You're going to have to explain to me how that's a "female card" issue. I see it completely differently. Everyone has an expectation of privacy, at the heart that what's this issue is all about . . . how far that privacy extends when it abuts government business and how far does the government business aspect extend when it abuts the people's right to know what their government is doing. I think there are few people that wouldn't be interested in reading Ms. Clinton's private emails, but that's because they are salacious and we are a society of priggish voyeurs.
I agree everyone has an expectation to privacy in private matters.
Use of the proper protocol, that she was aware of and was in charge of making sure her own staff followed, would not have made Ms. Clinton's private emails a subject of concern. This is not like someone got hold of a few official emails sent from a personal account and decided that meant she had no right to privacy and ought to have all her private emails scrunitized.
Exclusive use of a private email account, on her own private server, I think "pulls in" the public domain into an area she had complete control over as remaining solely private, if she had not chosen to communicate in all her official governmental business from that location, only. It is not unlike, in times past -- before the internet, when official communication was done in paper form. It would be similar to all her official letters being housed on her own private property, her deciding what to turn over, and then burning the location that had housed everything. It doesn't look good.
What I meant about the "female" card, (and I may have used an inaccurate term) is I think it was an appeal to women to overlook her actions...like of course, as a mom you wouldn't want your daughter's personal wedding plans and things of that nature made public. I got the impression with that comment, she was trying to point to herself as a mom, and her personal business as having the higher priority for motivating her actions, instead of her duty as SOS -- and this whole matter is about her as SOS. It seemed a personal and emotional appeal, and I think the perception of women as being too personal and emotional for high level positions (is wrong, and) has been a major hurdle for women. So...telling us that she structured official governmental communication to be thoroughly mixed with her personal communications, and then being the only one to determine what the public has a right to see...and defending it with a personal/emotional appeal as a mama, didn't jive well with me.