Tarred? I'm quite sure you meant "painted", or at least I hope so. And are you not striving for unity and oneness? That alone would warrant "lumping all Baha'is together".
Unity in diversity is the phrase. If you have a concern with what I say then speak to me. If you have a concern about what another Baha'i says talk to them. If you have a concern with what the Baha'i position then talk to a Baha'i. There are at least four that I know of who have contributed to this thread. They all seem like knowledgeable Baha'is and decent people as far as I can see.
Some very good advise. Are Baha'is willing to take it? I don't think the Hindus and Buddhists that have been speaking to you don't misunderstand what your saying about Krishna and Buddha, they disagree. And when an adherent gets what you're saying, but tries to inform you that you're misrepresenting or misinterpreting their faiths, you would be wise to listen.
And so far as giving offense? You do that when you ignore entire cultures and faiths that don't live up to your criteria. For a group trying to vie for world unity and peace, you're not off to a great start.
I can not say that I have had any in depth conversation with any Buddhists or Hindus on RF. I have with a few Christians, Jews and atheists. I have had an in depth conversation with Carlita on other threads.
I agree that some Hindus and Buddhists disagree with the Baha'i perception of their Faith. We're Baha'is, not Buddhists or Hindus.
Do we misrepresent these religions? If we claimed to represent these religions as Buddhists and Hindus then that would be true. However we are clear that we are Baha'is and have an understanding about Buddhism and Hinduism that differs from many adherents. That's an entirely different matter.
One view Baha'is have is that Buddhists and Hindus are manifestations of God. The problem is that many Hindus believe in many Gods, and many Buddhists belief in no God. That's a conversation for Baha'is to have with Buddhists and Hindus. Its an obvious problem for anyone investigating the Baha'i Faith too. Clearly the Baha'i have an explanation about why those differences exist. I recognise that explanation is not going to satisfy everybody and it will annoy some.
You have raised a question about ignoring entire cultures and faiths that don't live up to our criteria. What groups are they? It certainly isn't the pagans or atheists. Do you feel Baha'i reach for the ignore function as soon as they see the word pagan? Perhaps we run for the hills. I doubt if many would and I'm sure most would be happy to talk with you as I am.
Only, you do shun some. You say you wish to consort with people of all faiths, but this is a disingenuous claim when we can clearly see this not being the case with Pagan religions. Proving quite plainly that words are wind.
Honestly, do you feel that the Baha'is shun you because you are a Pagan? Some of us, myself included don't know very much about your beliefs. I don't know how much you know of the Baha'i faith and it may totally disinterest you. That doesn't mean we can't have a reasonable and civilised conversation as I hope we are doing now.