=Aamer;3493375]God does not have a gender in Abrahamic faiths. Gender is something created by God. God is not confined by the same limitations as us humans. And there is only one creator so there can be no equal supreme power, male or female.
What i think is that Brahman according to some Hindus is also gender-less, but that does not mean that Brahman is limited to just being neutral, the creative power of Brahman is described as feminine, what this means is that the actual power of Brahman is considered feminine (not being separate completely from the Brahman), as Brahman is nothing without its power (Shakti/Maya) there is a kind of duality and non-duality at the same time, and as Brahmans power is considered to be working in the Physical Universe as he is considered omnipresent, therefore it is but logical to assume a form for the Power. It does not necessarily has to be feminine only, nor is it male, as the Murtis represent the names and powers only of Brahman there could be infinite or more commonly known the 33 million forms which are worshiped.
As for Murti Puja, although there may not be much said (either negative or positive) about in it texts, it is a natural tendency of humans to see things in the physical, even the words we speak, the sound it makes, the thought in our minds, our dreams and imaginations all are in the Physical universe or are a part of this Universe which is observed through our senses.
So those who do Murti Puja are just relating the unseen supreme power of Brahman with a physical aspect that portrays the characteristics described in some texts. This form of worship does not change the supreme, nor does it anger her, She is the Mother of all, all forms of worship are acceptable by her, she is not concerned with the way some portray her.
That is my understanding, so far.