How Important to You is Having a Sexually Creative Partner?

[Sunstone]

How important to you is having a sexually creative partner?

Please note: A "creative" partner, for the purposes of this thread, is someone who tends to come up with new (to them, at least), effective ways of heightening sexual fulfillment -- either yours, theirs, or both yours and theirs.

Creative partners can be both adventuresome partners and creative partners, but they are not merely adventuresome. They do not merely copy known sexual practices, techniques, or approaches such as a merely adventuresome partner might Instead, creative partners are innovators, inventors of "ideas" that they themselves at least have never heard of before.

 

[StarryNightshade]

Eh, not really.

I'm a (sexually) simple person and as long as both of us are satisfied, I don't really care if how we get to that point is creative or not. I know what I like and what my partner likes. Unless both of us are feeling particularly adventurous, I don't see the point in trying something out that could potentially be either underwhelming or just a bad experience overall.

In short: if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

[Skwim]

Sex is a terrible thing to waste on missionaries.

And if a woman, in my case, can't come up with something new she should at least be willing to seriously consider what I come up with. A couple of times my s. o. and I have gone out to dinner when she was "wearing" a remote control vibrating egg and I had control of the remote. She absolutely loved it, and I got a kick out of watching her reaction every time I turned it on. It was hilarious fun for both of us.


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[BSM1]

Sex is a terrible thing to waste on missionaries.

And if a woman, in my case, can't come up with something new she should at least be willing to seriously consider what I come up with. A couple of times my s. o. and I have gone out to dinner when she was "wearing" a remote control vibrating egg and I had control of the remote. She absolutely loved it, and I got a kick out of watching her reaction every time I turned it on. It was hilarious fun for both of us.


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That was your wife? Kudos.

 

[Skwim]

That was your wife? Kudos.

All I'll say is that it was my significant other. Oh yes, it was not someone else's wife.


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[Deidre]

It's important only in as much as we both care about each other's pleasure, and not that we are trying to ''impress'' each other with stuff we read or heard about.