, have to means to provide for themselves, are not qualified to fully participate in a responsible way. Slaves then were usually completely primitive, ignorant, an unskilled members of African tribes who were enslaved by other tribes and then bought by a very small minority of agricultural masters over seas. Instantly turning out millions of these people to fend for themselves simply was not a rational option at the time. Make no mistake, slavery was wrong as it existed in America at the time, however it was a simple fact that our founders and statesmen for preexisting and had to manage the best they could. This is why the constitution and declaration were considered promissory notes guarantying equality when equality was responsible. Equal under God but not equal in all ways. When MLK demanded equality for blacks he did not do so by referencing secular humanism, social Darwinism, or even human reasoning. He said his God given right to equality was promised in the founding documents of the nation and were to be recognized in the fullness of time which he said was far past. So gradually as it was practical and morally responsible their God founded right to equality was granted. It may have been late, but it would have been morally irresponsible, and downright cruel to have turned out millions of ignorant people incapable of providing for themselves and responsibly exercising full rights in society at that time.

However what you asked about was not an equality with homosexuality. Being a women or being black is not a behavior which we can be condemned for or judged by. Homosexuality is a behavior. Even if you assume it is an orientation, acting on that preference is still a choice. The same as a psychopath may be born that way but when he acts on others in psychopathic ways we do not protect his behavior by law. No society has ever granted that all behavior is acceptable if any are. No one has ever said since one behavior is allowed by law then any behavior should be. And no society that people in general consider just have ever granted that behavior and identity are equally treated by law.

Anyway your arguments fail on several grounds.

1. You cannot justify one behavior by condemning or approving of another behavior. All behavior is not equal and should never be considered as such.
2. Throwing all behavior in one basket and demanding we take them all or none is not rational.
3. Equating what is true of identity is equally true of behavior or choice is a false dichotomy.
4. Pointing out the imperfections in one line of reasoning is of no help or hindrance to another line of moral reasoning.




1. Marriage is either a right granting by a transcendent source and a Holy institution that has a specific purpose intended by God, or it is merely a tradition commonly accepted, recognized, and protected by law because of social Darwinian byproducts which ensure offspring and their protection. Neither scenario justifies homosexual marriage.
2. I do not care if everyone on earth or in history believed that rights can be granted by edict, they would all be wrong. It is not merely that rights are not granted by fiat, it is that they can't possibly be granted by any natural institution.
3. Rights are considered inherent to us. No one has any rights to grant to anyone else. Nature tells us what is not what we should do. I do not have your rights, you cannot grant me any rights, and no government has any rights to dispense to anyone.
4. Governments do not grant rights, they are charged with not infringing upon them. Laws protect rights that exist inherently they are powerless to grant them.
5. Do you deny that Jews had rights to happiness and life because Hitler made it legal to kill them on an industrial scale? Do you deny that the Ukrainians had the right to eat the food they produced when Stalin legally took their food in order to starve millions of them? Do you deny slaves actually had any right to freedom because some rich aristocrats made it legal to enslave them? Do you actually believe other humans as flawed and impotent as you or I are actually in possession of each others rights? If you think legality in anyway determines morality that is truly depressing.


If consent is the justification for what ever behavior is consented to then why is insider trading illegal, sex between adults and even consenting minors illegal, that drug selling and using is outlawed even among consenting adults, etc.....? That is how your logic breaks down. I made no claims to knowledge, and so had n burden. It is you who are demanding recognition of a behavior and legal protection for a behavior well established to be exceeding destructive and so it you who have the logical burden. Consent is a logical dead end as a foundation for law. What else you got? I could not understand your (as usual) confusing metaphoric example with the male plant doctors.

The defects in your reasoning are consistent. There is no danger of walls or Hamsters voting because walls have no wills, and hamsters have no interest in voting. However people have demanded the right to marry dolls, dead people, children, towers, dogs, etc... and all the legal and ethical entanglements that come with it. I advise you to defend homosexuality specifically instead of trying to glue it to other issues and demand they all must sink or swim together.

Now it is apparent what your reasoning is. You wish to draw the moral line at whatever that pleases you, give no actually reasons or rational moral arguments for the line being there, and then demand I adopt your arbitrary moral standard. Again, it is you who are claiming a right, you who want recognition, you who are insisting that a behavior that no other species known in the universe exclusively engages in, and you who are demanding legal protection. In many cases I would not care but in this case your demanding all this of a behavior which produces enormously far more harm than any good you can muster to balance it out with. It is 100% percent your burden. I must merely point out you have not yet provided given anything that actually begins to meet that burden.

You basically are inventing a moral line based on merely preference and devoid of any rationality which even if actually true it would be impossible for you to have any actual knowledge of it. In essence you have made yourself your own moral standard and demand we all adopt your standard. When you reject God you must become your own God (of sorts).

How on earth (even if true) could you possibly know what you underlined was true? You may have a right to your opinion but do you have a right to invent your own reality as well. I and you have no idea how meaningful the average homosexual marriage would be. I however have some evidence to suggest they are not. Homosexual sexual assault rates are higher than straight couples, infidelity rates are higher, life spans are lower, promiscuity rates are much higher, drug use is more rampant, depression is far more common, and where it is legal there has been little demand for marriage (percentage wise) among homosexuals. They seem to be far more interested in having the right than actually initializing it. There are whole lists of evidence to believe that homosexual relationships are less meaningful than straight relationships but lets pretend they are just as meaningful. I did not make any objections that relied on how meaningful the behavior is. I said the behavior comes at such a drastic cost to society that you must have very strong reasons to justify it. Claiming that you know what you can't possibly know and is not a sufficient justification anyway is not going to do it. Many killers and psychopaths find great meaning in their behavior we do not according protect their behavior by law. No law I have ever even heard has meaningfulness as it's foundation.

Sorry for the length. I got going and was too lazy to stop.
I like you Robin, and I like conversing with you. But I'm sorry to say that I find your views on gay people (in bold above) are quite disgusting, ill-informed and way off base. You have no idea how meaningful the average homosexual marriage would be?? Why would it be any more or less meaningful than the average heterosexual marriage?? Oh, because your view of homosexual people is demeaning and ridiculous.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
I can tell you how meaningful my marriage to my late partner was, despite she was a wife to me alone and not in reality, due to people like you. I met her about 1985. We talked occasionally as I traveled to my various assignments and then began talking every night. Just like any other couple on the planet, we dated for a while. I took her to the movies, knots berry farm, dinner, the usual date stuff. Over time, we feel in love. Deeply in love. She was my soul mate. I loved that woman with every breath I took. I bought a home in tonner canyon, in brea, Ca., just like every other couple. I read her entire series of books by David eddings and Tolkien as she loved fantasy. She taught me to oil paint and sculpt. We would spend entire nights on the beach in Santa Ana and cry for joy for the love we felt, watching the moon rise and the tide come in. and because of people like you, she died. I lost her so young and I died the day she did, at least psychologically. I wept inconsolably as I scattered her ashes out to sea, a kind of sadness that comes from the depth of the soul. To this day, I remain single and celibate as there will ever be another wife like she. She made my life brighter just by being herself. And if you can't understand that, I honestly feel sorry for you.
This deserves both a round of applause and my deepest sympathies. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
I can tell you how meaningful my marriage to my late partner was, despite she was a wife to me alone and not in reality, due to people like you. I met her about 1985. We talked occasionally as I traveled to my various assignments and then began talking every night. Just like any other couple on the planet, we dated for a while. I took her to the movies, knots berry farm, dinner, the usual date stuff. Over time, we feel in love. Deeply in love. She was my soul mate. I loved that woman with every breath I took. I bought a home in tonner canyon, in brea, Ca., just like every other couple. I read her entire series of books by David eddings and Tolkien as she loved fantasy. She taught me to oil paint and sculpt. We would spend entire nights on the beach in Santa Ana and cry for joy for the love we felt, watching the moon rise and the tide come in. and because of people like you, she died. I lost her so young and I died the day she did, at least psychologically. I wept inconsolably as I scattered her ashes out to sea, a kind of sadness that comes from the depth of the soul. To this day, I remain single and celibate as there will ever be another wife like she. She made my life brighter just by being herself. And if you can't understand that, I honestly feel sorry for you.
I can only hope that one day everyone will be able to acknowledge the love you experienced as a real love. Love isn't something I have a lot of experience with, but I know it is never easy to loose someone you cherish.
Hopefully, one day, the majority of society will realize the hatred that fuels the anti-homosexual crowd. Hopefully, someday, there will be no euphamisms such as "hate the sin, love the sinner," or, "I don't agree with it, but..." I can only hope that one day we will all realize love is a very precious thing, truly a thing to be cherished, and we will realize that indeed love is blind...blind to race, gender, sex, religion, and anything else we try to insist that love must be.

 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
I can only hope that one day everyone will be able to acknowledge the love you experienced as a real love. Love isn't something I have a lot of experience with, but I know it is never easy to loose someone you cherish.
Hopefully, one day, the majority of society will realize the hatred that fuels the anti-homosexual crowd. Hopefully, someday, there will be no euphamisms such as "hate the sin, love the sinner," or, "I don't agree with it, but..." I can only hope that one day we will all realize love is a very precious thing, truly a thing to be cherished, and we will realize that indeed love is blind...blind to race, gender, sex, religion, and anything else we try to insist that love must be.
Thank you shadow. I'm sorry you have not had that experience yet. It's an amazing thing. It's goes beyond sex and is a about love alone. It's almost indescribable.
 
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