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High stakes as Supreme Court considers same-sex marriage case

Akivah

Well-Known Member
Maybe they want the right to feel equal and not having to file extra paperwork.
That's not the American way. If a person wants to be a legal immigrant as opposed to an illegal immigrant, they have to fill out paperwork. To transfer property, make wills, or do anything a person wants to do, it all requires paperwork.
 
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fantome profane

Anti-Woke = Anti-Justice
Premium Member
Maybe they want the right to feel equal and not having to file extra paperwork. Would you like to have to file extra paperwork so that you can acquire the same rights as non Jews?

Ciao

- viole

That's not the American way. If a person wants to be a legal immigrant as opposed to an illegal immigrant, they have to fill out paperwork. To transfer property, make wills, or do anything a person wants to do, it all requires paperwork.
I think you have gotten confused (or even more confused). Voile was talking about same sex marriage, not illegal aliens. Unless you are implying somehow that there is a connection.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
No, if it doesn't apply to you, don't take it personally. It stops people from having to spell out boundaries every time they open their mouths. I don't get upset when people criticize the right wing "conservatives" because I am not part of that group.
I'm not taking it personal: I'm not even a liberal. However, I do know enough of them to know when someone is making sweeping generalizations about them.
There's nothing discriminatory about it. Or is this just another example of left-wing victim politics?
If it's not discriminatory, then what else is a law that certain parts of where determined to disproportionately have a negative effect on particular group of legal American citizens?
But there are already several threads on that discussion.

What wrong with those arguments?
They do not equally apply to all. Traditions should be questioned and challenged, because "just the way things are" may not be a good way of doing things, and religion does not equally apply to all.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
What wrong with those arguments?
Quite a few things. Let's start wi e fact that this is not a secular nation. So you can forget the religious aspect. You may disagree but you don't g to enforce your faith's 'rules' for anyone other than people of like mind and doesn't in,dude a good number of the citizens of this country. And as for tradition, it was once tradition to have polyandry or polygamy societies. Are you comfortable with returning to that? Traditions change over time, most often for the better and this is one of those changes.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
That's not the American way. If a person wants to be a legal immigrant as opposed to an illegal immigrant, they have to fill out paperwork. To transfer property, make wills, or do anything a person wants to do, it all requires paperwork.

But you are american, I suppose, like those gays who want to marry. And Jew, according to your tag.

So, even if those rights are accessible to you, would you like to need to fill out those forms, unlike your fellow citizens, just because you are Jew or belonging to any other (american) minority?

Isn't the American way to treat all Americans the same way?

Ciao

- viole
 

Akivah

Well-Known Member
They do not equally apply to all. Traditions should be questioned and challenged, because "just the way things are" may not be a good way of doing things, and religion does not equally apply to all.

Making changes to the way of doing things doesn't automatically mean that the change will be better than what was. No person can be sure of all the ramifications and effects to this change.
 

Akivah

Well-Known Member
You may disagree but you don't g to enforce your faith's 'rules' for anyone other than people of like mind

For someone who says that I may disagree, you seem to be very upset with my disagreement with your opinions.

it was once tradition to have polyandry or polygamy societies.
Those were never the established norms, but aberrations. Just like the one that the court will be making legitimate.

Traditions change over time, most often for the better and this is one of those changes.

I disagree that all changes are automatically better. No person can know all the ramifications from this change.
 
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Akivah

Well-Known Member
So, even if those rights are accessible to you, would you like to need to fill out those forms, unlike your fellow citizens, just because you are Jew or belonging to any other (american) minority?
My grandparents did, when they came into this country. Under current laws, since I was born here, I didn't. But I had to fill out paperwork for my marriage. That's the American way.

Isn't the American way to treat all Americans the same way?
Not exactly. It is the American way to treat everyone consistently, not identically. Kids get treated one way, criminals get treated another way, immigrants are treated another way. But within their context, all kids and etc.should be treated the same way.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
My grandparents did, when they came into this country. Under current laws, since I was born here, I didn't. But I had to fill out paperwork for my marriage. That's the American way.

Not exactly. It is the American way to treat everyone consistently, not identically. Kids get treated one way, criminals get treated another way, immigrants are treated another way. But within their context, all kids and etc.should be treated the same way.

So, you have nothing against gay people filling their paperwork to be married, like you did, right?
Or do you require a different procedure for them?

Ciao

- viole
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Making changes to the way of doing things doesn't automatically mean that the change will be better than what was. No person can be sure of all the ramifications and effects to this change.
Considering many places have legalized same-sex marriage, and have not had any problems, we can be sure that the effects of fully legalizing same-sex marriage will not result in the destruction of society.
Being concerned about the "ramifications" of allowing a minority group to enjoy a basic right that is bestowed upon the majority really says a lot. In America, lots of slave owners were also concerned about the ramifications over giving their slaves freedom. Obviously their concerns were very misplaced and very offensive.

Those were never the established norms, but aberrations. Just like the one that the court will be making legitimate.
Many villages in Papua New Guinea, as many other parts of the world, contemporary and historic, would disagree with you.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
But you are american, I suppose, like those gays who want to marry. And Jew, according to your tag.

So, even if those rights are accessible to you, would you like to need to fill out those forms, unlike your fellow citizens, just because you are Jew or belonging to any other (american) minority?

Isn't the American way to treat all Americans the same way?

Ciao

- viole
The site lost my initial reply so this is an abbreviated version. As Lincoln so famously made clear America has never (nor should any legal system or moral system) apply equally in all ways. For example all of us are equally subjected to laws concerning driving, but not equally treated in all ways by those laws. Is not an everyone can drive or no one can situation, it is a situation where circumstances like, age, ability, need, and capacity determine whether it is legal to drive. So any argument that all are treated equally by law is a non issue to begin with. No set of laws are applied equally in all ways nor would they be.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
The site lost my initial reply so this is an abbreviated version. As Lincoln so famously made clear America has never (nor should any legal system or moral system) apply equally in all ways. For example all of us are equally subjected to laws concerning driving, but not equally treated in all ways by those laws. Is not an everyone can drive or no one can situation, it is a situation where circumstances like, age, ability, need, and capacity determine whether it is legal to drive. So any argument that all are treated equally by law is a non issue to begin with. No set of laws are applied equally in all ways nor would they be.
So for you, keeping Black Americans in th back of the bus would have been just dandy, non? How about keeping all Japanese in interment camps. Maybe you'd like to add gays, lesbians, and transgender people in the interment camp as well, non? How about we force all people to adhere to your faith. Require that every citizen become Christian? Do you even begin to see how inane this is?
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
For someone who says that I may disagree, you seem to be very upset with my disagreement with your opinions.
Reminds me of that kid on TV who said he hated anyone who did not like him.


Those were never the established norms, but aberrations. Just like the one that the court will be making legitimate.
There can be and have been legal norms, however legal norms are not and cannot be without God right. Without God there is no objective quality of "rightness" for any law to reflect. Every legal statute is equally subjective and arbitrary respecting any objective moral fact of the matter. Hitler's laws were no more right or wrong, legitimate or illegitimate as any other societies' without God. The only distinguishing difference is the level of societal acceptance. Without God Hitler's morals are merely less fashionable than they were at one time.



I disagree that all changes are automatically better. No person can know all the ramifications from this change.
Claiming all moral changes are for the best is ontologically absurd. Not only without God do laws lack any degree of rightness or wrongness but any standard of moral correctness would show that we are not even heading in the right direction. As Nietzsche said: since poets killed God in the 19th century the 20th would be the bloodiest century in history. It was not only the bloodiest it was worse than all previous centuries combined. The legalizing of industrial slaughter of our own species in the womb is not moral progress it is moral insanity. Here is some parts of a poem describing the modern moral mindset.

“Creed” on the World
By Steve Turner

We believe in Marxfreudanddarwin

We believe everything is OK

as long as you don’t hurt anyone

to the best of your definition of hurt,

and to the best of your knowledge.

We believe in sex before, during, and

after marriage.

We believe in the therapy of sin.

We believe that adultery is fun.

We believe that sodomy’s OK.

We believe that taboos are taboo.

We believe that everything’s getting better

despite evidence to the contrary.

The evidence must be investigated

And you can prove anything with evidence.

We believe there’s something in horoscopes

UFO’s and bent spoons.

Jesus was a good man just like Buddha,

Mohammed, and ourselves.

He was a good moral teacher though we think

His good morals were bad.

We believe that all religions are basically the same-

at least the one that we read was.

They all believe in love and goodness.

They only differ on matters of creation,

sin, heaven, hell, God, and salvation.

We believe that after death comes the Nothing

Because when you ask the dead what happens

they say nothing.

If death is not the end, if the dead have lied, then its

compulsory heaven for all

excepting perhaps Hitler, Stalin, and Genghis Kahn

We believe in Masters and Johnson

What’s selected is average.

What’s average is normal.

What’s normal is good.

We believe in total disarmament.

We believe there are direct links between warfare and

bloodshed.

Americans should beat their guns into tractors .

And the Russians would be sure to follow.

We believe that man is essentially good.

It’s only his behavior that lets him down.

This is the fault of society.

Society is the fault of conditions.

Conditions are the fault of society.

We believe that each man must find the truth that

is right for him.

Reality will adapt accordingly.

The universe will readjust.

History will alter.

We believe that there is no absolute truth

excepting the truth

that there is no absolute truth.

We believe in the rejection of creeds,

And the flowering of individual thought.

If chance be

the Father of all flesh,

disaster is his rainbow in the sky.



Steve Turner, (English journalist), “Creed,” his satirical poem on the modern mind. Taken from Ravi Zacharias’ book Can Man live Without God? Pages 42-44
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
For someone who says that I may disagree, you seem to be very upset with my disagreement with your opinions.


Those were never the established norms, but aberrations. Just like the one that the court will be making legitimate.



I disagree that all changes are automatically better. No person can know all the ramifications from this change.
It doesn't upset me at all because I know you and your kind will never win. The tide has turned and those like me will get the same rights you have. Keep your opinion and shout it from the rooftops if you like. It's not going to change a thing.
Polygamy exists today. So I kind of doubt one can call it an aberration. Additionally, I didn't say that all changes were good. This one, however, is.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
So for you, keeping Black Americans in th back of the bus would have been just dandy, non? How about keeping all Japanese in interment camps. Maybe you'd like to add gays, lesbians, and transgender people in the interment camp as well, non? How about we force all people to adhere to your faith. Require that every citizen become Christian? Do you even begin to see how inane this is?
How on earth did you get this from anything I said? In fact please show anything I said that results in any conclusion you made.

I made a simplistic statement of fact. The universal truth that no moral system, and no legal system has ever applied to everyone equally in all ways. Not only has none ever done so, it would be moral insanity to even suggest it.

What I did not do was give any specific way any group or class ought to be treated beyond my example that it is not legal nor would it be moral to make it either legal for everyone to operate a motor vehicle or no one to operate one. Legal systems without qualifications for one do not exist, and two would not be moral if they did.

Since nothing you said can be derived from anything I said there is no need to counter what you said beyond pointing it out it had nothing to do with what I did. Laws do and should not apply to everyone equally regardless of circumstance.

Yes I do see how insane what you said is, which is probably why I did not suggest anything of the kind. We cannot discuss what circumstances determine how laws apply to groups of citizens until you can acknowledge the universal fact that they do not and should not apply to everyone universally without qualifications of some type. Once you admit his simplistic fact then we can move on to discuss what circumstances apply under what laws and why. Until this occurs, your assuming you know what I think about each circumstance is white noise and does not in any way apply to what I actually think.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
How on earth did you get this from anything I said? In fact please show anything I said that results in any conclusion you made.

I made a simplistic statement of fact. The universal truth that no moral system, and no legal system has ever applied to everyone equally in all ways. Not only has none ever done so, it would be moral insanity to even suggest it.

What I did not do was give any specific way any group or class ought to be treated beyond my example that it is not legal nor would it be moral to make it either legal for everyone to operate a motor vehicle or no one to operate one. Legal systems without qualifications for one do not exist, and two would not be moral if they did.

Since nothing you said can be derived from anything I said there is no need to counter what you said beyond pointing it out it had nothing to do with what I did. Laws do and should not apply to everyone equally regardless of circumstance.

Yes I do see how insane what you said is, which is probably why I did not suggest anything of the kind. We cannot discuss what circumstances determine how laws apply to groups of citizens until you can acknowledge the universal fact that they do not and should not apply to everyone universally without qualifications of some type. Once you admit his simplistic fact then we can move on to discuss what circumstances apply under what laws and why. Until this occurs, your assuming you know what I think about each circumstance is white noise and does not in any way apply to what I actually think.
All right. I do understand how laws are often not applied equally. The current troubles in ferguson and Baltimore should make that clear to about anyone. Otoh, I don't agree it's right. So back to the topic. Do you oppose or not the SSM debate? IMO, marriage is a universal right to any person who is an adult, of sound mind and loves whomever is their partner, meaning that gays, etc, have every right to marry under the auspices of the constitution. What is your view?
 
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