Ah, it's the red herring of "socialization" as the biggest criticism of homeschooling families that strikes again!
Here, read this:
http://learninfreedom.org/socialization.html
Research has shown that homeschooled kids not only score at or above the national average on standardized testing, but they score at or above the national average on psychological testing on self-concept, social situations adjustment, and working with groups of peers and non-peers. In all, there has been NO studies out showing any evidence that homeschooling, by itself, taints a child's development in any way.
There ARE weird families out there who homeschool (we know a few), but these folks would be weird anyway whether they homeschool or not. *grins*
When it comes to Dana's education, it's largely self-directed, but we do organize our materials to fit her needs. This is turning out to work beautifully with her gifts in the graphic arts that she wouldn't have the opportunity to do if she were in a traditional school setting. Dana, by her nature, is a little social butterfly, so she continues to play with her friends when their school is out as well as being involved in gymnastics at a local center.
We have, I guess you can say, quite an eclectic curriculum...............a little bit from this, a little bit from that. Since she's still quite young at eight, mapping out her school work is easier than Ellen's would be (yet it sounds like you're working things out OK, there). For example, Dana's spelling is right on schedule, she's WAAYYY ahead with her reading comprehension skills and grammar, and just a little behind the national average in math computation (although she's already picking up my old high school Geometry books with great interest).
That's why we are a little eclectic with her current understanding of reading, writing, and 'rithmetic.
But, because of her educational freedom, she's able to pursue her love of art and animals. She has a great understanding of the arts of sciences, with skills in watercolors, charcoal sketchings, and sculptures. Dana already has a basic understanding of surrealistic and abstract art, and she's got piles and piles of her own artwork at home..................based on her favorite neopets characters no less.
I don't remember any kids her age when I was in school having any interests of art history and techniques other than learning how to draw an anatomically correct Wonder Woman (usually the boys were..........). I think this is a product of her educational freedom that she has as compared to her friends.
I agree on the state of education here in the U.S. as vastly underpreparing them for any kind of competition on the global market. We've been basing our standards on outcome-based education, which means that in order for everyone to pass, the brighter kids have to suffer. We tried a "gifted" program in math at our elementary school that I was in that blew my mind. I LOVED IT! For 90 minutes a day, three of us in our 5th grade class would travel over to the middle school where the accelerated 8th grade math teacher would introduce us to the abstracts of Trig. and eventually Pre-Cal. We eventually passed up the average honors program at our local high schools when it came to testing scores.
And...............I scored a personal 4th best individual score in our Illinois state math competition. :curtsy:
Unfortunately, the program was scrapped after a few years because of either funding, other parents' protests for how it was making their kids feel, or both. And I remember the rest of my education being..........like you'd said, Sharon............"chained to a chair." I was bored out of my mind, and I never learned anything new. Good thing I had my dancing as an outlet.
Anyway, Dana rarely needs motivation to learn. She's a human brain sponge. When she's really interested in something, she just soaks up everything about it. We do have a schedule at home, anyway, just to keep the house running smoothly, so we fit in her schoolwork time like we do everything else. So, in essence, she's not unschooled - or deschooled - since we are mostly there placing materials in front of her for her to complete.
OK, let's see:
Booko said:
1. Where do I find curricula and materials?
I have a list of literally dozens of curriculum providers that I could PM you, if you'd like, for more information. The list includes the k12 program, Excellence in Education, and Unit Studies program among others.
Booko said:
2. I know there are computer-aided curricula, and that's probably what I'd aim for anyway. At least, the one lady I know has her kids taking tests online, which for many things works well. For literary subjects, I'm a firm believer in getting used to writing essays early. You'll have to do plenty of that in college anyway.
There are a few correspondence courses that seem to work with families around the area with their kids. Online high schools that issue accredited diplomas are out there such as Compuhigh Online:
http://www.compuhigh.com
I haven't looked into it that much, but maybe you can get back to me on it with your opinion.
Booko said:
3. How do colleges handle admissions for homeschooled kids? Do the just take the GRE and SATs or what? There's not really a GPA to look at, is there?
No, not for kids who never stepped foot into a high school, but Ellen has a GPA already from her three years, right? At any rate, I understand that it's important to have a college admissions package, with test results from her ACTs, SATs, GREs, as well as anything you can put together for transcripts.............but I think it's best to talk with an admissions officer at the university that Ellen wants to go to first. Some colleges actually DON'T require an SAT score as part of the admissions process.
What I've heard as part of the most impressive points that homeschoolers have when applying to college and facing the interview with an officer or the entire board is
real life experience. It's always best to document her experience and accomplishments as well as any volunteering or apprenticeships she's done. Our state doesn't require it, but it's usually best to keep a daily log of her studies and activities that prepare her for college.
There are a lot of colleges that open their doors enthusiastically to homeschoolers. One of my students that I taught a couple of years ago at our university (I was adjunct staff for three years there) was homeschooled her whole life, attended university in Bulgaria for two years from the ages of 16-18, and then transferred to our dance department with a huge leg up on the other kids her age with her impressive transcript and credits. She graduated from college early at 20, and from what I know, is currently working on building collateral for a future dance studio that she wants to own and operate.
Not that Ellen has to go that particular route, but you see what I mean.
Hope that helps some. You go, girl! *does happy dance*
Peace,
Mystic