Simple. I am wrong, right. You have established that with evidence, verification and truth. It is a fact, that I am wrong since you know this with evidence, verification and truth.
That is nothing new to me. I have known that for over 20 years now as a radical skeptic. I was wrong 20 years ago and I still am. You are not the first one to notice that and you won't be the last one.
But I doubt it means, what you think it means, because I have been able to do it for over 20 years now. I know, that I am that, when I do racial skepticism. I know how to do and repeat it. I know how it as a kind of wrong works and I can replicate it again and again. And yet I am still here.
Somehow I doubt that it is problem for me, because then I would have noticed it.
So in general terms - you and I do certain negatives differently and I know that. You just know it differently.
Its not especially about being right or wrong, we are all wrong on occasions, the important thing as I see it, at least, is that if one is made aware or shown to be wrong, its about how one learn from that. And don't misunderstand what im saying here as meaning that I have shown you wrong, it have nothing to do with that.!! Its in general, how we as humans learn from our mistakes, because we all make them.
And the fact is, that if we are wrong about something, we experience that as if we are right.
If we were aware of ourselves being wrong about something, then clearly we wouldn't believe it, and if we did, we would be highly irrational.
So im not saying you are wrong about everything, but some things you are, at least in my opinion. But when I ask you a question and you have the chance to answer it to make your case, and then you dodge or refuse to answer it, it just doesn't help anything.
The reason solipsism doesn't make sense in my opinion, is because, if you can only know that your own mind exist. Then first of all, why wouldn't you assume that whoever you speak to is just part of your imagination? How do one make that distinction? So already here this whole idea becomes meaningless, because basically you might simply be arguing with yourself.
And being the person on the other side (Me for instance), why would I bother discussing anything, with someone that doesn't even think im real?
Furthermore, how do you know that you are not simply dreaming and nothing is real? How would you test that, if you can't even be sure that your perception of reality is real. A person would have no way to do this, because everything potentially only exist in their mind. So relying on evidence for anything is pointless, because how would someone know if it weren't just their mind playing tricks on them?
So when I ask why, I can't talk about objectivity without having first solved solipsism is because there would be nothing to solve. And even if solipsism were true, it would make no difference. Because If im the only mind, that I can be certain of is existing, then everything could potentially only exist in my mind, which first of all raises the question of how im able to interact with a physical reality, unless that is also just an imagination.
And if that is the case, what difference would it make? To me, my reality would still appear to be objectively testable, because that is how I experience it.
Therefore it becomes pointless even to consider solipsism as I see it.
So if a person choose to live their life as if that is the case, that is fine with me, but in that case, I really see no reason, to discuss anything with them.
Therefore it is much more useful and productive, to view it like this I think:
Both you and me, can agree that we live in a reality where apples and bananas exist.
What we can't agree on or even determine in the first place, is whether an apple is objectively better than a banana.
But if we at least can agree, that we live in the same type of reality, then we have a chance of communicating.