"The glib assertions by many scientists and science popularizers that ‘nobody understands quantum mechanics’ – another Feynman idiom – is balderdash. Competent physicists (as opposed to poorly informed science writers or science philosophers), who use quantum mechanics on a daily basis to elucidate successfully countless physical phenomena, clearly must understand the instrument with which they are working."
Silverman, M. P. (2008). Quantum superposition: counterintuitive consequences of coherence, entanglement, and interference. Springer.
There is a difference between not fully understanding a subject, and not knowing it. Nobody knows everything (nor does anybody know even something about every topic, subject, or field). Generally, however, the less one knows about some field or fields, the less they should say about them. There are exceptions, of course, such as philosophical discussions about the nature of reality, in which everybody has experience just be existing, and thus everyone has something to contribute. But not every body contributes the same way or can contribute the same things.
You've made claims about the physical, as have I. Namely, I've said your definition is overly constrained (and I would add simplistic), because it doesn't reflect reality. To show this, I've try to elucidate some notions from physics that make it clear simple treatments such as dividing everything into either physical or conceptual. Physics is not the only way to show the problems with your schema, but it seemed the most natural.
Again, gravitons aren't in QM. That was the point. You made a claim about how simple it was to categorize something as physical, and if we use your reasoning than gravitons are physical/real, and we loose most of the natural sciences.