Planets and the Sun
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I'm not Hindu but I agree with those who have said that it's an issue of appropriation and that it's not up for the offender to decide. It sounds mainly like it stemmed from ignorance on the part of non-Hindus, thinking it sounds more "mystical" and trying to attach themselves to it without truly getting it, which I think was very common in the 60s and still sometimes seems to be common today, people stereotyping certain religions and ethnicities as "more mystical and magical" and thinking therefore that they can come across that way by attaching themselves to it in a superficial manner.
I also think that among people of any group who is offended by something, you'll find people who don't care or don't find it offensive, but you'll also find people who do find it offensive. I think in such cases, it's important to listen to the perspective of the people who find it offensive, since it's often for very nuanced but valid reasons that are hard to miss, instead of assuming it's just fundamentalism speaking. Asking that outsiders have some respect for sacred elements in your religion is not necessarily fundamentalist.
Just my two cents for what they're worth.
I also think that among people of any group who is offended by something, you'll find people who don't care or don't find it offensive, but you'll also find people who do find it offensive. I think in such cases, it's important to listen to the perspective of the people who find it offensive, since it's often for very nuanced but valid reasons that are hard to miss, instead of assuming it's just fundamentalism speaking. Asking that outsiders have some respect for sacred elements in your religion is not necessarily fundamentalist.
Just my two cents for what they're worth.